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Bonnie Blue-There has to be something wrong?

101 replies

Wanttogooutbutcba · 27/06/2025 15:15

Watched a video last night of an interview/debate 🤷🏻‍♀️between her and Andrew Tate…just so depressing, all of it.
I am fascinated by why she would do this and what’s really going on, is she ok?

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Parsleysalad · 27/06/2025 17:08

Someone asked her if she was worried about her kid's seeing all of this stuff and she said no because Bonnie Blue isn't her real name...

I think the whole thing is beyond grim, and the men are equally as grim

DoNoTakeNo · 27/06/2025 17:11

@user1494375188 OK I’ll bite - Why are you spelling words like that?

defrazzled · 27/06/2025 17:20

Wanttogooutbutcba · 27/06/2025 15:47

I haven’t seen the mother, is she the same?

She is her manager - who does that?

user1494375188 · 27/06/2025 17:26

Because I'm used 2 texting I don't even realise I. Doing it

Jabberwok · 27/06/2025 17:34

SocksAndTheCity · 27/06/2025 15:54

A woman makes choices about how she earns a living that most others wouldn't make and therefore she must be wrong/broken/damaged in some way. OK then Hmm

Have you actually seen her interviews...she looks completely dead behind the eyes. No emotional expression. She just does not come across as normal.

yes she has every right to do what she does. But remember, social workers described some of the victims of the grooming gangs as "having made a lifestyle choice to be prostitutes"

Ddakji · 27/06/2025 17:35

Clearly an extremely damaged woman.

Foreverm0re · 27/06/2025 17:41

user1494375188 · 27/06/2025 17:26

Because I'm used 2 texting I don't even realise I. Doing it

I had no idea there are people who still text like that. We don’t pay per letter anymore 😂

Wanttogooutbutcba · 27/06/2025 17:45

ProfessionalWhimsicalSkidaddler · 27/06/2025 17:03

I’ve been watching this out of pure morbid curiosity. I seem to only be able to manage 20 mins max at a time before inhave to turn off. I got to the point where he talks about having sex for any other reason than to procreate is gay. I smirked when she said “so you’re gay then?” And he wormed his way out.

she seems very much a “pick me” and specifically saying things to please him and make him like her. She says things simply to be provocative and sexual - perhaps some men like that but I cannot stand her blaming women for cheating and the hating of women she does. I’m hoping she’s doing it just for the money or because she’s too young to know facts yet. She seems to be a parrot for all things the worst kind of man says. almost like it’s an act. Fingers crossed.

Yes, she definitely wanted to impress him and have him like her

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hannahbanana93 · 27/06/2025 17:49

Some people can separate sex work from their real life, clearly this is a persona she is playing and it's making her millions. But selling your self in such a way will have a lasting impact emotionally, mentally and physically in years to come even if she is okay with it right now.

The men on the other hand... the fact those masked men can be our husbands, partners, brothers, fathers, uncles, friends...well that is some scary fucking shit.

Dappy777 · 27/06/2025 17:55

user1494375188 · 27/06/2025 15:20

The girl just loves the penis

No, the girl just loves money.

YouWillFindMeInTheGarden · 27/06/2025 17:55

oh come on….its her ‘act’ she’s putting on a persona

sjrs likely very different in RL! I don’t think something is ‘missing’

Wanttogooutbutcba · 27/06/2025 20:05

MakeItToTheMoon · 27/06/2025 17:07

This is what I was thinking. She comes across like a sociopath… devoid of emotion. I don’t think her antics affect her psychologically like we all think it would.

Bizarre

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Wanttogooutbutcba · 27/06/2025 20:06

defrazzled · 27/06/2025 17:20

She is her manager - who does that?

Jesus…all financial, your own mum, that’s so wrong

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Wanttogooutbutcba · 27/06/2025 20:07

Ddakji · 27/06/2025 17:35

Clearly an extremely damaged woman.

Has to be, so curious as to why

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Wanttogooutbutcba · 27/06/2025 20:08

hannahbanana93 · 27/06/2025 17:49

Some people can separate sex work from their real life, clearly this is a persona she is playing and it's making her millions. But selling your self in such a way will have a lasting impact emotionally, mentally and physically in years to come even if she is okay with it right now.

The men on the other hand... the fact those masked men can be our husbands, partners, brothers, fathers, uncles, friends...well that is some scary fucking shit.

Really grim, all of it

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Wanttogooutbutcba · 27/06/2025 20:10

hamstersarse · 27/06/2025 15:25

She appears to have no emotion at all. Completely flat affect. Even when she says “I love it” there is literally no sense of feeling, just totally flat.

it could be psychopathy, could be narcissism, could be disassociating for some reason, but there’s definitely something missing.

I can’t even imagine her crying,

They asked her when she last cried, she could hardly remember said years ago maybe when her grandad died, but that she doesn’t cry

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Wanttogooutbutcba · 27/06/2025 20:12

Ursulla · 27/06/2025 15:52

That flat affect, which is very similar to Katie Price in years gone by if you remember, is often seen in people with unprocessed trauma. As for the source of the trauma, who knows, but sex work in and of itself can be traumatising.

Yes very like Katie Price in some ways, really odd. Defensive but then almost overdoing it all and saying how much she loves it, the way she speaks -something so wrong

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Pingiop · 27/06/2025 20:33

Well it’s clear she’s doing it for fame and money, that must be obvious.

BeachPossum · 27/06/2025 20:35

She makes astronomical money. I'm not saying that justifies it etc., but it's why she does it.

Pingiop · 27/06/2025 20:38

defrazzled · 27/06/2025 15:41

I think her and her mother are sociopaths, they tick most boxes on the checklist

Sociopathy is a serious mental health condition. Surely people should have empathy for people who have a mental health condition rather than judgement. I certainly don’t judge those have BPD or depression.

Pingiop · 27/06/2025 20:41

Wanttogooutbutcba · 27/06/2025 20:10

They asked her when she last cried, she could hardly remember said years ago maybe when her grandad died, but that she doesn’t cry

You do realise she’s playing a character? I don’t understand how more people haven’t clocked on that whatever she says she’s doing it for a reaction. She’s laughing all the way to the bank.

DinaofCloud9 · 27/06/2025 21:08

She seems to hate women. Unless that's all part of her act.

PilatesAndLattes · 27/06/2025 21:11

I saw a post saying she was trans and used to be a man. Probably just click bait, but now when I look at her all I can see is a trans woman, she really does look like she’s transitioned and her voice too! It would explain a lot if she was genetically a man!

lnks · 27/06/2025 21:13

It’s weird how people never seem to start threads to discuss the hundreds of depraved men who line up to participate. The focus is always on the women.

Pingiop · 27/06/2025 21:15

lnks · 27/06/2025 21:13

It’s weird how people never seem to start threads to discuss the hundreds of depraved men who line up to participate. The focus is always on the women.

I seen one that did, but most still blamed BB…