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to believe Rachel Reeves was crying because

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LargeDeviation · 02/07/2025 19:44

  1. she was upset when Lindsay Hoyle told her to keep her answers short

  2. she had an argument with Keir Starmer (possibly about her keeping her job, or about how to handle the inevitable questions about the new £5.5bn per annum black hole) just before PMQs

  3. Keir Starmer refused to say she would keep her job in front of the whole country. If he genuinely wanted her to stay, he would just say 'of course she's going to still be Chancellor' and that would be that.

  4. she is under immense pressure because she knows she will have soon to breach her fiscal rules, she knows she is responsible for many of the decisions that will lead to that, and she knows the how serious the consequences of her failure will be. We have seen recently (even just today) how vicious the bond market can be.

In short, I believe she was crying because of professional pressures (understandable ones, though largely of her own making, and about which I have little sympathy) and not nebulous 'personal' reasons.

If her parent or partner or child or grandparent or pet is ill the natural thing is to just say 'sorry, a close relative is in hospital and my emotions got the better of me'. Everybody would understand. You don't need huge reams of evidence but you need to give the bare bones of an explanation. She is trying to style it out but we can all see through it.

I will apologise if I'm wrong but long experience shows that 'personal reasons' almost always means 'I'm skiving or jobhunting' when a colleague in the workplace uses it to excuse their time off.

I believe it means even less when uttered by a politican.

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marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 03/07/2025 13:39

Every year the rich whine about what’s being taken from them. Pathetic.

Bluebellwood129 · 03/07/2025 13:39

InWithPeaceOutWithStress · 03/07/2025 10:56

She didn’t announce she had 10 years experience. It was picked up from her old linked in profile, something about ‘best part of a decade’. I have no issue with people criticising her for that in itself. But statements about her lacking experience and not being qualified for the role, are silly.

Wrong. She said it herself in an interview - the lies came straight from her mouth. She deliberately and wilfully set out to deceive the public.

EasternStandard · 03/07/2025 13:47

marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 03/07/2025 13:39

Every year the rich whine about what’s being taken from them. Pathetic.

How much more do you want? The demands keep going up.

NaySaidThe · 03/07/2025 13:47

marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 03/07/2025 13:39

Every year the rich whine about what’s being taken from them. Pathetic.

..,and every year those who make poor life decisions and don’t pay anything into the system whine they don’t get enough free stuff. We need one group, not so much the other.

chaosmaker · 03/07/2025 13:49

Do you think going into poorly paid care work is a bad life decision?

NaySaidThe · 03/07/2025 13:51

chaosmaker · 03/07/2025 13:38

Expecting the rich to pay more is not 'ideological spite' - proportionately the poorest pay much more of their income out in taxes. Why do you think that is right?

What is your definition of rich and what is your definition of poor? Is rich someone earning £110k a year who works Monday, Tuesday and a bit of Wednesday to pay into the system before they see a penny of their salary? Is poor someone who doesn’t work at all?

You need and are going to get a good decade of learning how to support yourself again, the entitlement is mind blowing.

BIossomtoes · 03/07/2025 13:52

EasternStandard · 03/07/2025 13:47

How much more do you want? The demands keep going up.

The demands don’t keep going up. The fact is that there’s no money and we have a society that’s older and sicker than ever before. You were very vociferous in your criticism of the welfare bill, where do you want to see cuts? Because it’s either that or increased taxes. Of course Hunt’s £20 billion NI give away didn’t help. If I were Reeves I’d reverse that for a start.

NaySaidThe · 03/07/2025 13:53

chaosmaker · 03/07/2025 13:49

Do you think going into poorly paid care work is a bad life decision?

It is if you’re expecting to live the same lifestyle as a Doctor.

Chintzcardboard · 03/07/2025 13:53

Dwimmer · 03/07/2025 13:11

I strongly dislike Angela but I don’t think we need to be commenting on her dress sense.

She dressed in a particular way to bait critics, that’s 100% certain.

Ange; “What clown dress can I wear today ? I do hope it’s mentioned so I can claim sexism and blather on about sexism for six months and possible get discount/ free designer gear for my glow-up”!

ladywindemeresbucket · 03/07/2025 13:54

Alexandra2001 · 03/07/2025 08:47

What tax would you have raised nstead? given the unfunded cuts n NI by Hunt costing £10billion per year and other costs handed to the new Govt? such has pay review pay riises, perhaps you wouldn't have honoured them, that was an option.

