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To think the CEO caught at Coldplay resigning is a bit of a performance

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CEOhno · 20/07/2025 08:41

I just... don't get it. I'm not condoning affairs but people do it all the time. I don't understand why they had to resign. Their personal lives deserve to blow up, of course, but it's a bit puritanical and false to pretend that, as a society, we care this much.

It doesn't affect their ability to do their jobs, if the cameras hadn't caught them there wouldn't have been nearly as much fuss. I hate the social media panic and showmanship.

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Bigcat25 · 20/07/2025 17:14

A minor point but a ceo is meant to be working resonably hard. Everyone should have a personal life, but if you have a family life and are conducting an affair you may be seen as not being as dedicated as perhaps you should be to your job. That said I read that he and his wife were separated.

ThatCyanCat · 20/07/2025 17:33

Bigcat25 · 20/07/2025 17:14

A minor point but a ceo is meant to be working resonably hard. Everyone should have a personal life, but if you have a family life and are conducting an affair you may be seen as not being as dedicated as perhaps you should be to your job. That said I read that he and his wife were separated.

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There's really no reason an affair should take up any more of your time and energy than a golf habit. From what I know of golfers, that probably takes more time and money than an OW.

It's wrong to cheat and he can't stay in position with an undisclosed relationship with a subordinate but I think this is a reach.

amigafan2003 · 20/07/2025 18:08

oudle · 20/07/2025 11:18

It does affect thier job though - it demonstrates a severe lack of judgement, untrustworthiness, and let alone the inappropriateness of relationships with subordinates and the problematic power dynamics their in.

I work in education with friends & family in the NHS & police. Affairs are rife & not just within but doctors and patients, police & victims/criminals etc. If they all lost their jobs I am not sure we would have enough staff!

Oh well, then that's ok then.

EBearhug · 20/07/2025 20:16

SweetcornFritter · 20/07/2025 13:34

No none of those things apply to me but if they did my comment still stands. The worldwide shame and humiliation this has brought not just to me but to my loved ones would make me want to die. You may not feel the same as me but I’m expressing how I would feel about it.

But because you feel that way, it would probably stop you behaving in such a way in the first place, so you wouldn't risk it.

SweetcornFritter · 21/07/2025 08:22

EBearhug · 20/07/2025 20:16

But because you feel that way, it would probably stop you behaving in such a way in the first place, so you wouldn't risk it.

I have said and done things in the past that I am ashamed of (not cheating) that I have either gotten away with of made amends for, that had it become known worldwide and made a mockery of would have made the shame and embarrassment brought on me and my loved ones hard to bear. I don’t even understand why this is a contentious point really, it seems pretty obvious to me that these two people will be feeling beyond terrible right now and the story simply will not go away. The Times has carried a new version of it on the front page of their website for days now. Enough already - if this ends in a tragedy, then what?

pourmeadrinkpls · 21/07/2025 08:24

Star81 · 20/07/2025 08:42

The amount of bad publicity for the company they work for makes their positions untenable.

This. Also who is so dumb they go to a concert with their affair partner, someone was bound to see them. He should be resigning for being so dumb

maudelovesharold · 21/07/2025 13:31

Also who is so dumb they go to a concert with their affair partner, someone was bound to see them. He should be resigning for being so dumb

Grin
whitewineandsun · 21/07/2025 14:44

pourmeadrinkpls · 21/07/2025 08:24

This. Also who is so dumb they go to a concert with their affair partner, someone was bound to see them. He should be resigning for being so dumb

It is that simple Grin

MidnightMeltdown · 21/07/2025 15:05

I dunno, I think if they were both junior it would be different, but when somebody in a leadership position does something like this their reputation is shot. They are supposed to be representing the company and leading by example, and they will never be respected or taken seriously by their colleagues again. They would be the butt of every joke.

ThrowAwayHooray · 21/07/2025 16:08

Apparently his wife has filed for divorce so the cynic in me wonders if he also resigned to minimise the divorce settlement / child support.

MidnightMeltdown · 21/07/2025 16:21

ThrowAwayHooray · 21/07/2025 16:08

Apparently his wife has filed for divorce so the cynic in me wonders if he also resigned to minimise the divorce settlement / child support.

He would have been forced out. Not a chance he would be able to keep his job after that. I’m surprised that she hasn’t gone too tbh, she’s the head of HR!

They’re both old and well paid so probably have plenty to take early retirement anyway.

NewsdeskJC · 21/07/2025 17:10

Frankly, if i was doing business and I had evidence that the CEO was capable of
A) lying point blank to his nearest and dearest
B) was so arrogant or had such poor judgement to do it in public
C) had concerns as to the impact on the financials of the business.

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