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To feel slightly grumpy at people who have moved to my hometown and made the house prices shoot up

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Pollysoftheworld · 16/07/2025 08:34

I’m not talking about immigrants.
I was born here. My grandparents grandparents met in the Victorian days in a theatre two miles from my house. Now I have to move out. I don’t recognise my local high street and I can’t afford to shop there. I don’t see how £6 sourdough is a social enterprise. I imagine it’s lovely if you’re used to much higher prices. But I miss my town the way it was.
I wonder if those moving here experienced similar in Brixton, Oxford, Cheltenham etc

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ThisTicklishFatball · 17/07/2025 14:48

Araminta1003 · 17/07/2025 13:46

“The LOCALS who are selling can protect prices for LOCALS by not asking so much money. The seller is in charge. He can decide not to accept a Londoner’s £1m, and to instead accept £400k from the OP. But of course they won’t! That’s not the Londoner’s fault.
Locals doing the selling are pricing out their friends, family and other locals.”

It is interesting you say that. My brother moved to Switzerland. He claims that quite often locals will choose the type of family they sell to, over profit. To preserve the neighbourhood. And the Government whacks a hefty capital gains tax on main residence profits anyway that are not immediately invested in another property to the same level, again. Property and homes should not be speculation and used to make normal people rich. It is what successive Governments have used as a tool to gain votes in the middle aged and elderly demographics. And now the whole thing is blowing up.

The UK has its own peculiarities.

Homes bought by elderly and middle-aged individuals end up being sold to cover medical expenses, hefty bills, debts, taxes, and inheritance tax. This benefits the government, while others eagerly eye and seize these properties.

Homeowners, of course, pay taxes and bills throughout the time they own their houses; there’s nothing free for them.

Naturally, people aim to profit from selling their homes since they’ve poured significant investments into these properties. The taxes and bills are hefty, the cost of living has skyrocketed, and maintaining a decent quality of life requires substantial funds. To ensure access to proper medical care when needed, having money on hand is essential.

Ireallywantadoughnut36 · 17/07/2025 16:52

It's a balance isn't it, things always change and on one hand you've got £6 sourdough and a high street full of gentrified local bakers, antiques and acai bowls. On the other hand you've got my home town, prices are very reasonable, I don't recognise the high street either though, as its exclusively full of betting shops, charity shops and boarded up shops. It would absolutely love some gentrification but it's such a sh+t hole it will never get it. I'm not sure which is worse. Whilst I could live there, I don't want to. We moved to a nicer town and inevitably pushed the prices up I'm afraid.

faffadoodledo · 17/07/2025 17:48

Ireallywantadoughnut36 · 17/07/2025 16:52

It's a balance isn't it, things always change and on one hand you've got £6 sourdough and a high street full of gentrified local bakers, antiques and acai bowls. On the other hand you've got my home town, prices are very reasonable, I don't recognise the high street either though, as its exclusively full of betting shops, charity shops and boarded up shops. It would absolutely love some gentrification but it's such a sh+t hole it will never get it. I'm not sure which is worse. Whilst I could live there, I don't want to. We moved to a nicer town and inevitably pushed the prices up I'm afraid.

I agree. I moved back to my hometown after decades of living all over the world. It’s long past its heyday and it would be nice to see a bit of loveliness if only to get more footfall beyond betting shops and cape shop customers.
a bookshop has recently opened. I take this as a good sign. But perhaps some would see it as gentrification

Pollysoftheworld · 17/07/2025 17:51

@Araminta1003trouble is, that feeds into racism and producing ghettos. I also have family in Switzerland, who were refugees and first generation, they don’t live anywhere near the white Swiss population. It’s hugely divided.

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ScupperedbytheSea · 17/07/2025 19:29

I now live in a town that has a thing against people like me moving in, because we've come from out of town and have pushed prices up.

Thing is, I couldn't afford to live in the town I grew up in, because other people moved in over the years and pushed prices up.

And my grandparents, who barley had a pot to piss in, lived in a normal working class outer London neighbourhood that you'd now need millions to move into.

So you can be pissed off, and it's certainly not fair, but it does seem to be the way it happens. Especially in the UK.

TeenLifeMum · 24/08/2025 20:22

We moved from the south east 21 years ago as despite having graduate jobs and 2 incomes (low as just starting out in careers) we couldn’t afford to buy in our home town. Many of our old friends from home are still renting in their 40s but a few have bought houses and made considerable equity. That said, a 4 bed house in Hawkinge, Kent is similar to our Somerset home. House prices shot up in 2020 and aren’t as massively differently to what they used to be for 3 bed and bigger houses. One bed flats are still around £120k which is only 20k more than we paid in 2005. It’s strange.

faffadoodledo · 25/08/2025 07:34

Is that the Bruton and Newt factor at work, @TeenLifeMum ? I live further down the line in Cornwall and have watched with amazement at how an area of Somerset has become uber-cool.
I wandered through Bruton about a year ago and it was odd place, full of shops selling artisan twine and door stops! Frome is sweet tho.

