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Do you think Donald Trump is reflective and self-critical in private?

74 replies

Gepl · 23/06/2025 19:46

Donald Trump likes to tell us how brilliant he is and how amazing everything he does is. His strikes on Iran were a stupendous mega-success. His tariffs are single-handedly the greatest economic move in the history of the universe. He’s removing more illegal immigrants than every American President in history ever, ever.

But is this just front, or does he believe all this stuff? In private, is he reflective and wracked by self-doubt? Is it all a front to project a strongman image?

OP posts:
Dontlletmedownbruce · 23/06/2025 23:44

He's a genuine megalomaniac. No I don't think he reflects much because he is adamant he is right. On some level I suspect he is grateful for his privilege and position but in the sense that 'I'm so lucky the world got to notice how great I am' . I believe he is delusional and in that sense you could say he knows no better. It's the people propping him up that should be ashamed of themselves.

BMW6 · 23/06/2025 23:48

Nah, absolutely zero self inspection, shallower than a 1mm deep puddle x total and absolute arrogance.

No hope at all.

BMW6 · 23/06/2025 23:49

His nieces book "Too much and never enough" is an interesting read

TempestTost · 23/06/2025 23:50

I really don't know.

However, I know that when Bill Maher, who had been quite critical of Trump, had dinner with him, he said he seemed like a completely differernt person than you see in the media, from the way he spoke and used language, to openly admitting he lost the previous election.

So, maybe.

PractisingMyTelekenipsis · 23/06/2025 23:56

Dear Mr. President
Come take a walk with me
Let's pretend we're just two people and
You're not better than me
I'd like to ask you some questions if we can speak honestly
What do you feel when you see all the homeless on the street?
Who do you pray for at night before you go to sleep?
What do you feel when you look in the mirror?
Are you proud?
How do you sleep while the rest of us cry?
How do you dream when a mother has no chance to say goodbye?
How do you walk with your head held high?
Can you even look me in the eye
And tell me why?
Dear Mr. President
Were you a lonely boy? (Are you a lonely boy?)
Are you a lonely boy?
(Are you a lonely boy?)
How can you say
No child is left behind?
We're not dumb, and we're not blind
They're all sitting in your cells
While you pave the road to hell
What kind of father would take his own daughter's rights away?
And what kind of father might hate his own daughter if she were gay?
I can only imagine what the first lady has to say
You've come a long way from whiskey and cocaine
How do you sleep while the rest of us cry?
How do you dream when a mother has no chance to say goodbye?
How do you walk with your head held high?
Can you even look me in the eye?
Let me tell you 'bout hard work
Minimum wage with a baby on the way
Let me tell you 'bout hard work
Rebuilding your house after the bombs took them away
Let me tell you 'bout hard work
Building a bed out of a cardboard box
Let me tell you 'bout hard work
Hard work
Hard work
You don't know nothing 'bout hard work
Hard work
Hard work
Oh
How do you sleep at night?
How do you walk with your head held high?
Dear Mr. President
You'd never take a walk with me
Would you?

OK so it was written about George W.Bush. But applies just as much now as it did then.

I doubt Trump cares about anything other than Trump.

FruityCider · 24/06/2025 00:08

Hahahaha hahahaha. Hahahaha hahahaha. Ha ha. Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha. Hahahahahaha. Ha-di-ha-ha.

Haha.

No.

NoBinturongsHereMate · 24/06/2025 01:37

The closest he gets to self reflection is gazing adoringly at himself in a mirror.

cannotbetooarsed · 24/06/2025 01:39

Vaxtable · 23/06/2025 19:54

He doesn’t know how to self reflect, he’s nuts

This👆He is not mentally stable..am being kind 🤦‍♀️

cannotbetooarsed · 24/06/2025 01:43

PractisingMyTelekenipsis · 23/06/2025 23:56

Dear Mr. President
Come take a walk with me
Let's pretend we're just two people and
You're not better than me
I'd like to ask you some questions if we can speak honestly
What do you feel when you see all the homeless on the street?
Who do you pray for at night before you go to sleep?
What do you feel when you look in the mirror?
Are you proud?
How do you sleep while the rest of us cry?
How do you dream when a mother has no chance to say goodbye?
How do you walk with your head held high?
Can you even look me in the eye
And tell me why?
Dear Mr. President
Were you a lonely boy? (Are you a lonely boy?)
Are you a lonely boy?
(Are you a lonely boy?)
How can you say
No child is left behind?
We're not dumb, and we're not blind
They're all sitting in your cells
While you pave the road to hell
What kind of father would take his own daughter's rights away?
And what kind of father might hate his own daughter if she were gay?
I can only imagine what the first lady has to say
You've come a long way from whiskey and cocaine
How do you sleep while the rest of us cry?
How do you dream when a mother has no chance to say goodbye?
How do you walk with your head held high?
Can you even look me in the eye?
Let me tell you 'bout hard work
Minimum wage with a baby on the way
Let me tell you 'bout hard work
Rebuilding your house after the bombs took them away
Let me tell you 'bout hard work
Building a bed out of a cardboard box
Let me tell you 'bout hard work
Hard work
Hard work
You don't know nothing 'bout hard work
Hard work
Hard work
Oh
How do you sleep at night?
How do you walk with your head held high?
Dear Mr. President
You'd never take a walk with me
Would you?

