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To think some women make it hard for men to see their children out of spite?!

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Beyondnow · 11/07/2025 22:44

I will say straight away I have a child, I am separated from their dad and as long as he see’s our child, child is happy and he pays child support I couldn’t give a monkeys what he does in his spare time, who he is with etc.

In contrast my DP’s ex CONSTANTLY, has an issue. Constantly has a negative comment to make about me, DP, our life, car, home, dog, whatever it is. It’s been awful for 4 years now. DP has always paid child support, see’s his DC when he is meant to, they have everything they need with us. She has manipulated them (one is only 7 bless her) in to saying horrible comments to me and my DC.2 years ago they went to court (after mediation failed because she just kept frustrating the process) and today she has announced DC are traumatised by seeing us ‘too much’ so she will be taking DP back to court for less contact. Ridiculous.

I cannot understand why some women cannot let go of the father of their children? What gives them the right to constantly interfere?

Please give me some insight and tips to make this stop!

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Birdwordie · 11/07/2025 23:27

I have nothing to advise other than sympathy. I also agree that some women make life very difficult in this aspect. My mother has been split from my dad for 24 years and she still is riled about it, made life very hard and strained our relationship. She even went on to have another child with someone else, and tried to claim it was his through child support (wish I was lying). So, unfortunately people have their motives. Best of luck to you I hope things get sorted for all your sakes

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