To go on holiday with children and ex?

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Ex partner and I were together for 15 years. We broke up over 2.5 years ago and have build a solid friendship.

He is taking our children away next month and has asked if I would like to join them. Children are 10 and 12 and have a great relationship with him.

We are both single, and I say that to indicate that there are no partners involved rather than hinting at the possibility of a reconciliation (which neither of us would want!).

Would this be a terrible idea? Would it give the children mixed messages? Is 2.5 years long enough for them to be able to enjoy us co-parenting on holiday?

I think it's a lovely idea, just make it clear you are both friends x

Thank you! I absolutely will be making that clear x

Hmm, I’m not sure, but am possibly projecting a bit!
If everyone is happy and comfortable with the situation then it must be a positive thing, I guess. To me, it wouldn’t be natural but everyone’s situation is different!
Hope you have a lovely time.

As long as the kids know EXACTLY how you feel about each other, then I'd go for it OP. Just tell them that you always hope to be friends, but can't live together long term, however a holiday will be OK.

That will be so lovely for the kids, to see their parents getting along and spending time together even if no longer in a relationship together.. Go for it!

Thank you for your responses!