Aibu?
Situation is me dh and 4 week old baby. Baby really not sleeping and also have a lively older child to look after.
Mil and Fil were coming over to see us, sil (dhs sister) decided to come too. All fine, it’s not the first time they’ve seen the baby. They visit every week and came twice during the first two weeks plus mil spent the whole day with us when baby was only a week old.
Dh was on the phone to fil regarding what time they were coming. I heard Fil say to dh “sil is coming too, and we are just trying to persuade bil to come too, but he’s got a stinking cold, so don’t know if he will, but we are trying to persuade him to come out for a bit”.
No regard for the baby, me or dh catching this ‘stinking cold’. Last thing we all need in our sleep deprived state.
I was fuming, I told dh to ring fil back and tell him not to bring bil over to when he’s unwell. But dh wouldn’t and just kept saying it’s unlikely bil will come.
Edited to add, it’s not the first time in laws have visited us when they’re sick. Mil came over once and informed us she’d thrown up this morning, but she felt fine now. Ah well that’s ok then 🙄