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Do you leave things in hotel room after departure for the maids to take if they want them?

310 replies

helpmepleasewiththis · 04/07/2025 09:15

I am due to leave for home after a weeks holiday and remember that my DM always used to do this. Things like unused shampoo, sanitary products etc. is this still a thing or would they find it insulting?

OP posts:
JustGiveMeWineNow · 04/07/2025 11:31

InterestedBeing · 04/07/2025 09:25

It's so offensive to even think that cleaning staff would want your toiletries and sanitary products I don't even know where to start.

I am by no means on the bread line. But when people leave stuff in my holiday let i don’t find it one bit offensive. I have no issue using someone’s left bottle of spray deodorant, there half bottle of shampoo or body wash. Would not use a roll on deodorant. Wrapped sanitary pads/tampax no issue using those.
What I do find offensive is people throwing perfectly good things that others could choose to use in the bin.
The food waste I see breaks my heart e.g box of eggs, 2 used and the other 4 thrown in the bin🥲

Zone2NorthLondon · 04/07/2025 11:35

Pineapplewaves · 04/07/2025 09:19

Most people leave them outside the room for other guests to take, they will go quickly, people who have just arrived or have ran out will take them. Quite often the cleaners just throw everything left in the room in the bin if they don’t want it.

You must book into some right dumps, leaving partially used products in the hall for other guests to snaffle.
I suppose in your scenario were guests book in that sort of hotel, and have inadequate product,some guests need someone else’s discarded product dregs

Fortunately I’ve ever been in such a position or such a place

honeylulu · 04/07/2025 11:36

Honon · 04/07/2025 11:27

Morocco is a middle income country with a healthy economy, it doesn't have large swathes of the population so poor they are desperate for half empty toiletries. You encountered someone either exceptionally poor or very polite. It's definitely not an example of somewhere with a desperate population grateful for every scrap!

Tunisia is a much poorer country so I can't comment on that.

You are clearly better informed than me. I was just sharing my own experience. I left stuff in response to being asked. I promise I wasn't just dumping my old crap where it wasn't wanted.

Just checked - Morocco trip was 2010 and Tunisia was 2013 so possibly my limited experience may be long out of date.

Biggles27 · 04/07/2025 11:38

Last year people posted on the resorts Facebook page x, y, x outside room xxx

it was an hours flight from Florida and heavily US guests who tended to come for 3/4 days and just bring carry on so there was a huge appetite for these types of products, especially sun cream as that was really expensive at the place

when we’ve gone to Spain etc, we’ve just bought home/binned depending on what it is and left euros for the cleaning staff

TheOtherAgentJohnson · 04/07/2025 11:40

Honon · 04/07/2025 11:30

Would you be happy to be tipped a half empty bottle of shampoo then? The issue is not everyone is going to appreciate it and some will be insulted by it.

Who said anything about it being in lieu of tips?

What's amazing is the posters who have so little sense of their wealth that they would actually throw perfectly good products in the bin just because they've been opened. And the horror expressed that anyone would think of opened shampoo as anything but waste. Let them eat cake.

This is why the planet's fucked.

Greyrockoff · 04/07/2025 11:46

I have taken stuff down to the street if there are homeless people. Said do you want this or know anyone who could use this.

Also offer things to maids. Don’t just randomly dump stuff.

Newbie8918 · 04/07/2025 11:46

I once left a partly used aftersun as my case was overweight and the maid ran after me and asked if she was ok to take it. She explained her little boy had very dry skin and they were constantly spending money on moisturiser for him and this worked just as well.

If she didn’t want it, I imagine she’d put it in the bin!

Jonesboot · 04/07/2025 11:47

If I don't want to take something home it's left in the room, in the bin or beside it. It's up to the staff if they want to take it or chuck it.

bugalugs45 · 04/07/2025 11:47

I asked an English girl last year who lived in Greece if these things get binned or used & she said she uses them and sometimes it’s nice to get familiar brands from back home .
I leave shower gel , shampoo , conditioner & usually a full pack of sanitary towels ( that I always take on holiday never knowing if I’m going to come on ) .
I also leave children’s toiletries as I buy different ones ( child’s farm specifically ) so hopefully they don’t get wasted .
I remember being asked for my toiletries in Cuba as they’re so expensive to buy there for the locals .
I wouldn’t leave stuff in a UK hotel though , would expect it to be binned .

AlannaOfTrebond · 04/07/2025 11:47

I spent most of my twenties working in the med. The staff were a mixture of Brits, Antipodeans and locals and we all loved left behind toiletries, unopened food was also gratefully received. Why on earth would I want to bin shampoo and suncream and then spend my own money buying them?

From seeing the cleaners gleefully comparing hauls on changeover days, this hasn't changed in the last decade.

As there seems to be no consensus even amongst hospitality staff, my preferred method is to leave all things together in one place, so they can be taken or easily binned without creating more work for the cleaners.

PasDevantLes · 04/07/2025 11:48

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 04/07/2025 11:21

Exactly. A dd working in Ethiopia used regularly to take back a suitcase of still good but no longer wanted e.g. men’s shirts, and all sorts. They were all very happily received. Returning once for their orthodox Christmas (6th Jan) she took really nice soap for the women, since the only affordable stuff locally wasn’t at all nice, and not cheap either.

Returning once to Haiti she took a whole large suitcase full of 2nd hand children’s shoes, given by friends and family, for the many children who couldn’t go to school because they had no shoes. Might add that at check in she told BA staff what was in the case, and they waived the hefty excess baggage charge.

Some MNers evidently have absolutely no idea.

