A school mum acquaintance (she's been round a few times because her kids are an absolute delight and my son's best friend) has asked to borrow money 4 times in 10 days. When i have agreed (i said no twice) and transferred it, she pays it back the next day as she suggests, but then asks again that evening. Wtf is this about?
She says it's a benefits thing, but that doesn't ring true. It's very small amounts, and for background, she works v part time, both her and dp are low wages, on UC. I've been a little concerned as I've still never set eyes on her partner (though the kids mention dad as if he is very much about and normal, assume shift work), have spotted 2 black eyes on her in 2 years, and lately their life seems chaotic with weird random appointments, always something to rush home for etc. Something is off and I don't know if I'm over reacting to speak to the school about it? Im not stupid or naive by any means, but I'm stumped as to what's going on. The kids seem fine, well cared for, extremely polite, not obviously neglected.