Trying to keep it as short and factual as possible. I’ll not go into the dynamics of the relationship but you can probably guess what it’s like.
- DH of 17 years cheated on me when our youngest was 3 months old. I immediately ended the relationship.
- He reluctantly moved out but into a house share where he couldn’t take the kids overnight at all and came and went as he pleased. After 6 months this tenancy ended. He told me he was sleeping in his car and could he move back in for a week to get sorted.
- He moved back in August 2024 and is still bloody living with me.
- Hes used me to save for a home to buy, I got our current rental moved into my name only and applied for Universal Credit.
- Hes being fussy buying a house and he won’t fucking leave. He is emotionally abusive every day, if I ask him to hurry up and go he says well if you paid me the £6000 I owed him from being on Maternity and him helping me with my debts whilst married.
i don’t know what to do my mental health has hit an all time low. I need my space and peace.