Or would you have cut public spending?

The NI increase on business hasn't led to the collapse in the jobs market and growth has increased too.

But yes i do agree the WFA was ridiculous but that would have been run past the cabinet... they agreed to it... it shouldn't be put just on Reeves.

Well for starters I wouldn't have given such a stonking great pay rise to the train drivers without a productivity agreement.

I wouldn't have given out free school breakfast - if a parent can't give their child/children a boiled egg and some toast in the morning, they are pretty useless parents.

I wouldn't have raided the pensioners' pockets. The WFA would have been means tested - eg not for those paying tax at the higher rate

The chancellor (Hunt) described national insurance as a "tax on work" and said it he believed it was "unfair that we tax work twice" when other forms of income are only taxed once. I agree and would have left it alone.

I would have cut benefits to migrants coming over the channel, cut Foreign Aid to those countries who refuse to take back their criminals, and mobilize Border Force to raid and fine those businesses that illegally employ them.

Carwashes are being fined about £3million a year for employing illegal workers.

Fines on "Turkish" barbers brings in £29.2 million yearly. I can't find stats for "dodgy" nail bars.

If you multiply this across all sectors there's lot's of scope for raising money without penalising our old and infirm citizens

I have many friends in business who are now taking on less staff because they can't afford to pay the increases in Min Wage and NI.

FatherFrosty · 03/07/2025 13:54

NaySaidThe · 03/07/2025 13:47

..,and every year those who make poor life decisions and don’t pay anything into the system whine they don’t get enough free stuff. We need one group, not so much the other.

Isn’t it something like 54k before your not taking more out then in?
shall we up the minimum wage to that? Shall we make sure all the nurses, teachers, nursery staff, carers etc make that?

Vinvertebrate · 03/07/2025 13:57

chaosmaker · 03/07/2025 13:38

Expecting the rich to pay more is not 'ideological spite' - proportionately the poorest pay much more of their income out in taxes. Why do you think that is right?

It doesn’t matter if anyone thinks it’s right or wrong, it’s an inescapable fact. Proportionately the poorest pay more of their income for everything - flatscreen TV’s, goats, tax, you name it…

Surely the maths wouldn’t math otherwise?

Whats your solution - pay everyone the same? A flat rate of tax for everyone? (I could probably get on board with the last one, but it’s not seen as progressive by most).

NaySaidThe · 03/07/2025 13:58

FatherFrosty · 03/07/2025 13:54

Isn’t it something like 54k before your not taking more out then in?
shall we up the minimum wage to that? Shall we make sure all the nurses, teachers, nursery staff, carers etc make that?

No, that’s just another tax. I really don’t think you get it, you’ve run out of other people’s money.

FatherFrosty · 03/07/2025 13:59

NaySaidThe · 03/07/2025 13:58

No, that’s just another tax. I really don’t think you get it, you’ve run out of other people’s money.

I don’t have other peoples money

FatherFrosty · 03/07/2025 14:01

NaySaidThe · 03/07/2025 13:53

It is if you’re expecting to live the same lifestyle as a Doctor.

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not having to house share or use food banks would be a start wouldn’t it

meanwhile the private owners of the company the carer works for is reaping it in. Whilst the tax payers have to top up the poor wages with universal credit.

NaySaidThe · 03/07/2025 14:01

FatherFrosty · 03/07/2025 13:59

I don’t have other peoples money

No of course not, you’re ‘entitled’ to it.

FatherFrosty · 03/07/2025 14:05

Chintzcardboard · 03/07/2025 12:27

Sorry, entire very profitable business leaves uk office space empty and moves to Dubai because of a Brexit hangover when it’s been announced that it’s to pay less business taxes and employees pay less personal taxes?

UK economy not favorable for investment. Is any major company expanding INTO UK, other than whoever imports those noisy black scooters and employs the shifty guys driving them.

brexit made us less attractive as a business centre. It’s not a sole reason, it’s part of it though

Dwimmer · 03/07/2025 14:13

FatherFrosty · 03/07/2025 14:05

brexit made us less attractive as a business centre. It’s not a sole reason, it’s part of it though

Did it? Why do you say that?

FatherFrosty · 03/07/2025 14:31

Dwimmer · 03/07/2025 14:13

Did it? Why do you say that?

