Have done entertainment for the last few parties I've hosted, mainly because I was a bit scarred by going to a 4 year old's birthday a few years back, where they just hired a bouncy castle and let the kids have the run of the (large, lovely, well equipped with big wooden play frame etc) garden. Despite parents all being there, it just seemed to go totally feral, loads of fighting over toys, kids just going crazy.
Since then, I've favoured a much more structured approach. Usually do first half hour of free play (bouncy castle, other toys, craft option), then 30-40 mins of some hired entertainment (music and games, juggler etc - just one of these but gives you the sort of idea), then food, then bit of play before cake and home.
However, in the last year I've been to a few parties where they have just hired a bouncy castle (some in halls, some in gardens) and left the kids to it, and it hasn't gone wild like the original one that put me off this approach.
So, AIBU to save the cost of entertainment for DC's 6th birthday party and just have a bouncy castle and not do anything extra?
If so, any tips for stopping it descending into chaos? Parties still seem to be parents staying round here, so assume they mostly will although some might drop and go.
Can't edit title, should be 'at an infant age party'.