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Neighbours dog woke me up - got told it's my fault for having my windows open??

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Sophiehoney · 02/07/2025 09:13

My neighbours are a retired couple with a very barky dog.
They walk it around our street several times a day, the last walk is around midnight, presumably before they go to bed.
It's very barky and barks all the time on walks, at what? God knows. But I hear it most nights.

Last night it took me ages to fall asleep due to the heat. At 12:15am, just as I was managing to drift off, right in that comfortable place between sleep and awake, it starts right outside my house - BARK BARK BARK BARK. So fucking loud!

I was hot, tired and really pissed off at being jerked awake and I got out of bed, stormed across the room and slammed the windows shut.

I was so annoyed and so hot that it took me until 2am to fall asleep again, and it was a terible sleep in this heat. I get up at 6am and have a full day of work ahead of me.

At 8:15 this morning, as I was leaving with the kids, neighbour comes out of his house with barky-arse dog, barking as usual and I asked him, as politely as I could if he could please do something about the noise at night because it's disturbing us.

He gave a little chuckle and said "well, keep your windows shut, then you won't have to slam them closed" and started to walk away.

I was gobsmacked for a second but then called after him "I shouldn't have to - it was 31° last night, you need to train your dog!" And he just waved a dismissive hand and walked off.

Did I have a right to complain?!

OP posts:
Curly66 · 03/07/2025 12:19

Fratolish · 02/07/2025 09:43

What was sharp witted about it? It wasn't some clever retort, he just told her to keep her windows shut 🥴

Glad it wasn’t just me missing what was ‘sharp witted’ about this comment. Bet they’re a great laugh to go down the Red Lion with. I imagine your sides would ache with all the gaffawing!

republicofjam · 03/07/2025 12:38

Dangermoo · 02/07/2025 19:04

No, my dogs are told to quiten down, when they bark. I just have a personality and sense of humour, unlike some.

Bless, of course you do.😬

Dangermoo · 03/07/2025 13:00

republicofjam · 03/07/2025 12:38

Bless, of course you do.😬

Know me personally, do you?

republicofjam · 03/07/2025 13:43

Dangermoo · 03/07/2025 13:00

Know me personally, do you?

Not at all, I'm just taking you at your word.

Curly66 · 03/07/2025 20:41

Itallcomesdowntothis · 02/07/2025 14:36

Slamming a window shut at midnight (presumable making noise when that was the porblem in the first place) instead of having an adult conversation is acting like a child. So yes she did.

Really???

Itallcomesdowntothis · 03/07/2025 22:30

Curly66 · 03/07/2025 20:41

Really???

Yup really.

Snugs10 · 03/07/2025 23:06

I always walked my dog at midnight but she did not bark when out walking

JuliaLilian · 04/07/2025 18:13

He’s selfish, rude and inconsiderate. Probably not much you can do about that unless you can think of some subtle ways to annoy him back.

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