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Thread 9: To feel disappointed after reading this in The Observer about the author and her husband from The Salt Path book and film?

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DisappointedReader · 20/07/2025 00:16

The Observer The real Salt Path: how a blockbuster book and film were ...

2nd Observer https://observer.co.uk/news/national/article/the-salt-path-whats-in-the-book-and-what-the-observer-has-found

3rd Observer https://observer.co.uk/news/national/article/the-salt-path-the-truth-behind-the-blockbuster-book-video

4th Observer ‘I felt I was being gaslit’ – the landlord who helped Ray...

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Raynor Winn/Sally Walker's statement Raynor Winn

New posters welcome. It would be helpful to read at least the four Observer items above before posting.

To all - Please be extremely cautious when it comes to naming or implicating people and addresses not in the public eye or with no direct connection to the story, and around the understandable health speculations, especially where details are unclear or still emerging. Please do not engage with visitors who seem to have their own agenda and seek to derail. Avoid @'ing and quoting them as this will only encourage them back to the threads.

We have done amazingly well together - in the main that is, not mentioning any names but you know who you are! - for eight threads so far. I can't be on the threads as much as I'd like so all help with keeping our discussion ticking along in a healthy and civil fashion is very welcome.

No saltiness. Keep to the path. Thank you.

The real Salt Path: what’s in the book, and what The Obse...

The real Salt Path: what’s in the book, and what The Obse...

Raynor and Moth Winn’s redemptive journey from penury and homelessness led to a bestselling book. The truth behind it is very different

https://observer.co.uk/news/national/article/the-salt-path-whats-in-the-book-and-what-the-observer-has-found

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gattocattivo · 22/07/2025 18:41

AldoGordo · 22/07/2025 17:36

Interesting. I agree about the "not outright lies" lies. It seems like most of them have origins in real life experiences but they've evolved and been twisted beyond recognition...much like Moth looking like Simon Armitage. Maybe the SA reference is the key to all of this. Sally's calling card.

I agree. And I think these vague origins in real events probably enable RW to justify/excuse/fudge (see what I did there!) in her own mind what she’s written.

eg: presuming the account of the loan at 18% interest and with a charge on their house is accurate, RW probably genuinely did feel aggrieved, and that they were being shafted because obviously that seems an extortionate rate. That fact enables her to feel like a victim, that this horrible man lent them money but on terrible terms. She’s conveniently airbrushed out the fact that the loan was to pay back money she has allegedly stolen, and that she would have willingly entered into that agreement to avoid potential prosecution.

I’ve also been thinking back on that interview with Jason Isaacs (mentioned by a pp) where she gave the usual scripted answers and JI basically said ‘I’ll say it because you can’t: you were conned out of everything.”

now of course the timing of that interview was before the Observer story broke, but after the newspaper had contacted RW
multiple times wanting to talk. Was RW hedging her bets, avoiding being the one to go on live TV saying she’d been conned out of everything, knowing that possibly the truth was coming out imminently? I assume by this stage, she must have spoken with lawyers…. Was she advised to avoid certain topics?

however this plays out next, if the Observer account is true (and as it would have been properly researched and checked by lawyers, and RW hasn’t given a satisfactory rebuttal it seems highly likely it is) then I can’t see how RW can worm out of anything. No amount of ‘artistic license’ can justify what she’s done.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 22/07/2025 18:41

Fandango52 · 22/07/2025 18:34

That sounds so bizarre!!

Doesn't it just.

The other thing I'm wondering about is does the papers still doorstep people like they did in the 90s? Obviously I'm not advocating this for them but it's very strange that if @SereneLilac knows their location thanks to their Cornish spy (that's a novel title if ever I've heard one) that the papers are unaware of it and RayMoth haven't had a journo or two knocking on their door. Pretty sure we would've heard about it, even if they just got a "no comment".

Just wondering if there has been some legal letters floating about.

exasperatedflatmate · 22/07/2025 18:54

@SereneLilacI also think I know where they are, as do several people I know. SW revealed her location (reluctantly and cryptically) after an event in Cornwall not long before the story broke.
I can’t honestly imagine that the whole village doesn’t know… tho it’s probable the Walkers have at least temporarily vacated.

it may have been my post you saw that named the location - shortly after posting I asked MN to remove it.

SereneLilac · 22/07/2025 18:57

exasperatedflatmate · 22/07/2025 18:54

@SereneLilacI also think I know where they are, as do several people I know. SW revealed her location (reluctantly and cryptically) after an event in Cornwall not long before the story broke.
I can’t honestly imagine that the whole village doesn’t know… tho it’s probable the Walkers have at least temporarily vacated.

it may have been my post you saw that named the location - shortly after posting I asked MN to remove it.

It was, yes. I hope I haven't overstepped by referring to it. It's near there, not the village itself.

ZiggyPlaysGuitarrr · 22/07/2025 18:58

MarmiteWine · 22/07/2025 18:21

I'm a tad disappointed that, after delurking, I find myself without any relevant skills to offer for a portfolio.