OK so it was written about George W.Bush. But applies just as much now as it did then.

I doubt Trump cares about anything other than Trump.

Agree but Trumpy cannot read so many words ! Too much for him to comprehend.

HRTQueen · 24/06/2025 01:46

no not one bit

MuckFusk · 24/06/2025 01:47

It's a front but he doesn't consciously know it is. He has trained himself to believe these delusions, as all narcissists do. They have to believe them in order to have anything resembling a personal identity, so anything that contradicts their delusions presents as an existential threat. Subconsciously he feels like a loser because of his emotionally abusive father, who both coddled him and mistreated him. Mary Trump has the deets on that and she has a Youtube channel. Trump's insecurity is why he's so sensitive to criticism and easily triggered into a raging social media shitfit. He almost certainly has a pretty low IQ, which doesn't help matters.

YourOnMute · 24/06/2025 01:48

BMW6 · 23/06/2025 23:49

His nieces book "Too much and never enough" is an interesting read

I listened to the "Trumped" podcast and his reactions to anyone and anything that he didn't agree with was mind blowing, including the law and Scotland full stop.

I then thought of how he has treated his own family.
So, no I don't. He's a megalomaniac narcissist.

Comtesse · 24/06/2025 02:01

Reflective and self critical? Lolllllllll

Topseyt123 · 24/06/2025 03:26

No. He is as thick as shit and a totally self-absorbed arse, whether in private or in public.

America is fast losing its status as any real sort of democracy under him. They've never had a worse or a less intelligent president.

Drifter · 24/06/2025 03:59

The only self reflection he does is admiring himself in the mirror.

MyLov · 24/06/2025 04:20

LOL. No I do not. He’s definitely a narcissist. Possibly a psychopath. I don’t think he has ever self-reflected in his life, let alone had self-doubt or been self-critical. He thinks he’s the bees knees.

MyLov · 24/06/2025 04:20

Drifter · 24/06/2025 03:59

The only self reflection he does is admiring himself in the mirror.

😂😂😂😂

2021x · 24/06/2025 04:50

No.

It is very clear that if it doesn't make him look good then he isn't interested in thinking about it. He is a weak shallow individual and he cannot deal with any negative feelings about himself.

He is a malignant narcissist and he is rich. Thats the only way someone with a average level of intelligence can get into a position like the President of the US. He doesn't spend any time thinking about how his actions affects other people. That frees up alot of time and energy.

Most other world leaders are also narcisissts but that is balanced have a higher level of intelligence so they actually are able to lead, even if they behave terribly behind the scenes.

Trump only has one techniquq- which is brinkmanship i.e. extreme behaviour so the other party back down. It will wear thin very very quickly and can be easily exploited.

estrogone · 24/06/2025 05:06

The mental image of the Don wringing his hands at end of day, ruminating on ICE/Bunker Busters/arming Israel's atrocities in Gaza. Wondering anxiously if he had made the right choices. Listening to a self critical inner monologue and questioning his place in the world.

So ridiculous it's funny (a bit like Mr Bean driving around in his armchair mini).

Hell would literally freeze over before that man self reflects.

emmetgirl · 24/06/2025 05:14

er…..not a chance.

Bridport · 24/06/2025 09:09

If he was reflective and self critical in private surely he would look in his bathroom mirror and think What The FUCK Is That On My Head and Why AM I orange?

GentleGreyFinch · 24/06/2025 12:19

I think it's all an act. It's buffoonery - similar to Boris Johnson's, but more extreme.

Very useful strategy to get away with murder (quite literally).

Redheadedstepchild · 24/06/2025 16:34

Redheadedstepchild · 23/06/2025 20:53

I think that he knows that he's been played right now. Really, really badly played.

The world is run by mafia rules. Trump thought he was The Boss. Turns out he was only a Caporegime. Wouldn't even listen to his Consigliones.

There are bigger bosses than him. They flattered him. Gave him extravagant gifts.

As in the great quote from Goodfellas says, "Your murderers come with smiles, they come as your friends..."

That was the shortest, most faltering speech he'd ever given the other day about the bombing of Iran. He's cornered.

Quoting myself, I know but this is for @LimpysGotCancer

I think this clip from him today shows him facing the closest he may get to "The dark night of the soul"

He's been played badly.

https://youtube.com/shorts/IRn27ZPq4eM?si=M7V9ucF-SeLkrE10

Before you continue to YouTube

https://youtube.com/shorts/IRn27ZPq4eM?si=M7V9ucF-SeLkrE10

estrogone · 25/06/2025 09:03

Bridport · 24/06/2025 09:09

If he was reflective and self critical in private surely he would look in his bathroom mirror and think What The FUCK Is That On My Head and Why AM I orange?

😂😂😂

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