Meet the Other Phone. A phone that grows with your child.

Meet the Other Phone.
A phone that grows with your child.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Summer holidays should be longer

835 replies

noblegiraffe · 21/07/2025 09:24

Our kids have the shortest summer holidays in Europe, Italy have 13 weeks, even Ireland has 9.

They're under pressure so much at school they need more time to just be kids. Classrooms are so hot in the last few weeks of term that it's impossible to learn effectively anyway.

I think we should add at least an extra two weeks to the summer holidays, so break up near the start of July. This would bring us more into line with private schools too.

And with longer holidays it might help recruit and retain teachers, and reduce competition for summer annual leave slots for working parents. It could even reduce the cost of holidays as 'peak season' would be longer.

Summer holidays should be longer
OP posts:
Thread gallery
13
ConnieHeart · 21/07/2025 16:12

MrsMurphyIWish · 21/07/2025 16:11

I bloody wish - and I’m sure teaching would be a highly competitive career to enter into if we were on holiday more than working!

No it wouldn't as teachers & other education staff don't get paid for holidays

hellohellooo · 21/07/2025 16:13

@noblegiraffe we have some great Gaelic football camps

So for example three weeks and it is 10 pound per day per child

I have to also pay for extra child care as I am working all summer
Off for a week in sept

I can't believe the summer holidays in England and wales are so short
Way too short I think

twistyizzy · 21/07/2025 16:15

MrsMurphyIWish · 21/07/2025 16:09

But you said that was because they have clubs til 5 but finish lessons at 4. The state school I teach in, and the school my children attend, finish at 3.45 so not that much earlier that your child’s independent.

There is a state school near me that finishes at 3 but they start at 8.20.

Does your DD attend school on a Saturday?

Yes attends Saturday mornings also
Our local state finishes at 2.30pm

floppybit · 21/07/2025 16:17

@waterrat totally agree - there will be children who spend most of the holidays stuck indoors on screens, not frolicking around outside, unfortunately.

MellowPinkDeer · 21/07/2025 16:22

Slightyamusedandsilly · 21/07/2025 15:33

I accept the 2nd part of your comment. But education needs a massive shake up, whether it be school holidays or some other aspect. As it is at the moment, it fails too many children.

But as for the first part, that's on you.

How can it be on me ?! I actually work from home and my kids are older so it wouldn’t be a big deal really personally , but I can at least see that this would be the stark choice many families would be faced with and what we don’t need as a country is more people in need of help from the state because decisions have been made that make it even harder for working parents. I’ve always worked full time since my babies were born but it was not easy, at all, when they were smaller ( and I was in the office 5 days pre covid) it shouldn’t have to be so hard to invest in your future and have a career.

coxesorangepippin · 21/07/2025 16:23

Yes to longer holidays

As long as there are camps for kids to go to

And none of this flimsy 9-2pm shit - proper day camps like in the States and Canada

WhereIsMyJumper · 21/07/2025 16:28

I agree with the suggestion someone made about 4 day school/work weeks instead

Bushmillsbabe · 21/07/2025 16:32

waterrat · 21/07/2025 09:34

Op the problem is that it is a massive driver of social inequality.

If we had amazing state funded sport and arts clubs for kids going through to 16 years then yes it would be amazing

But I live in a disadvantaged area and can tell you many children from poorer families will barely do anything all summer. We know with growth in traffic and changing culture children dont play outside in large numbers now. Kids will game or watch tv for hours.

Working parents on low incomes will struggle hugely over summer.

Children will not be enriched or happy or having wonderful holidays and making memories.

Even if they do have some nice days they will spend too much time indoors etx

We need proper holiday clubs and projects in every neighbourhood byt austerity has decimated youth snd play provision

Many local authorities lost 80 per cent of youth and play provision over 10 years of austerity.

