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Hiking in a heatwave

101 replies

lemoncake29 · 08/07/2025 21:02

A group of 8 friends have arranged to meet this Friday for a hike followed by a pub lunch. We don’t get together often due to living far apart and kids etc. It will be the last time we all get together til Christmas I suspect. I’ve booked annual leave and sorted childcare and was looking forward to it.
We are all seasoned hikers and planned to do a trail that’s roughly 17 miles in a popular but remote spot. It’s about an hour drive away from me.
With the forecast now set to be over 30 degrees on Friday some of the group have suggested we skip the hike altogether and just go to the pub, others have suggested we shorten the route but a few want to go ahead with the original plan and just prepare well.
Personally I’m on team pub but since we can’t all agree there is a bit of tension building and it’s threatening to ruin the whole get together. Aibu to think it’s too hot for this sort of activity?

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PhilippaGeorgiou · 09/07/2025 07:26

toadandfrog · 09/07/2025 07:10

Is the point of thw get together to hike or to see eachother?
Sounds like the "pro" hikers think the reason if for the hike, and those wanting the pub think it's to get together...

But also, imo, its only 30c. Its not that bad if you're taking plenty of water and have some sort of shade available (even if it's an umberella).
I live somewhere it's at least low 30s all summer... we don't just stand inside all day everyday. When it's closer to 40 I'd understand not wanting to do a hike...

And if you have that kind of heat every semmer all the time then you are acclimated to it.The majority of British people are not because we don't have that kind of heat in summer. That is why we call that sort of temperatire a heatwave and not average!

dottiedodah · 09/07/2025 07:28

I think 17 miles is too long .in the heat.no one will enjoy it fully.i would plump for the pub.you can always meet again maybe at Christmas or something. You can please all of the people some of the time or some people all of the time as the saying goes

KPPlumbing · 09/07/2025 07:36

Confrontayshunme · 09/07/2025 07:13

Question: what are the ages and sex of people who want the hike Vs don't? Because if the men want to hike because they don't want to sit and talk while a group of perimenopausal women are saying "my body can't cope with that", someone needs to speak up. I was once with my husband's mostly male family and they wanted to go on a boat ride to a remote island for a day with no toilet on the first day of my period. I tried to politely say no I don't think I'll like it or ai might get seasick, but they were so insistent I finally said "Listen, I will go, but without a toilet, I am going to bleed through my clothes in about an hour or so. If you can each carry a spare set of pants and trousers for me in your day bag, and then carry the dirty ones, I can probably make it work." Funnily enough they were fine with me skipping it after that!

I had hoped as a society that we'd moved past the rhetoric that men enjoy being physical and pushing themselves, while women enjoy sitting around chatting and eating cake.

Shoxfordian · 09/07/2025 07:47

I'd be team pub even without the heatwave

Confrontayshunme · 09/07/2025 07:54

KPPlumbing · 09/07/2025 07:36

I had hoped as a society that we'd moved past the rhetoric that men enjoy being physical and pushing themselves, while women enjoy sitting around chatting and eating cake.

I'm the last person to think that, but I have been in plenty of mixed groups where men are pushing for intense physical activity in ridiculous weather and women get disregarded. I do think that particularly in running, cycling and hiking groups it is often men who see the physical activity as the activity, not the social aspect. That's why I only go on the local cycling club's women's group rides. The mixed group doesn't seem to understand that some women have different physical needs in middle age.

POTC · 09/07/2025 07:58

All the Lowland & Mountain rescues are asking people NOT to go on long hikes in what is considered to be extreme heat for this country

Alexandra2001 · 09/07/2025 08:09

All depends on what is on the route ie places where you can get water & your levels of experience.

Hiking in the lanes in Cornwall is totally different to one across Dartmoor etc

But if you're all falling out now, i'd skip it.

ladywindemeresbucket · 09/07/2025 08:10

When I used to go hiking we used to do "Figure of 8 hikes." The route on the maps was like a number 8.

This meant the seasoned hikers could do the whole of the "8" and the slower walkers could just do the lower part of the "8", At some time us slower walkers would meet up with the "pros" when the two loops intersected.

