I don't know what to do. I'm in the UK
My dad died in tel:2004 2004 I was 12. shortly after he died my uncle his wife and his daughter moved in with me and my mother.
I don't think I'd ever met him before, my dad didn't like him.
Anyway not long after he moved in he started touching me inappropriately in a sexual way and making comments, I was absolutely terrified I didn't know what to do. I told no one ,
Never told anyone about it.
Eventually he moved out with his family after a while, he was still very close by
I was so angry that mum let him move in with us, I actually started to hit my mum. I'm really ashamed about that, police were called about it.
I removed myself from my family years ago because I knew that a wouldn't be believed and I just wanted to move on with life
The only person from my family I have contact with now is mum
My uncle who abused me died in early tel:2024 2024 . And my estranged family were constantly trying to contact me and my mum
Posting on Facebook looking for us , a few different family members did this, also looking on local pages like selling pages ect, people were sharing it.
They are still now posting calling me and my mum disgusting for not going to his funeral and asking if anyone knows us and how to find us.
They may not know about the abuse but they know we do not want to be contacted
I never reported the sex assaults to the police but is there anything I can do to stop them doing this?
I know I cannot report him now as he has died. But I just want family members of his to leave me alone and accept that we'll never speak again.
I'm absolutely terrified that someone that recognises me will give my address or where I work
Is there anyone I can contact for help?
Sorry it's so long and rambling with bad grammar.