Hi I’ve a male friend I’ve known 18 years, we talk online a few times a week as he lives 100 miles away. Never been a friendship for meeting up but we have supported each other though awful things.
He’s married 13 years no children she’s his 4th wife.
A couple days ago he told me he and his wife are splitting up been a year of growing apart but now they’ve agreed to go their own ways .
i asked if he has someone else as he’s lost loads weight on mounjaro and kept taking about how much attention he’s had off women from work and a photo was sent to his wife of him cuddling one and his wife was upset.
He admitted he’s meet a women 7 years younger really attractive and they kissed a lot and now she’s leaving her husband for him and he’s leaving his wife for her !
I can’t deal with cheats, he’s running off with someone he barley knows and she’s dumping her husband - I think it’s more than a kiss but I just don’t feel the same about our friendship as he’s lied - told me the past year he and his wife have lots life plans how amazing she is and how much he loves her and now he’s trying to say it’s been a year of not getting on and having separate lives, he barely messages me this any month before he told me and I feel awful for his wife. His wife is desperate for them to get back together he said today but 2!days ago he said she doesn’t want to be with him.
I feel it’s lies, he’s meet this women and leaving his wife for a stranger.
AIBU for feeling I feel he’s not the person I thought he was - he’s now blunt with me as I said it’s not a good idea to leave a spouce for a stranger and if I did I’d be single and not go straight into another relationship x