It worked OK.

ErrolTheDragon · 09/07/2025 08:12

lemoncake29 · 09/07/2025 07:05

Lots of different opinions which kind of reflects what’s going on in the group! Pro hikers are pissed off as they think we won’t actually see each other for more than an hour or two if we split up and do separate things.
We have all hiked similar distances before but never in heat like this and I don’t think it will be very enjoyable. I struggle in the heat, even basic tasks wear me out so it’s definitely a flat no to the whole thing from me. May consider a shorter route. If the drama continues I won’t go at all.

If the ones who want the long hike are pissed off by the idea of not seeing every one else for more than an hour or two , then the solution is entirely in their control - they just need to prioritise their friends over a long walk.
They physically can walk a shorter distance (just would prefer not to), the rest of the group simply can’t all do the full distance. It wouldn’t matter if the majority in the group could manage 17 miles; if any person can’t then the whole group can’t.

It’s something you have to adjust to as you get older, some people stay totally fit and healthy, others don’t. We’ve had to adjust to DH not being able to do all the things we’d like to be able to do (it’s not a purely male/female divide!) - there’s zero point me sulking about it. Much better to enjoy a shady stroll by a river than be bent out of shape because we can’t climb a mountain. (We’re in snowdonia at the moment, this is reality).

Didimum · 09/07/2025 08:17

I’m a very fit hiker and did a similar hike to this during a heatwave. Ended up with heatstroke. I hydrated properly, electrolytes, paced correctly, started early, the lot. Everyone’s body reacts differently to conditions (like altitude sickness, it’s random), and I don’t think it’s fair to ask people to hike when they have concerns about it. Seems like you all have other hiking opportunities since you go often, so skip it or just go for a nice walk.

TheNightingalesStarling · 09/07/2025 08:17

Hiking in conditions that you aren't repaired for puts the rescue teams at risk.

Anyone who enjoys this sports should respect them, as you never know when you might need them.

lemoncake29 · 09/07/2025 08:17

I think the issue is that everyone has very different views on what it means to hike in this heat. We have all done this kind of distance before but never in such hot weather.
The ones in favour of it are very much “it’s just a bit of warm weather, prepare and it’ll be fine” whereas others (myself included) are concerned about it being potentially dangerous with things such as heat stroke, along with being just not very enjoyable. We are all of a similar age and fitness but it’s getting everyone to think the same that is the issue.
I for one won’t be entertaining it and if the others cave and decide to go for it I’ll just skip the whole thing as I’m not going to sit in a pub all day alone waiting for them.

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midgetastic · 09/07/2025 08:18

I have walked up hills in 40 degree heat in Germany And had a lovely time and we weren’t the only people out abs about

you need plenty of fluid ( the German huts are great for extra litres of juice) and it’s very slow

17 miles would be at least 6 hrs ( Naismith - but unless it’s easy terrain most people don’t do that ) I would thing it would be easily 9hrs in the heat so I would shorten the distance

Glowingup · 09/07/2025 08:22

Anyone suggesting 17 miles in 30 degree heat is an idiot. Did people learn nothing from Michael Mosley (yes it was hotter but he died after walking a couple of miles). Also 17 mile hike sounds awful and you can’t do that before lunch unless you run it.

BogRollBOGOF · 09/07/2025 08:23

Shorten the walk (bonus points if it can be more shady/ near water)
Meet at the pub for lunch with non-walkers before the hottest part of the afternoon.

DS recently did his DoE expedition in 30⁰C. They were relieved of their tents to ease the weight of their packs but were otherwise fine.

gsiftpoffu · 09/07/2025 08:32

What is a "pro-hiker"?

I hike long distances over 3-4 weeks and do lots of day hikes. I won't hike in 30 degree heat. It's foolhardy. You have to carry so much water to cope with the hear which makes your pack heavy. The heat puts extra strain on all your organs. There's the risk of heatstroke etc.

17 miles is too far and you are setting off too late, plus you are hiking over the hottest part of the day.

If everyone set off at 7 am and did a shorter hike and were in the pub by 11 at the latest that would be ok. The plan as it is is idiotic.
Remember what happened with Michael Mosley and people on here were calling him all sorts for being foolhardy and now you've got some people on this thread saying toughen up.