CeciliaMars · 25/08/2025 07:44

What’s the alternative? We all have to stay in our home towns forever?

opencecilgee · 25/08/2025 08:49

I can afford my home town. It’s a shit hole. i have moved to a nicer, more middle class place. I love sour dough and posh coffee

GrouachMacbeth · 25/08/2025 09:17

Would you prefer "slumification"? Prolific vape shops, betti g shops, bright-house rental of home appliances at extortionate interest rates? Pubs with drunken simians outside? High caffeine hyped up boy racers? Poorly maintained and weed, toy and junk strewn gardens? Cheap though.

TeenLifeMum · 25/08/2025 09:34

faffadoodledo · 25/08/2025 07:34

Is that the Bruton and Newt factor at work, @TeenLifeMum ? I live further down the line in Cornwall and have watched with amazement at how an area of Somerset has become uber-cool.
I wandered through Bruton about a year ago and it was odd place, full of shops selling artisan twine and door stops! Frome is sweet tho.

I think there’s various factors and snobbery around but yes I think that’s part of it. Our town is slightly further (dd looked as Sexeys for 6th form as they run a bus from here as we don’t have 6th form schools just a college).

Villages always seen as the dream (I lived in one originally while is was pretty it was cut on and not ideal for teens. Here my teens can be fairly independent re walking to friends houses etc. it is always hilarious hearing people living in Sherborne put down my town. I love Sherborne but the locals are deluded. They have social housing and drugs like any other town, it’s just hidden behind pink trousers and tweed (not suggesting those wearing pink trousers and tweed are doing the drugs). It’s a lovely town but the issues are still there however much they pretend it isn’t.

Imbrocator · 25/08/2025 09:40

It’s a problem everywhere. We’re a small island with a huge population, and more people in our capital city than somewhere like Sweden has in the entire country. Of course house prices are going to inflate in a way that pushes everyone but the very lucky out of the areas they were born in.

People in the UK are angry with second home owners (completely understandably), but in many countries with lower populations and equivalent standards of living it’s acceptable, and even lower wage families will often have a ‘summer house’, because there’s the opportunity and space for it.

The high return on investment and the relative safety of investing in property in the UK makes it a convenient place to store money and have it appreciate, both for wealthy British and for overseas investors. Round where I grew up (in what used to be a nice, not particularly up market area) loads of flats and houses are now owned by overseas investors and sit empty, or are occupied by their children while they study abroad and then left to appreciate without even bothering to rent them.

There are lots of measures the government could employ to keep prices in check, from the draconian to the sensible, but the root problem is that we have a growing population and a finite amount of land. If some of the more grim predictions for the sea level rise come to pass, we’ll have a lot less land to go around and likely significantly more people we need to house.

As far as I can see this is a problem for pretty much everyone, whether you’re someone from a big city who could never afford to buy there or you’re somewhere where those people are moving to and you’re being displaced. Very few people seem to be winning here except those who are making big ££££. Either way it helps me feel less upset to realise that lots of the people moving to where we’re based are also being forced to leave behind support networks and family and places they love by the exact same pressures.

CeciliaMars · 25/08/2025 11:36

An average experienced teacher earns around £40-45k. In the South East, a 2-bed flat costs upwards of £400k. Even a couple couldn’t afford it or get anywhere near. The world has gone mad.

Jacobs4 · 25/08/2025 16:33

In London this is totally the case, my kids can’t afford to buy near their family home, no way. And of course wherever they move to they aren’t locals. It’s a time of shifting locations, everyone has to accept it, painful though it is. London is so weird now, mind blowingly expensive.

MrsKateColumbo · 28/08/2025 22:50

@opencecilgee same here, I went home over the summer hols and my hometown is even worse than when I grew up there. I would hate to be trapped there and am glad I was able to move to London.

Icanttakethisanymore · 28/08/2025 22:55

I can understand why this could be frustrating for you personally (especially if you don’t already own), but why do you have more right to be there than someone else? What about people born it shitty places? Do they have to stay where they are? Or can they move…. Just not to your town?

RubySquid · 28/08/2025 22:57

Itisnotdownonanymap · 16/07/2025 08:40

I'm sure they have. I was brought up in an area of London that I still really love. It has been gentrified beyond belief and I can't afford to live there. Many many people have been pushed out of London, it's unbelievably expensive to rent here now, let alone buy

And then they head out here and similarplaces and price our children out having sold their London houses for loads

Genevieva · 28/08/2025 23:01

There is a good chance your great great grandparents didn't own a house either. Houses weren't appreciating assets in the nineteenth century and most jobs came with housing. Before the First World War half the UK population were in service and most professions (the school master, vicar, policemen, bank manager) also had employment-based housing. Widespread home ownership is very much a post second world war phenomenon.

