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Why can't I stop thinking about food?

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summerholidaynow · 26/06/2025 21:39

I feel like I have constant food noise. It drives me mad. I end up grazing a lot.

If you've had this, what helped? And please don't say willpower.

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Goldenmemories · 26/06/2025 21:50

Cutting out sugar and increasing protein, fibre and complex carbs really helps reduce food noise.

summerholidaynow · 26/06/2025 21:55

I do that already - I am a very clean eater

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SunshineDeLaSoul · 26/06/2025 21:55

Mounjaro! Only helpful if you’re very overweight but honestly the only thing that switched it off.

WindySkiesAtNight · 26/06/2025 22:02

We need more context here.

Why is grazing on food bad? Sounds like a perfectly fine way to eat. You don't have to eat three set meals if that doesn't suit you.

Best advice I can give is write out what you honestly eat in an average day, and pick an easy win for you to change. Then eat like that for a while.

Then have a look again and where your diet is and where you'd like it to be.

Don't aim to eliminate all the fun from your diet. 80% healthy is fine.

Those are things I've picked up that worked for me.

RobertaFirmino · 26/06/2025 22:08

Next time the cashews (or whatever good it is) are calling you, ask yourself:
Am I hungry?
Will I feel bad for eating between meals?
Will I even register that I've eaten it?

Is there something you like that you find really absorbing? Books or films are the obvious ones. Could you make a list of ones you've always wanted to see it classics you should have read but never did? Just to occupy your mind while you are changing your habits.

SwanRivers · 26/06/2025 22:10

If we're not allowed to say willpower, that's a hell of a lot of people you don't want to hear from.

EggnogNoggin · 26/06/2025 22:16

Cutting out upf as far as reasonably possible.

Making rules so I could ignore the noise and disengage from the "shall I, shan't I?" to and fro to the cupboard, with the inevitable rationalisation that I should tonight but that I wouldn't tomorrow - inevitably repeating the exact same thing the next day.

Not eating breakfast. If I don't eat in the morning, i get busy and dont get hungry. Then I eat a big dinner and don't feel hungry in the morning (but of course still want to eat all night, hence I now have a rule about having one chocolate bar per night, whether I fancy it or not. The structure helps me a lot).

Lmnop22 · 26/06/2025 22:28

I find myself wanting to eat in the afternoons but not being as bothered in the mornings or evenings.

So I schedule errands or work commitments or whatever to be heavier at those times so I’m distracted and then I’m back on track by the next part of the day!

suki1964 · 26/06/2025 22:30

I live with food noise all day , every day ( didn't know it was a thing till I joined here ) I think about food all day

I have to control what I eat all the time. I have to meal plan, seriously think about my meals, keep them well balanced , planning ahead for meals out, parties, etc

Half a plate of veg/salad/fruit, a pile of protein, handful of carbs

If I hit the carbs then all bets are off - and I pig out

Until I changed my habits to the ones I have now, I actually didn't eat a lot of food, but that food I did eat was high carb/sugar

I do have to pile the protein on, I eat a lot of cottage cheese, greek yoghurt, tinned fish, eggs, chicken, turkey

I hold back on milk and cheese - one cappuccino a day and hard cheese - small amount once a week or so

Dont touch white bread or pasta - wholemeal only, and rice and potatoes are rare - one or the other once a week at the most

Eat lots of lentils, beans and pulses to fill me

Processed foods are down to things like ketchup / mayo / etc

If I keep it clean I can resist the noise

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