Except, perhaps, in mis-naming people, which is a little ironic given that name changes is one of the reasons we're all here!

On a separate note, with the reminder about Martyn's blog, it occurred to me that if SalRay had aspirations to be a writer, she must surely have had a blog back in the day. I've spent far too many hours trying different searches to track one down.

I'm not so sure. She makes several references in both TSP and TWS to being something of a technophobe. They just had one old brick phone between them on the SWCP, and she was quite resistant to and clueless about promoting TSP on social media.

On the other hand we have to take everything in the books with a pinch of salt (pun intended) and RayMoth appear to be behind the Gangani website so who knows...

WorthySloth · 22/07/2025 19:01

MarmiteWine · 22/07/2025 18:24

My top tip, without treading on The Fudge Correspondent's toes, is to buy them from discount stores like Home Bargains, B&M, The Range.

Still far too small, but slightly less pricey.

Thank you 👍 tbh I only bothered because of the discount code. I could do without eating chocolate 🤣🤣

exasperatedflatmate · 22/07/2025 19:04

@SereneLilac. It was up for no more than 5 mins when I realised I’d done something daft and inappropriate.

But yes, pretty sure that’s the location.

AldoGordo · 22/07/2025 19:06

Fandango52 · 22/07/2025 18:34

That sounds so bizarre!!

Sounds like a backstory to explain why they moved from the orchard....where they were for 4 years!

TheBrandyPath · 22/07/2025 19:06

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 22/07/2025 18:41

Doesn't it just.

The other thing I'm wondering about is does the papers still doorstep people like they did in the 90s? Obviously I'm not advocating this for them but it's very strange that if @SereneLilac knows their location thanks to their Cornish spy (that's a novel title if ever I've heard one) that the papers are unaware of it and RayMoth haven't had a journo or two knocking on their door. Pretty sure we would've heard about it, even if they just got a "no comment".

Just wondering if there has been some legal letters floating about.

We know that the Daily Mail did to Bill on the cider farm. They had got wind of what was going to be in The Observer, I think, but he wouldn't also talk to them.

SereneLilac · 22/07/2025 19:07

exasperatedflatmate · 22/07/2025 19:04

@SereneLilac. It was up for no more than 5 mins when I realised I’d done something daft and inappropriate.

But yes, pretty sure that’s the location.

In which case, as @AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta mentioned, surely the press must also know. Maybe it's not a big enough issue for them, or there are indeed legal letters flying around.

Singsong333 · 22/07/2025 19:10

Interesting latest Amazon review. If you look under the audible reviews for TSP choosing ' most recent reviews ' first. HOW this book ever got past an editor/editorial team is extraordinary.

MarmiteWine · 22/07/2025 19:12

ZiggyPlaysGuitarrr · 22/07/2025 18:58

I'm not so sure. She makes several references in both TSP and TWS to being something of a technophobe. They just had one old brick phone between them on the SWCP, and she was quite resistant to and clueless about promoting TSP on social media.

On the other hand we have to take everything in the books with a pinch of salt (pun intended) and RayMoth appear to be behind the Gangani website so who knows...

I don't know. Brick phone in 2013 (if that's true) doesn't mean there wasn't a laptop, or even desktop, computer in use long before that.

If we accept that she (or he) was Izzy W-T then it all just seems a bit too unlikely that they managed to produce an apparently readable book out of thin air just when they needed it.

Knowing that Martyn (and probably his son) were writing blogs at that time feels like it's something that would have been on SalRay's radar.

exasperatedflatmate · 22/07/2025 19:14

Thing is @SereneLilac, if they did know they’d still go to the village regardless, for some
colour. They’d chat to the lady in the village shop, and the publican.

‘People in xxxxxx know Sally Walker as Raynor Winn, but haven’t seen her since xx. Before that they sensed a woman who valued her privacy and so respected that… Her home is a pretty ……. Surrounded by roses … blah blah’
There’s always something to say! So I think it’s possible journalists don’t know. I agree that’s strange though!

sualipa · 22/07/2025 19:18

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SereneLilac · 22/07/2025 19:21

@exasperatedflatmate

They would, wouldn't they? Hmmm. Curiouser and curiouser 🤔

AlertCat · 22/07/2025 19:33

ZiggyPlaysGuitarrr · 22/07/2025 18:58

I'm not so sure. She makes several references in both TSP and TWS to being something of a technophobe. They just had one old brick phone between them on the SWCP, and she was quite resistant to and clueless about promoting TSP on social media.

On the other hand we have to take everything in the books with a pinch of salt (pun intended) and RayMoth appear to be behind the Gangani website so who knows...

Could one of their children have written the Gangani stuff?