RubySquid · 28/08/2025 23:04

Platosrevenge · 16/07/2025 15:51

And people in London will say but ‘we’ve been pushed out’. And that’s true but mainly by wealthy foreigners and not key workers from Hull.
And it’s undeniable that many have really profited from living in London, far better job opportunities and chances for promotion, higher wages. Try getting a job in Oldham that’s not NMW.

Like a ward sister in Oldham hospital as a relative of mine does you mean? Or any of the consultants there

RubySquid · 28/08/2025 23:15

InMyOpenOnion · 16/07/2025 09:21

I came on to say this. It's locals forcing other locals out. They could sell to another local for a lower price but most of them prefer more money. I suppose towns could introduce laws about it as they do in Jersey I believe.

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But then they voukdnt afford to buy the next house

Sheeshbee · 16/07/2026 15:30

Bumpitybumper · 16/07/2025 14:51

I think the problem is that there simply isn't enough housing in desirable areas to accommodate the rich, the essential workers, those on NMW and then everyone else. Building more housing often ruins the area completely and we seen countless people complaining about this too.

Government protections tend to focus on key workers but also the poor through SH. It is those in the middle that often feel frustrated and annoyed. They are sometimes subsidising those poorer than then to live in desirable areas that they could never afford themselves. This is inherently unfair and I can see why anger and resentment is rife.

I also feel like lots of local people want to have their cake and to eat it. I live in a tourist area and many people work in the sector or rely on it in some way for their business (e.g. tradespeople looking after holiday/second homes for a large part of their income, farms with cafes serving tourists and providing camping as a secondary income etc). Ultimately we need tourists here to keep the local economy going, even parts of it that you don't automatically associated with leisure and tourism. These tourists often want to stay in holiday homes and the more you have available in the area, the more tourists we can attract. Local people though don't want the holiday lets and want all housing used for locals, completely forgetting that this will condem their business and also the local high street, lots of the local amenities and transport links etc. Ultimately if the place was filled with low paid locals and fewer tourists then there would be far less money spent in the area and we would be heavily dependent as an area on the government to subsidise everything. Far fewer people would have work and the local economy would be massively detrimented. Young people may be guaranteed housing but would have few local job prospects and very little to do without the amenities we currently enjoy. Basically I think people need to be very careful about what they wish for.

There aren't enough desirable areas, because all our major cities other than London get scraps from the table in terms of funding, public transport investment etc. vs the south east (and Scotland and Wales and NI tbh), have done for years and just can't compete for businesses.

London has had more spent in building the Elizabeth line than the entire rest of the country has had in decades.

Everything is London centric, young people and foreigners ahve to move to London en-masse because it's the only place with good jobs in most industries. They then escape if they can, with some of that money, to live somewhere less pressured.

Y2ker · 19/07/2026 18:39

Lincslady53 · 16/07/2025 09:29

My first job I moved from Lincolnshire to Islington, living in a hostel at The Angel. It was a very working class area, Chapel Market a typical street market as seen in Only Fools and Horses, is now a trendy makers/farmers market. Upper Street is full of trendy bars and restaurants. I remember the main restaurant being a Golden Egg. I caught a bus to work at 7.00am and the bus stops were full of working class people going to work either towards the city or West end, or the other direction towards Highbury and the East End. Now, where have all the workers gone? Where do the bar staff, shop staff, cleaners etc live? The property prices are etc watering. We lived for a time in the top half of a small 3 bed semi in Finsbury Park, we struggled to pay the rent, and could only do it by having 7 people live in the flat, but houses like that now cost well over a million pounds. It is crazy. Every house move we have made since the 70s has been further and further away from London. No way could we afford to move back.

I grew up a short distance from there and my parents would make us wind the windows up when we drove through because it was a bit dodgy 😁

RuinartRuination · 19/07/2026 18:51

Pollysoftheworld · 16/07/2025 10:22

I wonder if we do need a sort of cap on what the house prices can rise to. There’s a house in the council estate next to me for 600,000. It’s an ex local authority house, which has been knocked down in places and rebuilt. Very nicely. But how are we supposed to compete?

Supposing in your scenario there’s a cap of £500k for a 3 bed semi (in itself quite arbitrary). A young couple buy it the year before the cap for £800k.
The following year they get a job in another part of the country. They sell the house for £500k max. What do they do with their £300k worth of debt? No one is ever going to lend to them given they owe that much money.

IkeaMeatballGravy · 20/07/2026 12:00

Funny how it is always the people born in nice places who are so keen to stay where they are...

Second homes I can understand but moving around is what we humans have always done. I can't afford to live in the posh town I was born in, so I moved somewhere else.

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