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AIBU?

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to park here anyway?

27 replies

BigDahliaFan · 26/06/2025 11:49

This is a bit of a non-issue - so feel free to scroll on past if that is what you are thinking.

There's an off lead dog walk that I have to drive to. It's convenient in the morning when I don't have much time. I can park a 4 minute walk along the road to the off lead bit or (outside my in laws) which is a 8 minute walk to the off lead bit.

I usually park with the shorter road walk as 1) it's shorter and 2) the dog isn't confused thinking she's going into my in laws house.

The 4 minute walk parking is in the entrance way to an estate, a very nice estate with walled gardens and electric gates on the driveways of the very large houses and a lot of range rovers.

I was stopped by a man in one of the range rovers who told me it's a private road and I can't park there.

At the time I was a bit frazzled and just said 'OK' and moved the car to outside my in laws down the road.

The thing is at the time I was fairly sure it's not a private road but not quite sure enough to argue my case. But I've since checked with the in laws and on line and no, it's a council adopted road - he just doesn't want people parking there.

So....AIBU to just park there anyway and argue it out with him if he has a go again? Or is that just twatty behaviour from me? And I do the extra walking with a dog slightly confused as to why she's not heading to granny's for a slap up tasty treat or two?

And to recognise that part of the reasoning I want to park in the posh road is because he pissed me off.

OP posts:
monicagellerbing · 27/06/2025 08:23

@Tourist29so what? Doesn’t give him the right to tell people they can’t park on a public road. They are separate issues

MeringueOutang · 27/06/2025 08:32

Sorry OP I think YABU because you're driving more to walk your dog less. There are all sorts of reasons why it's a bloody nuisance to park near the entrance to an estate, such as getting in the way of people coming and going especially if two people are coming in opposite directions at the same time. Just park outside your in laws and give your dog more exercise.

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