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To think it’s time to scrap the concept of BMI?

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AnyoneWhoHasAHeart · 26/06/2025 08:52

There’s a lot of talk these days about the obesity crisis, and what a healthy weight should be. And I totally agree that we absolutely are in a place where obesity is definitely a thing.

However, there seems to be very little talk about what is at the other end of the scale, and being. Underweight seems to be a trend people want to aspire to.

I calculated my BMI this morning, and it told me I have a BMI of 21.

I’ve just spent four months in hospital, have had major surgery, and lost an astronomical amount of weight. I wasn’t overweight to begin with, but I am 5ft 2, and I currently weigh 44kg. I don’t need to be told I need to gain some weight at least, and I am trying, but I’ve lost my appetite so that’s a process.

But calculating my BMI this morning it said that my BMI is 21, which is almost at the upper end of the scale, however it then goes on to say that a healthy weight for my stats is between 47/60kg. So how exactly does that follow?

If you’re looking at BMI only you could be forgiven for thinking that 44kg is a healthy weight, when trust me it really isn’t at this point.

So how many people are being told they’re obese based on these types of calculations where actually, they’re probably not?

We Need to start looking at weight not BMI, because it’s just not accurate.

OP posts:
Afewtimesagain · 26/06/2025 10:36

YellowCamperVan · 26/06/2025 10:27

The height to waist indicator is brutal lol, I'm an hourglass shape and even at 22 BMI I had too much weight around my middle when I calculated it! Something to aim for I guess haha.

Most of the people upset about BMI would get a shock if they moved to height/waist or even worse... fat callipers!

Someone with an hourglass shape has a small waist surely? That's the point of the shape name. Apples and rectangles have a wider waist.

OMGitsnotgood · 26/06/2025 10:36

AnyoneWhoHasAHeart · 26/06/2025 08:59

Just for reference, I didn’t calculate it manually, I used an online calculator.

So if I’m getting wrong calculations off the online calculators, then others will be as well..

Please link to the tool you used, as it is clearly faulty.

Thistletwo · 26/06/2025 10:37

ExercicenformedeZ · 26/06/2025 09:31

Even though you miscalculated your BMI, I agree that it is a silly tool. It is very vague and doesn't take into account muscle mass or body fat percentage.

It does in that it is so wide. As pp pointed out, she could be between 7.5 stone and 10 and still be regarded healthy. I am 23 bmi and am very muscular. The scale is so wide that me with my big muscles am still seen as normal. Anyone with a bmi over 25 and thinks they are ok are kidding themselves.

ConfusedSloth · 26/06/2025 10:39

It’s rare to see an OP who is so absolutely right and so absolutely wrong at the same time.

BMI is a ridiculous tool. Some people can be a very unhealthy weight in the healthy range. When it says 18.5-25 is “healthy”, it doesn’t mean “as long as you are in there, you’re a healthy weight” it means “your healthy weight could be anywhere in here”. So, someone with a BMI of 18.5 could be dangerously underweight for their body, someone with a BMI of 25 could be overweight for their body. Bodies are built differently and small-framed, narrow-built person would really feel unwell at a BMI of 25, and people who are higher-metabolism or wider set may find themselves losing hair, stopping periods or fainting if they go below 20.

It also ignores that there’s a healthy balance of fat and muscle - a very low body fat is very unhealthy, even if you make up that mass in muscle. So, a woman with a 12% body fat but high muscle mass isn’t healthy and her BMI would be. At that BFP, you’d likely see all kinds of issues including seizures, migraines, etc - but would be a healthy BMI.

This wouldn’t be such an issue if our medical system weren’t so reliant on it. If a woman with a 12% body fat and BMI of 20 went to a GP complaining of migraines - the BMI is healthy so her unhealthy body fat would be ignored.

And all of the above is the problem for the (roughly) 50% of people that BMI is actually applicable to in the first place!

Height to waist ratio, whilst not perfect, is more accurate and simpler. In light of that, BMI serves no purpose.

ConfusedSloth · 26/06/2025 10:45

Thistletwo · 26/06/2025 10:37

It does in that it is so wide. As pp pointed out, she could be between 7.5 stone and 10 and still be regarded healthy. I am 23 bmi and am very muscular. The scale is so wide that me with my big muscles am still seen as normal. Anyone with a bmi over 25 and thinks they are ok are kidding themselves.

Ilona Mayer and Christine Ohuruogu aren’t just “kidding themselves”, they managed to kid entire Olympic committees and teams of Olympic doctors…

Honestly, people thinking that they’re sooooo muscular or fat with a BMI of 23 or that they’re soooo skinny with a BMI of 21 that there’s no way anyone could be bigger/smaller and healthy (against all known and proven medical fact) are so strange. All you’re saying is that you have body issues.

YellowCamperVan · 26/06/2025 10:49

Afewtimesagain · 26/06/2025 10:36

Someone with an hourglass shape has a small waist surely? That's the point of the shape name. Apples and rectangles have a wider waist.

Yeah exactly. I've always had wider hips and a narrow waist. And yet my waist was still too wide compared to height. Not challenging it, just amazed me!

timestressed · 26/06/2025 10:55

Have you used NHS calculator? Can you post your link?

ErrolTheDragon · 26/06/2025 10:57

YellowCamperVan · 26/06/2025 10:27

The height to waist indicator is brutal lol, I'm an hourglass shape and even at 22 BMI I had too much weight around my middle when I calculated it! Something to aim for I guess haha.