Because we were an English speaking country inside the European Union, so businesses could base themselves here and have all the perks and access to the Union. It was easy for business to be done between USA and Britain, and then onto Europe.
with that commerce came high paid individuals who would be paying high taxes and then onto that they would employ people / use services etc

with Brexit we lost that advantage

Whatafustercluck · 03/07/2025 15:27

Vinvertebrate · 03/07/2025 10:06

I’m a centrist who voted Tory until the one-man fiasco that was Boris. I don’t want to pay more tax and think RR is demonstrably wrong about pretty much everything, not bright or experienced enough to be chancellor and lacks even a smudge of gravitas. BUT the sexism in lots of the commentary about her tears is off the scale. I’m old enough to recall Heseltine losing his mind in the HoC (hence the Tarzan nickname), not to mention MP’s head butting, napping, watching porn, playing candy crush…. the response to all of which was an eye-roll and occasionally a piss-takey nickname. Yes the markets were spooked, gilts are now looking worse than when Truss was racing a lettuce, but equally if it was a male MP showing “man emotion” yesterday, we would all have bloody well moved on by now.

if it was a male MP showing “man emotion” yesterday, we would all have bloody well moved on by now.

We'd actually still be hearing about how refreshing it was to see a man show his feelings, about how brave and courageous he was to come into work under such strain etc etc. The double standards to which women in public office are held is staggering.

NasiDagang · 03/07/2025 16:08

Whitehorses67 · 03/07/2025 07:10

If you can’t control your emotions in public then government isn’t the job for you.

I am still gobsmacked that a labour government targeted disabled people in the way which was attempted.

It was cruel and dishonest.

Not only was this enormous departure from what people expect of labour it was not in their manifesto and they would never have won the election had they been upfront about any such possibility.

They spun their proposed PIP cuts as a way to stop young people who claimed to have anxiety from sitting in their bedrooms gaming instead of getting a job thus using a modern stereotype they felt everyone could get behind.

The truth was that an enormous number of seriously physically and mentally disabled people of all ages, many of whom either work or have worked until prevented by disability, would lose the essential benefit which enables them to live.

It remains to be seen how this situation will unfold after the forced grudging agreement to limit cuts to future claimants and of a review in partnership with disabled people but even if ultimately no cuts are made (unlikely) this government has shown it is not to be trusted to behave in line with labour principles.

I honestly don’t know what they stand for at all.

I understand that the country was run into the ground by numerous tory governments so something needs to change to get us out of the hole but it is disgusting to use the most vulnerable in society as a ladder.

Therefore it will be a cold day in hell before I have any sympathy for the people responsible for this travesty.

Whatever Rachel Reeves is crying about at least she doesn’t have to worry that she can’t afford to pay her carers, or leave her house, or choose whether to heat or eat all whilst living with chronic pain and life limiting illness.

Nailed the point.👏👏

Teaforthetotal · 03/07/2025 16:16

Whatafustercluck · 03/07/2025 15:27

if it was a male MP showing “man emotion” yesterday, we would all have bloody well moved on by now.

We'd actually still be hearing about how refreshing it was to see a man show his feelings, about how brave and courageous he was to come into work under such strain etc etc. The double standards to which women in public office are held is staggering.

Couldn't agree more, a male leader showing emotion would be celebrated. Where are all of those posters who said she'd be handing in her resignation this morning?

BIossomtoes · 03/07/2025 16:17

Teaforthetotal · 03/07/2025 16:16

Couldn't agree more, a male leader showing emotion would be celebrated. Where are all of those posters who said she'd be handing in her resignation this morning?

Eating their words.

Teaforthetotal · 03/07/2025 16:23

BIossomtoes · 03/07/2025 13:52

The demands don’t keep going up. The fact is that there’s no money and we have a society that’s older and sicker than ever before. You were very vociferous in your criticism of the welfare bill, where do you want to see cuts? Because it’s either that or increased taxes. Of course Hunt’s £20 billion NI give away didn’t help. If I were Reeves I’d reverse that for a start.

I have yet to see any workable alternative funding ideas for those against the benefits bill. No sector wants to lose money. Same with the winter fuel bill. So unsustainable.

Lalgarh · 03/07/2025 16:36

Alistair Darling if memory serves temporarily cut VAT when the credit crunch hit to boost sales. If there was a rise in taxes of other sorts coming down the line a temp reduction to the old level of 17.5% might sweeten the medicine.

But you'd then be dependent on preference curves and all sorts of econometrics I only vaguely recall to assess if the cut In the former would outweigh the latter and increase revenue