I work in an area where we help students get placements in industry. For the last year we have done very well in a particular industry which isn't normally taken up by women. My boss said to me that "We've done really well thanks Alice for your hard work. We've got 45% women this time and one of them is a brown one."
I just said I wouldn't use that phrase if I were you Brenda and left it there.
Was that OK? Should I have reported it? I realise she was saying it in a positive context although it was clumsily. NB - not made up, not goady. Genuine question. Thank you.