School is not the ideal way children should be spending their time...!!! But we need realistic alternatives not a daydream of a golden era of running about freely which doesn't happen

There don't have to be government funded. Our village has a variety of options free or low cost through a combination of village fundraising, getting grants, volunteers giving up time.
If I help for 2 days my children get a whole weeks plsyscheme for free. A drama related playscheme my oldest auditioned for and got a free week, a local church run free playscheme for my youngest, and older children 12+ can volunteer with this and get to do lots of fun activities for free plus goes towards things like DoE. We share childcare with neighbours/friends - I have their for a day whilst they work and vice versa.

There are HAF funded playschemes for those on low incomes. There are lots of options which are free or inexpensive, but it takes being proactive, doing research and planning ahead.

Saying all that, I wouldn't want to have to figure it out for more than 7 weeks!

Praying4Peace · 21/07/2025 16:35

Never going to happen unless parents annual leave is increased also

Bushmillsbabe · 21/07/2025 16:35

DorothyStorm · 21/07/2025 15:14

My state sixth form college finished at 5. We also only attended four days.

For 6th form that makes a lot of sense, at 17/18 children are getting ready to start work. And having 5th day allows for part time jobs, study etc.
But I think primary age may struggle to focus until 5pm, especially under 7's

Flossflower · 21/07/2025 16:41

Agapornis · 21/07/2025 13:08

@noblegiraffe where is that graph from? I can only find it in a Twitter post. It looks like it was produced by the Guardian but I can't find it on their website. It says the data comes from Statista, so here's one with the correct amount of weeks for the Netherlands. Data is for primary school only.

So apart from Sweden and Finland, all countries were in will be very hot in the summer months.

user1476613140 · 21/07/2025 16:46

Needmorelego · 21/07/2025 13:43

But you go back in August.
Do you get extra in October or Christmas?

Two weeks October and I think there's a day off in November IIRC. Two weeks off at Christmas too.

waterrat · 21/07/2025 16:50

@Bushmillsbabe that sounds amazing but let's be honest that is a postcode lottery. Many areas have nothing like that. and plenty of people are not able to volunteer for two days a week. It doesn't just take organisation it takes luck/ what's available locally (and I'm speaking as someone who does volunteer with children so I'm aware of the benefits it can bring to do that - I do it to help my own child as you do with yours - but that isn't a replacement for proper long term services for children) .

I actually really dislike the way HAF is run as well - it's very piecemeal -ie. random depending on who runs what each holiday lots of children can't just 'jump' into any old childcare - sadly for me as a working parent my 11 year old has never been able to do that due to her autism.

My duaghters two best friends quality for HAF and she doesn't - how sad that they can't all try some projects together.

It's run very un inclusively - ie./ this is a 'haf' project - so kids go tot it because its free not because they actually want to or their friends are going.

One exception to this is the amazing provision of adventure playgrounds - which exist in some cities and I k now that they are run with Haf woven through the provision ie. ALL children are welcome - and the HAF money ensures ALL Children that attend can be looked after and fed. This is far more inclusive - children don't feel like they are getting special. ';poor child' provision.

It really isn't true that with a bit of organising all parents could cover the whole summer.

Luckyingame · 21/07/2025 17:08

MrsMurphyIWish · 21/07/2025 16:11

I bloody wish - and I’m sure teaching would be a highly competitive career to enter into if we were on holiday more than working!

Not the teachers, miss Murphy, the kids.😁
Am aware that teachers work even when kids are not present!

BeamMeUpCountMeIn · 21/07/2025 17:16

Bushmillsbabe · 21/07/2025 16:32

There don't have to be government funded. Our village has a variety of options free or low cost through a combination of village fundraising, getting grants, volunteers giving up time.
If I help for 2 days my children get a whole weeks plsyscheme for free. A drama related playscheme my oldest auditioned for and got a free week, a local church run free playscheme for my youngest, and older children 12+ can volunteer with this and get to do lots of fun activities for free plus goes towards things like DoE. We share childcare with neighbours/friends - I have their for a day whilst they work and vice versa.

There are HAF funded playschemes for those on low incomes. There are lots of options which are free or inexpensive, but it takes being proactive, doing research and planning ahead.

Saying all that, I wouldn't want to have to figure it out for more than 7 weeks!

