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AIBU?

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It's a parking one..

58 replies

JoelyJoe · 24/06/2025 00:45

Near where I live is a residential street with a small rank of shops.
Opposite the shops is a long parking bay (enough for about 8 cars), and some houses, set back from the road. I'm pretty sure the bay exists to service the shops.
One of the houses has created a drive / parking space for their car, in front of their house. The car faces towards the pavement and parking bay, and they have to cross both to access the road. They have put up a load of (unofficial) no parking signs, and have effectively dropped the kerb themselves by putting some plastic wedges across.
Inevitably they keep getting blocked in because they are trying to prevent people from parking in the bay in front of their car, but it's a public parking bay! I'm sure they have no right to annex it to access their space.
When people park in front, the house/car owners get very abusive, shouting at drivers to move and threatening to clamp them. Surely they can't. They don't own the bay, and shouldn't be parking behind a kerb that hasn't been officially blocked anyway.
I've been tempted to risk parking in front of them myself, when it's the only bay available. But I'm worried they would key my car!
Who is being unreasonable?
YABU - these people gave a right to park near their home.
YANBU - you can't just annex part of a public parking bay as unofficial access to where you want to put your car

OP posts:
DoubleRainbow3 · 24/06/2025 00:48

How does this affect your life in any way 🫣

NWL · 24/06/2025 00:50

Oh that would annoy me! I would consider reporting to the local authority.

HeddaGarbled · 24/06/2025 00:53

Obviously they’re chancers but on-street parking opposite a row of shops must be an absolute nightmare so I don’t think I’d make life even more difficult for them than it already is. Can’t you park outside your own house and walk to the shops?

JoelyJoe · 24/06/2025 00:54

DoubleRainbow3 · 24/06/2025 00:48

How does this affect your life in any way 🫣

It affects me when I want to use those shops and there is nowhere to park...

OP posts:
MrsClatterbuck · 24/06/2025 00:54

Someone put up a no parking sign in front of their house in my home town. It was a public road and wasn't there very long.

BooneyBeautiful · 24/06/2025 00:57

NWL · 24/06/2025 00:50

Oh that would annoy me! I would consider reporting to the local authority.

This. The local authority get very angry about this sort of thing.

Comefromaway · 24/06/2025 00:57

Well for a start only public authorities such as the police or the council can clamp a car!

JoelyJoe · 24/06/2025 00:59

HeddaGarbled · 24/06/2025 00:53

Obviously they’re chancers but on-street parking opposite a row of shops must be an absolute nightmare so I don’t think I’d make life even more difficult for them than it already is. Can’t you park outside your own house and walk to the shops?

I don't go there often, they are not my closest shops, they are just convenient to drop in sometimes as my son goes to football nearby.
I agree it is probably a nightmare for residents as the whole street is pretty rammed.

OP posts:
Hazeltwig · 24/06/2025 01:02

Report it to LA's highways or planning dept.

IfYouPutASausageInItItsNotAViennetta · 24/06/2025 01:15

The shops are a red herring, really. The fact is that it is a public road (or an offshoot of the main one) with available first-come-first-served parking spaces for anybody to use, for any purpose - be it parking outside their home, parking to use a shop or just parking up to have an urban in-car picnic.

Assuming there are no restrictions in using the parking, the homeowners could presumably nab a space and park there on the road outside their house for as long as they want. But I'm guessing that they also want to be able to have guaranteed parking waiting for them when they leave the space to take the car out somewhere.

They would need to apply to the council (and pay) to drop their kerb officially, if they want to use their self-created parking space on their property and have permanent clear access to it. The council don't simply physically drop the kerb, but they also verify and approve whether they deem it appropriate to have a guaranteed exclusive access for one property there, and they have to ensure that the pavement is/can be made strong enough to facilitate the weight of a vehicle regularly passing over it without risking damaging pipes or cables underneath.

I think the overwhelming likelihood is that the council would not approve this - hence they have arbitrarily decided what they reckon is 'right' (and just so happens to suit them) and are now exercising that self-granted 'right' - not unlike a cat who has decided that a neighbour's garden is its own territory to wee and poo in, and fiercely chases away any other cats who try to muscle in.

Unfortunately, they don't sound like reasonable people, so although you would have the perfect right to park on that bit of road, as you say, you can't know whether they will react by criminally damaging your car or similar.

In some cases such as this, councils have installed strong bollards (or 'conveniently' situated road signs) which physically block the homeowners from being able to unofficially drive across the pavement to park on their property.

McTootsBagpipes · 24/06/2025 01:19

As someone wiser than me once wrote: he doesn’t have a driveway, he has a patio with aspirations.

ReadingSoManyThreads · 24/06/2025 01:35

Councils usually take this very seriously and will action it if you report it.

It's because planning permission is required and a home owner needs to pay for a proper dropped kerb. People are not allowed to use makeshift ramps or drive over pavements without the correct permissions and dropped kerbs in place.

nomas · 24/06/2025 03:57

DoubleRainbow3 · 24/06/2025 00:48

How does this affect your life in any way 🫣

Instead of covering your eyes, why not read the thread and see how it affects OP?

Drifter · 24/06/2025 04:15

DoubleRainbow3 · 24/06/2025 00:48

How does this affect your life in any way 🫣

She sometimes needs to park in the space. As she said in her post. Why the emoji?

MoreChocPls · 24/06/2025 04:54

Report to local authority about illegal dropped kerb and dangerous parking

Greenvases · 24/06/2025 08:23

Photograph what they have done and send it to the council.
You don't get to determine how public parking is used, no matter how annoying.

RH1234 · 24/06/2025 08:26

McTootsBagpipes · 24/06/2025 01:19

As someone wiser than me once wrote: he doesn’t have a driveway, he has a patio with aspirations.

This made me smile!

TooBored1 · 24/06/2025 08:32

HeddaGarbled · 24/06/2025 00:53

Obviously they’re chancers but on-street parking opposite a row of shops must be an absolute nightmare so I don’t think I’d make life even more difficult for them than it already is. Can’t you park outside your own house and walk to the shops?

Surely they must have known this when they bought the house?

angelinawasrobbed · 24/06/2025 08:37

If all the houses in the row followed suit, there would be no parking left for the shops

allthemiddlechildrenoftheworld · 24/06/2025 09:08

@JoelyJoe just shocked that no one has asked for a drawing!!!!!!!

Seeline · 24/06/2025 09:19

Just report to the Council highways department.
PP is only required for a dropped kerb if access is onto a classified road (A, B or C).
But a license from the highway authority is always necessary. They look at safety, as well as making sure the work is done properly. Driving over a pavement can cause damage not only to the surface but to utilities beneath the surface, unless the pavement is constructed to withstand constant traffic over it.
The use of plastic or timber wedges is not acceptable. They can cause damage to the road, other vehicles and are dangerous for cyclists etc.

CoastalCalm · 24/06/2025 09:42

Report it

pontivex · 24/06/2025 09:48

allthemiddlechildrenoftheworld · 24/06/2025 09:08

@JoelyJoe just shocked that no one has asked for a drawing!!!!!!!

I was thinking the same!! I read it thought ‘this needs a diagram, someone will have asked’ scrolled down and nothing!

@JoelyJoewe need a diagram please.

Vaxtable · 24/06/2025 09:56

I would report it to the council

rainbowstardrops · 24/06/2025 09:58

allthemiddlechildrenoftheworld · 24/06/2025 09:08

@JoelyJoe just shocked that no one has asked for a drawing!!!!!!!

Same!
To be fair, a diagram would make it easier to understand because I can’t quite visualise the set up.