I’ve had an inkling for years that partners mum has slagged me off to his family! She was always slagging His brothers ex off and we all truly believed how awful the ex was to his “ poor “ mum ! She was very good at winding up and then playing the victim ! If things didn’t go her way she’d throw her toys out the pram and then moan to everyone but not tell them how she’s been !
one year I didn’t follow her demands and had Xmas in my own home and that’s when she turned nasty towards me little comments and digs undermined me where my kids were concerned brought her snappy dog round when she was asked not to etc etc
anyway I’ve thought for a long time this has happened as several of his family removed me off fb but kept everyone else on there ! They used petty excuses like “ just having a clear out etc “
have spoken to his mum and I thought it’s all sorted ! Over the years I’ve really made an effort to be her friend despite what she put me through ( she made me really unwell every visit I had migraines chest pains from the stress )
So here’s my AIBU- she came and met our baby, since the birth she’s not once text me to ask how I am or anything ! I may be over thinking this as I’ve been so unwell since the birth but not once has she text me to ask how I am, it’s not like she doesn’t know how to text because when she wants something she can send me long messages ! If I can’t make a family event I get really guilt tripped and told im part of the family etc etc
also none of his family have send any message of congratulations or anything ! Both his sils haven’t acknowledged the birth of our baby ! I knitted little outfits for their babies etc ! Feeling a little hurt by it but not sure if I’m being unreasonable!