The thing is, the kids who really really need that extra support over the holidays don't usually have parents who care to organise it for them.

Zoono · 21/07/2025 17:30

It's a stupid idea. How will single parents possibly cover the cost of childcare? It would be dire for children living in poverty etc.

Vivienne1000 · 21/07/2025 17:31

Support staff don’t get paid for all the holidays so get 6 weeks of pay deducted. If you added 2 more weeks to the summer they would get 8 weeks pay deducted. It would not be worth working in a school.

CruCru · 21/07/2025 17:41

It’s an interesting thread - usually threads in the summer holidays say that they should be shorter.

Someone upthread said that ideally there wouldn’t be any half terms so the summer holidays could be longer. The problem is that many schools don’t want the children in for more than six weeks at a time.

It’s possible that if schools genuinely got to pick their holidays (subject to having a certain number of weeks - 13? - a year), the schools with a more affluent intake may choose a long summer holiday while those whose intake is poorer may choose to have more, shorter, holidays throughout the year. The problem with this (apart from cases where siblings are at different schools) is that the long summer holidays become a bit of a status symbol.

Someone else upthread said that parents at private schools don’t face consequences for taking them out of school - not true! They don’t get fined but they still have to share their attendance figures with the local authority. Taking children out of school is disruptive for the class.

C36M · 21/07/2025 17:53

T1Dmom · 21/07/2025 09:27

No chance, six weeks is to long. If anything it should start at the beginning of July (or even the last week of June) and go back mid August when its cooled down.
My kids are bored by the third week in!

I would much more prefer a week added to Christmas & a week added to October half term and cut the summer hoildays into 4 weeks though.

Edited

Maybe do some more fun things with them if you’re bored. Enjoy them while they are young. I’ll never understand why parents want less time with their children. We all had 6 weeks off when we were children, why take that away from your own children?

JennyBG · 21/07/2025 17:59

noblegiraffe · 21/07/2025 09:55

Ah, maybe we could have longer holidays down south then, and the NW can stay at school longer. I think they have lower educational outcomes than the south so it might help reduce that inequality. (Note I am not being serious).

Maybe not serious, but certainly very rude, even if it was in jest.

MrsPositivity1 · 21/07/2025 17:59

Jeepers teachers get long enough as it is.

Confusdworriedmum · 21/07/2025 17:59

nam3c4ang3 · 21/07/2025 11:38

We get almost two months for summer amongst all the other holidays - December, October etc etc - it’s far TOO much, my kids are so bored and it costs us a absolute fortune for clubs, we don’t get much work holiday and we both travel for work - summer is especially busy - what do you propose we do op?

Didn't you consider that before having children?
There are always parents who say there's too much holiday, what about work? But the holidays have been the same for years and you still make the choice to have children so you can't really complain about school holidays.

Idonthavechangesorry · 21/07/2025 18:00

I was born and raised in Italy. We only had about 3 weeks off during the year, and then a 3 months+ off for summer. The last day of school was usually around May 31st, and we’d go back between September 15th and 20th. This hasn't changed and it due to the extreme heat. It can reach up to 50 degrees making it nearly impossible to stay in school. My parents didn’t struggle with childcare because my mam was a housewife, but nowadays many working parents do struggle. Most rely on grandparents or summer clubs, as childminders don’t exist there. Personally, I think 6 weeks of summer holidays is more than enough!

BlueEyedStarling · 21/07/2025 18:00

Samesame47 · 21/07/2025 09:35

I think teachers get more than enough holidays and I don’t think school is too much pressure for kids (I have a 16 and 17 year old).

Teachers aren't paid for the school holidays, bar 5 weeks. They are paid pro rata. Tbh, teachers would leave in droves if the holidays were shorter, so that's a non starter.

Flossflower · 21/07/2025 18:04

C36M · 21/07/2025 17:53

Maybe do some more fun things with them if you’re bored. Enjoy them while they are young. I’ll never understand why parents want less time with their children. We all had 6 weeks off when we were children, why take that away from your own children?

You do know that most parents only get 2 weeks leave in the summer.

Swipe left for the next trending thread