But both those are developing countries, with a clearly culturally-aware person working there, who knew what would be needed and welcome. Not someone in a Costa Brava resort under the impression that the 'maid' will be thrilled to be left a half-used moisturiser. Two completely different situations.

Cattery · 04/07/2025 11:49

We always leave our coins

Newbie8918 · 04/07/2025 11:49

Honon · 04/07/2025 11:30

Would you be happy to be tipped a half empty bottle of shampoo then? The issue is not everyone is going to appreciate it and some will be insulted by it.

I don’t think anyone is suggesting that it’s in lieu of a tip! I’ve done this as well as, not instead of.

Zone2NorthLondon · 04/07/2025 11:52

TheOtherAgentJohnson · 04/07/2025 11:40

Who said anything about it being in lieu of tips?

What's amazing is the posters who have so little sense of their wealth that they would actually throw perfectly good products in the bin just because they've been opened. And the horror expressed that anyone would think of opened shampoo as anything but waste. Let them eat cake.

This is why the planet's fucked.

Fossil fuel,Over industrialisation,pollution,over use chemicals are significant environmental issues. Discarded shampoo isn’t really the driver.There isn’t a lake of shampoo threatening the environment located around resorts and hotels

ps Marie Antoinette let them eat cake isn’t appropriate comparison ,it is a misattributed misquote and she didn’t actually say it.

as you were

Comedycook · 04/07/2025 11:52

Last holiday I had a small bit of perfume left in the bottle which wasn't worth taking home so left it on the hotel room table in case the maid wanted it.

Newbie8918 · 04/07/2025 11:53

Zone2NorthLondon · 04/07/2025 11:35

You must book into some right dumps, leaving partially used products in the hall for other guests to snaffle.
I suppose in your scenario were guests book in that sort of hotel, and have inadequate product,some guests need someone else’s discarded product dregs

Fortunately I’ve ever been in such a position or such a place

I follow a Facebook page in an upmarket resort in Turkey. Someone has posted this very day, asking if anyone is going home and leaving aftersun as they’ve ran out and don’t want to buy a fresh one, with only a few days left.
I prefer to think this is resourceful and not wasteful, rather than disgusting!

Emmz1510 · 04/07/2025 11:55

My sister does this to save luggage space on the way home! I don’t, because I like to keep my toiletries!

TheOtherAgentJohnson · 04/07/2025 11:58

Zone2NorthLondon · 04/07/2025 11:52

Fossil fuel,Over industrialisation,pollution,over use chemicals are significant environmental issues. Discarded shampoo isn’t really the driver.There isn’t a lake of shampoo threatening the environment located around resorts and hotels

ps Marie Antoinette let them eat cake isn’t appropriate comparison ,it is a misattributed misquote and she didn’t actually say it.

as you were

The attitude to resources is the driver, everything else stems from that.

"As you were" is a weak valedictory flourish at the best of times, but especially so when all you've done on this thread is prove my point.

Snugs10 · 04/07/2025 11:58

Megifer · 04/07/2025 09:47

Don't know about nowadays op but last few times I went abroad I asked at reception if I had any stuff barely used like sun creams, shampoos, insect repellent etc could anyone make use of it and they said yes and to hand it in when we checked out.

Maybe ask if they seem friendly?

We got friendly with receptionist in our hotel in Madeira and she was more than grateful for items both opened and unopened we also bought her some chocolates as a thank you for her help.

LegoNinjago · 04/07/2025 11:59

InterestedBeing · 04/07/2025 09:25

It's so offensive to even think that cleaning staff would want your toiletries and sanitary products I don't even know where to start.

This

Mammamia16373 · 04/07/2025 12:00

🙄 at the money-ed posters saying no one wants it and to bin them.

Some countries reliant on tourism have really suffered since Covid. We visited Cambodia two years ago and what I heard repeatedly was that everyone was still really struggling and desperate for money from the lack of tourists. (Hopefully improved now.)

Zov · 04/07/2025 12:01

LOL no of course not!

Zone2NorthLondon · 04/07/2025 12:01

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 04/07/2025 11:21

Exactly. A dd working in Ethiopia used regularly to take back a suitcase of still good but no longer wanted e.g. men’s shirts, and all sorts. They were all very happily received. Returning once for their orthodox Christmas (6th Jan) she took really nice soap for the women, since the only affordable stuff locally wasn’t at all nice, and not cheap either.

Returning once to Haiti she took a whole large suitcase full of 2nd hand children’s shoes, given by friends and family, for the many children who couldn’t go to school because they had no shoes. Might add that at check in she told BA staff what was in the case, and they waived the hefty excess baggage charge.

Some MNers evidently have absolutely no idea.

You’re describing specific targeted redistribution and travelling with items that are wanted and needed. It’s incomparable to discarded used beauty products

IcedPurple · 04/07/2025 12:03

Reliablesource · 04/07/2025 09:34

I wouldn’t leave anything part-used. But I will always leave soft drinks, unopened chocolate/biscuits etc that I have brought but not used or opened. I also leave whatever change I have in local currency equivalent to a few £GBP if I’ve stayed 2 or 3 nights, and more if I’ve stayed for a week.

I also used to leave the equivalent of a few quid for the cleaners when leaving but in recent years when I rarely use cash I've not had the opportunity for this.

Regarding leaving 'stuff', are cleaners allowed just to take what's been left? Even if it's only a half used bottle of Pantene, isn't there a chance the guest might call the hotel and ask for it? I would think many hotels have a policy that cleaners have to give any left behind items to management?

NoNameMum · 04/07/2025 12:03

I would imagine a lot of hotels have policies on this where they are not allowed to take things and could get accused of stealing…