DH (45) is not obese but he is larger than someone who is healthy should be - I’d guess the male equivalent of a size 16 except all the weight is packed around his waist and stomach and not evenly distributed around his body. This is type of weight gain is a warning sign for men relating to heart health I believe. He also has high blood pressure which requires medication to bring it down. I don’t know if the doctor has raised his weight but apart from reducing alcohol he doesn’t seem to have changed any other habits : eating / exercise etc. AIBU if I suggest we buy a short course of Ozempic for him to see if it helps (and yes, I admit, a nice side effect would be that he would get some help regaining a healthier size / shape).