Most of the people upset about BMI would get a shock if they moved to height/waist or even worse... fat callipers!

It really is brutal! Mine comes out a bit above 0.5 … ah, I’m sure that’s got to be the muscle thanks to my Pilates instructor.Grin

Almostwelsh · 26/06/2025 13:48

Possibly the OP wrongly used the child version of the BMI calculator? That can make a difference.

bridgetreilly · 26/06/2025 13:57
  1. OP miscalculated her BMI
  2. OP misinterpreted the result she did get
  3. OP is at the end of four months in hospital following major surgery at which point, BMI is not really a relevant tool.

Based on this she thinks it should be scrapped? No.

Afewtimesagain · 26/06/2025 14:41

YellowCamperVan · 26/06/2025 10:49

Yeah exactly. I've always had wider hips and a narrow waist. And yet my waist was still too wide compared to height. Not challenging it, just amazed me!

I see what you mean. After your post I measured mine and I am within healthy range with a BMI of 19 but there isn't a whole lot of wiggle room. If I put on weight I could still have a healthy BMI with an increased risk height to waist ratio. I'm a rectangle.

dynamiccactus · 26/06/2025 15:03

I think BMI is fine. Most of us are not muscly rugby players and therefore it is pretty accurate and helpful.

Viviennemary · 26/06/2025 18:31

I think it's a reasonable guidance. And shouldn't be scrapped

Hubblebubble · 26/06/2025 18:37

@Thistletwo I have a BMI of 26 and I genuinely think i am OK. I'm doing a half ironman next month. I did a half marathon last month. I have a very active lifestyle. I'm just a female endomorph, which larger than average breasts and muscular legs.

GiveDogBone · 26/06/2025 18:38

BMI works for the vast majority of people (there are some that it doesn’t, eg professional athletes with a lot of muscle, but that’s not most people).

You normally find the people criticising it don’t like the results (e.g, it’s telling them - correctly - they are fat).

Crazyworldmum · 26/06/2025 18:57

Mixed feelings about this one . I spend all my teen years thinking I was fat as a size 10 , I’m now a size 16 and while I accept expectations change and girls like to be curvier , I still look at some supposed fit girls and think “ she is bound to be overweight “ and I bet they have a high fat percentage .
Im not saying people are not pretty or perfect as they wish but there is a difference between stereotypes and healthy . I think BMI still is accurate when it comes to health risk .

ErrolTheDragon · 26/06/2025 19:22

Afewtimesagain · 26/06/2025 14:41

I see what you mean. After your post I measured mine and I am within healthy range with a BMI of 19 but there isn't a whole lot of wiggle room. If I put on weight I could still have a healthy BMI with an increased risk height to waist ratio. I'm a rectangle.

I must admit that while the waist to height measurement may be useful, again I rather suspect it is too blunt a tool and may not sufficiently take into account different builds, and also age.

Serencwtch · 26/06/2025 19:32

You need to convert your height into cm rather than feet & inches.

Looks like BMI is pretty accurate for you.

Perhaps we need to focus more on maths skills in schools. It's very simple arithmetic!

AnneMarieW · 26/06/2025 19:48

YellowCamperVan · 26/06/2025 10:27

The height to waist indicator is brutal lol, I'm an hourglass shape and even at 22 BMI I had too much weight around my middle when I calculated it! Something to aim for I guess haha.

Most of the people upset about BMI would get a shock if they moved to height/waist or even worse... fat callipers!

🤣 It benefits me because I’m 5”8 with a small waist and wide hips (most of my fat is carried on my arms, hips and legs) so with both ratios even at an “overweight” BMI, I was fine. It’s only if my BMI crept up towards the obese category that my waist got too broad.

It’s funny, I used to see loads of women with my shape (I think they even used to call it the “typical British pear shape”) but now I do seem to see many more women with a thicker trunk/bigger stomach, yet relatively slender limbs. I know it’s not good health wise but a part of me envies that it’s easier to dress that body shape- I never wore sleeveless things or short skirts/shorts etc even when young 😢

mondaytosunday · 26/06/2025 21:24

BMI is a blunt but useful instrument. People of same height and weight can look different and body composition can be quite different.
No one should rely on one measurement. And weight also isn’t an indication of health. Either end of the ‘scale’ is not good but there’s quite a broad range in the middle. My DS gf looks totally fit if a tad on the thin end but she can barely lift a tin of beans. His previous gf was about two stone heavier but had amazing endurance, though was probably in the ‘overweight’ category of BMI. But she was much healthier.
In all cases it’s as @BangersAndGnashsays, common sense should prevail.

GripGetter · 27/06/2025 07:31

NamelessNancy · 26/06/2025 09:11

Not a perfect system for sure but how on earth would just looking at weight improve things? A 12 stone woman height 4ft 11 vs a 12 stone woman height 5ft 11 have very different body shapes and likely fat levels.

It's not just about weight, but weight distribution as well. My GP said waist circumference is a better guide than BMI.
In which case I have my work cut out!

Bowies · 27/06/2025 08:35

It’s a population based tool with limits at an individual level but at the moment we don’t have anything better.

It should be interpreted sensibly in the context of individual factors like height (much shorter or taller) body composition and types (such as muscle).

Sorry you haven’t been well. Hopefully as you start to eat regular small meals your appetite will slowly increase to manage bigger portions, that’s what happened to me.

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