I would say I'd meet them in the pub if they refuse to change the start time or length.

Miyagi99 · 09/07/2025 08:33

Start earlier and take loads of water, wear a hat.

Alexandra2001 · 09/07/2025 08:55

gsiftpoffu · 09/07/2025 08:32

What is a "pro-hiker"?

I hike long distances over 3-4 weeks and do lots of day hikes. I won't hike in 30 degree heat. It's foolhardy. You have to carry so much water to cope with the hear which makes your pack heavy. The heat puts extra strain on all your organs. There's the risk of heatstroke etc.

17 miles is too far and you are setting off too late, plus you are hiking over the hottest part of the day.

If everyone set off at 7 am and did a shorter hike and were in the pub by 11 at the latest that would be ok. The plan as it is is idiotic.
Remember what happened with Michael Mosley and people on here were calling him all sorts for being foolhardy and now you've got some people on this thread saying toughen up.

I would say I'd meet them in the pub if they refuse to change the start time or length.

It was a lot hotter - 40'C and he was on his own, with limited water, just 1 litre, he took a wrong turn and ended up in a remote area, without a phone plus he was in his late 60s.

With adequate water, fitness and pacing, its all possible, it wont be 30'C for all of the walk... but it all depends on where the walk is taking place, out on the moors miles from anywhere or on country lanes, through villages?

the 2 are completely different.

PhilippaGeorgiou · 09/07/2025 08:56

What is a "pro-hiker"?

Apparently someone who doesn't know that in groups hikes you adjust to the "weakest" point in the group. Not meaning that as in people are weak. But you do not deliberately set out on a hike with people saying that they do not think they can manage it in the group! There are plenty of examples of people not managing things they think they can do. You don't insist on people doing a hike they are not comfortable with. No exceptions.

Imicola · 09/07/2025 08:58

Heat affects different people in different ways. I would suffer a lot if I attempted that, but my DH would probably be fine. it's unfair of others to try and force the group to go ahead if some have concerns (which are very valid).

Bewareofstepfords · 09/07/2025 09:12

Jerabilis · 08/07/2025 21:30

I wouldn't have a problem doing that distance in that heat, but then I've regularly walked Camino paths in Spain and Portugal when the temperatures have hit 40c

Giving up the hike entirely seems pretty pathetic to me but knocking it down to 12-14 miles would be a reasonable compromise.

You're being rude and inconsiderate.
Someone could literally be risking their life walking in great heat, long distance, presumably out in the open and miles from anywhere. Most people aren't used to it like you are.
There's nothing "pathetic" about being concerned under the circumstances especially if you've got dependents.

Caerulea · 09/07/2025 09:18

KPPlumbing · 09/07/2025 07:36

I had hoped as a society that we'd moved past the rhetoric that men enjoy being physical and pushing themselves, while women enjoy sitting around chatting and eating cake.

Give it a rest. At the end of this week I'll be spending 3 days working 36hrs or so rushing around in a kitchen where it will reach around 40°c, higher when I'm in the oven, over the hobs for extended periods & I wouldn't dream of going for a long walk in 30°c

KPPlumbing · 09/07/2025 09:18

Confrontayshunme · 09/07/2025 07:54

I'm the last person to think that, but I have been in plenty of mixed groups where men are pushing for intense physical activity in ridiculous weather and women get disregarded. I do think that particularly in running, cycling and hiking groups it is often men who see the physical activity as the activity, not the social aspect. That's why I only go on the local cycling club's women's group rides. The mixed group doesn't seem to understand that some women have different physical needs in middle age.

I can't relate at all. In the running and Cross Fit groups I'm in, the middle aged women are just as hard core as the men - as am I!

lemoncake29 · 09/07/2025 09:20

By pro hiker I meant those who are in favour of doing the hike, not professional hiker. None of us are professional, we have just done a number of long walks/hikes together over the years.

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Miyagi99 · 09/07/2025 09:21

It depends on the terrain really, what sort of walk is it OP? Coastal or mountain?

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