AlertCat · 22/07/2025 19:39

TheBrandyPath · 22/07/2025 17:27

Put me right if this has already been covered but I have come across people being told that Moth's real name is Ray. I can't remember where I first saw it - it was someone who had asked IzSalRay at a literary festival about the name Moth - but she had posted on a thread that "he's really called Ray". Also this: Wendy answers “Can anyone tell me about the name 'Moth'. ...” — The Wild Silence Q&A

I have passed on my copy of TSP now but when I re read it recently I could swear the first chapter says that Moth is a nickname from eco activism- real name Ray. Can anyone check?

also could that have been edited out in later editions? It could be a mistake? OR a cunning plan to throw us all off the scent!! Not Tim at all!

candycane222 · 22/07/2025 19:41

AlertCat · 22/07/2025 19:33

Could one of their children have written the Gangani stuff?

I don't think Salray did that webpage as the name of her childhood village was misspelled.

But they would obviously have been involved as it was their house on there!

Still even if you have a blog, creating a url , promoting the draw etc might need some outside help. Not sure I'd know how to do that, or would have done back then at any rate?

AlertCat · 22/07/2025 19:42

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 22/07/2025 18:12

I'm wondering whether, if Moths illness takes a turn for the worse or has taken one, whether SW might use that to illicit sympathy and divert from any misdeeds she might have undertaken and to silence the bad press.

I would think that's a given unfortunately.
Talking of Moth and his illness I listened again recently to Jason Isaacs Table Manners interview, he was asked if RayMoth have got a house now and replied along the lines that they can't because if Moth stays in one place for too long he'll forget everything again so he must be continually moving.

I'm not saying that's not true but it sounds mightily strange.

If I had to keep moving, and had enough money to not be tied to one area, I’d go off proper travelling. In a van, or extended camping to lovely places.

Fandango52 · 22/07/2025 19:46

AlertCat · 22/07/2025 19:39

I have passed on my copy of TSP now but when I re read it recently I could swear the first chapter says that Moth is a nickname from eco activism- real name Ray. Can anyone check?

also could that have been edited out in later editions? It could be a mistake? OR a cunning plan to throw us all off the scent!! Not Tim at all!

Can’t find anything on this in the book - just in the Independent article I linked to above.

Spindleweed · 22/07/2025 19:55

AlertCat · 22/07/2025 19:39

I have passed on my copy of TSP now but when I re read it recently I could swear the first chapter says that Moth is a nickname from eco activism- real name Ray. Can anyone check?

also could that have been edited out in later editions? It could be a mistake? OR a cunning plan to throw us all off the scent!! Not Tim at all!

Not in TSP. I just searched my Kindle version, and the only mention of ‘Ray’ is Raynor or sun rays, and the only mention of eco warrior is Moth reminiscing.

RainyTuesdaysAndSunnyWednesdays · 22/07/2025 19:55

DisappointedReader · 20/07/2025 18:07

I'm sorry to hear you've had to deal with it. Thanks for the insight and I agree with you.

A major issue for me is that Raynor/Sally Walker would have been going into the offices every day - well, maybe not every day if she was part-time - and facing her bosses the Hemmings and her colleagues. Not only facing them but interacting with them, chatting with them, having a cup of tea with them. While all the time stealing from them. I can't imagine being able to do that unless my earthly life or my children's earthly lives, for example, depended upon it. Even then, I'm not sure that I could carry it off without shaking or breaking down, especially with people I knew and who trusted me. I say that too as someone who has had to keep my composure in some very difficult situations in life, personally and professionally.

I have just started reading TWS and was surprised by how uneasy RW was around people, but after reading @DisappointedReader 's comment, I realised that there would have also been a gap between having the £9,000 deficit discovered and the NDA coming into force (when the Hemmings were scrutinising the accounts / the police were getting jnitial info about the losses / the Walker's disappearance). At this time, although the Hemmings may have tried to keep it quiet, family, staff, bank staff and police would have probably known and then after the NDA was signed, the Walkers carried on living in the area for about 5 years. I would have been mortified (not that I would have been in that situation) that everyone that I met locally would have known what I had been done / been accused of and was talking behind my back, and so her unease around people becomes a lot more understandable - she thinks that everyone is judging her, even though she probably believes in her own mind that she is innocent.

Or am I just attributing normal honest feelings to a not so honest person?

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 22/07/2025 19:57

AlertCat · 22/07/2025 19:42

If I had to keep moving, and had enough money to not be tied to one area, I’d go off proper travelling. In a van, or extended camping to lovely places.

Don't forget your Fudge bars.

TheBrandyPath · 22/07/2025 20:01

AlertCat · 22/07/2025 19:39

I have passed on my copy of TSP now but when I re read it recently I could swear the first chapter says that Moth is a nickname from eco activism- real name Ray. Can anyone check?

also could that have been edited out in later editions? It could be a mistake? OR a cunning plan to throw us all off the scent!! Not Tim at all!

Looking for Ray didn't find him but did confirm it wasn't an Aga!

AlertCat · 22/07/2025 20:05

Spindleweed · 22/07/2025 19:55

Not in TSP. I just searched my Kindle version, and the only mention of ‘Ray’ is Raynor or sun rays, and the only mention of eco warrior is Moth reminiscing.

Hmm. I feel sure it was in there, the first and second times I read it. I don’t think I have read the independent article linked above.
Perhaps mine was an earlier edition. Kindle can edit books stored on your device too.

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