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Left job after feeling let down

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Mazybabe · 19/07/2025 18:38

I worked for a large corporation for just over 6 years. I was a model employee with no issues.

Our company had a restructure meaning that we had a new team with a different line manager. A couple in the team were toxic. They spoke poorly of each other and were gossiping a lot. They didn’t like the incoming phone line and decided it needed a rota to split the cover. It was more to accommodate fag breaks as they stood outside together getting someone to cover.

My personal circumstances were that I’ve had 6 rounds of IVF with varying degrees of success, pregnant them miscarried, pregnant then ectopic pregnancy, anemia needing a full blood transfusion. So this meant I had a lot of time off. Work policies were fine with it but some in my team were unsupportive.

After the last episode of IVF and time off I returned to work, it was okay but felt pressured from one individual with digs about staff levels, covering my work and just really felt she was being a bitch. It was passive aggressive messages on Teams etc. This person knew that I’d returned after another miscarriage so did my manager.

I raised it through the correct channels, I told the person I was going to raise concerns about her, when I discussed it with my manager he told be he was staying impartial, go to mediation, he didn’t have an opinion but X wanted to progress.

Personally it felt like I’d been let down, I’m particularly vulnerable at the moment and could have done with some support.

Anyway the next week I gave notice to leave, have left but feel I’ve let myself funny not standing up for myself. It could look like I’ve run away.

I can accept the environment wasn’t great but feel with support I could have worked through it.

What are others thoughts?

OP posts:
iamnotalemon · 19/07/2025 21:33

It sounds like you’ve been through a lot but you’ve left now so best to put it behind you and move on.

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