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Feeling sorry for myself after turning down a job offer

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Trebor57 · 16/07/2025 21:48

So I was headhunted on LinkedIn for a very similar job to what I do now but for a completely different Industry, the salary increase wasn't huge but seemed a great company to work for and various other perks got good reviews on glass door etc.I accepted but got cold feet and turned it down, main reason being is I have been at my current job 11 years and I'm quite well respected and never had any issues whilst being there , also they are not the kind of companies to make redundancies often but on the 2 occasions since I've been there (and colleagues who have been there longer has said it's never happened much before) there were redundancies (a very small percent of workforce, and a lot volunteered) and from what I was told by a friend the payouts are rather generous, which gives a great deal of security in this day and age that even if things did go a bit pete tong at least you are looked after.

But with employment laws of being able to let staff go before 2 years etc, my fear was if I took the job and that was to happen I could lose everything.

I know I've made the right decision but can't help feel sorry for myself as it did sound exciting, which is annoying as a week ago I wasn't even giving it a seconds thought

Be nice to me and tell me I've done the right thing lol

Gut feelings etc etc and if it ain't broke dont fix it

OP posts:
BoredZelda · 17/07/2025 18:07

DontbesorrybeGiles · 17/07/2025 06:23

She was headhunted when she wasn’t looking for a new job. Hardly the same as applying for an advertised post.

I’ve been “headhunted” every other week or so for about three years. LinkedIn is largely just an easy resource for recruiters who don’t want to do the real legwork. They make it sound so personal when really, their messages are no different to the spammy emails they used to send. It drives me nuts. I’m happy if someone has wasted their time!

isitme111 · 17/07/2025 19:57

It doesn't sound like you are ready to move on yet. If you are truly happy where you are stick with it for now.

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