I hope this isn't insensitive. I just know quite a few people in my life who have been diagnosed with BRCA1/2 related cancers - ovarian and breast. Not relatives, just friends and friends of friends.
It got me thinking about my own family, and how I have very limited family history. My mum only has one brother (men's risk of BRCA related cancers is much lower - he is totally fine) and my dad is an only child. Neither my mum, nor my grandmothers have had cancer. One died of a heart condition in her 60s and one is still alive and thriving at 86. But I did some research, which suggests that the absence of ovarian /breast cancer in your family might not accurately reflect your true risk, if you have few female relatives. It's just that there’s less opportunity to see it manifest.
I have some other non-related health issues, which have made me quite anxious, but also proactive, about my health and what I can do to improve it and prevent other problems in the future. Is it worth me getting tested for the BRCA mutations? I know the NHS won't test for it in my case. If I had at least 2 more older female relatives (i.e. aunts etc), and they were fine, I'd worry less, I guess. But the lack of family history and limited opportunity for something to manifest makes me think maybe it's worth it? If I am positive, at least there's things I can do about i.e. monitoring, risk-reducing surgery etc.
I guess my question is: has anyone without a family history of BRCA related cancers, or one of the BRCA mutations, gotten tested anyway?
I should also say, in case it comes up, I'm not of Ashkenazi Jewish descent (am South Asian background).