Do you feel differently about your DH each day?

[Unhappysally]

I have ADHD so I’m aware I’m probably more emotional than other’s and my brains wired differently. But some days I can really love him and I see him in a complete different light and some other days I absolutely hate him and what him out of my life.

Our relationship hasn’t been easy either I was undiagnosed most of my life so he’s been having ago at me now for about 9 years straight as he is very structured and likes everything to be in order and I’m the opposite (not by choice) I try my best. I am medicated now but still not the person who he wants me to be. I’m not sure if I’m just in the wrong relationship.

Im just trying to understand what is normal and what isn’t.

No, at least not yet n the sense of lurching from love to hating him and wanting him out of my life! What is it that changes for you to mean your attitude to him changes?

OMG yes!!! I thought it was just me! Mine is a genuinely good guy but I still feel like this.

I have ADHD too

No. I love my DH. Some days I am totally in love with him and other days he does my head in a bit. Generally dependent on what kind of moods we are both in. But either way we get on really well and I never have thoughts that I want him to leave, or want to walk away from the relationship or have him out of my life, even on days when he does things to annoy me.