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To think eyeing up people's food is beyond rude?

113 replies

ButteredRadishes · 23/06/2025 17:26

My uncle will hoover his lunch and then stare at your plate like a hawk, and say stuff like "are you going to eat that roast potato?" Or he'll be looking at your packet of crisps and say "they look nice....". All the time eyeballs on the packet.

He actually made his 6 year old son cry at lunch on Sunday, we were out for a roast,and nephew was taking his toe , went to the loo,and whilst he was gone took his Yorkshire pudding (yes, I questioned it before he ate it and uncles response was "well, he's taking too long" and then he ate it. Nephew came back and was understandably upset.

it's fucking rude. Yes?

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Flannelfeet · 23/06/2025 18:12

I would of murdered the uncle on the spot, but then im seriously pissed off at my husband right now as we are on our last day in milton keynes and were to go to wolverton house for a carvery and he isn't feeling well, im so sad and I can't even find anywhere on deliveroo that can deliver me one. Gutted to say the least. 😔

ScottBakula · 23/06/2025 18:15

That's horrible behaviour, eyeing up other people's food or pestering for it is rude but stealing food of a child's plate it really really despicable.
Next time you all go out especially if it's a big get together I'd be very tempted to wait untill everyone has finished eating then scrape any leftovers on to his plate , bones , gristle, lumpy mash , cold veg, salad, curry the whole fecking lot, and it would be dumped on his plate with no attempt to 'arrange' it

ladymalfoy45 · 23/06/2025 18:25

Next time book some where that is All you can Eat. Or a carvery with unlimited veg.
I bet he hoovers up everything.
I hate behaviour like his. It gives me the rage when someone asks for a crisp,takes a handful ,then laughs.

OldMcDonaldHadABigMac · 23/06/2025 18:32

Flannelfeet · 23/06/2025 18:12

I would of murdered the uncle on the spot, but then im seriously pissed off at my husband right now as we are on our last day in milton keynes and were to go to wolverton house for a carvery and he isn't feeling well, im so sad and I can't even find anywhere on deliveroo that can deliver me one. Gutted to say the least. 😔

Just go yourself, I love eating in peace!

outerspacepotato · 23/06/2025 18:34

Fork stabbing is a thing.

Your uncle is a nasty greedy fuckwit stealing a kid's dessert. I wouldn't sit by for that.

ButteredRadishes · 23/06/2025 18:39

Flannelfeet · 23/06/2025 18:12

I would of murdered the uncle on the spot, but then im seriously pissed off at my husband right now as we are on our last day in milton keynes and were to go to wolverton house for a carvery and he isn't feeling well, im so sad and I can't even find anywhere on deliveroo that can deliver me one. Gutted to say the least. 😔

I'd go on my own 🤣

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JadedCat · 23/06/2025 18:40

outerspacepotato · 23/06/2025 18:34

Fork stabbing is a thing.

Your uncle is a nasty greedy fuckwit stealing a kid's dessert. I wouldn't sit by for that.

Exactly this! He's a greedy obnoxious nitwit and would have deserved a good fork stabbing in the back of the hand. Why on earth did you let him steal a child's food? Everyone knows that a good Yorkshire is the best part of a roast dinner.

Flannelfeet · 23/06/2025 18:45

ButteredRadishes · 23/06/2025 18:39

I'd go on my own 🤣

I was seriously thinking about it, but I dont want to look like a greedy bastard myself 🤣

Flannelfeet · 23/06/2025 18:46

OldMcDonaldHadABigMac · 23/06/2025 18:32

Just go yourself, I love eating in peace!

I was thinking that but I really dont want to look like a greedy bastard myself with my massive roast and then apple crumble 🤣

Velmy · 23/06/2025 19:01

Call him a fat, greedy cunt next time.

Kimwestonhelpless · 23/06/2025 19:12

DarkHollowTree · 23/06/2025 17:36

Hope he gets fucking gout.

In both big toes and knees and all the fiery pain that goes with it 😫

Dillydollydingdong · 23/06/2025 19:15

What a pig!

ExpressCheckout · 23/06/2025 19:54

@ButteredRadishes Your uncle sounds like a repellant, vulgar individual ... I am picturing a 'Lee Anderson' type man 💩

ButteredRadishes · 23/06/2025 19:57

JadedCat · 23/06/2025 18:40

Exactly this! He's a greedy obnoxious nitwit and would have deserved a good fork stabbing in the back of the hand. Why on earth did you let him steal a child's food? Everyone knows that a good Yorkshire is the best part of a roast dinner.

I didn't "let him" I did object and he didn't give a shit and ate it.

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Clafoutie · 23/06/2025 20:31

ButteredRadishes · 23/06/2025 17:26

My uncle will hoover his lunch and then stare at your plate like a hawk, and say stuff like "are you going to eat that roast potato?" Or he'll be looking at your packet of crisps and say "they look nice....". All the time eyeballs on the packet.

He actually made his 6 year old son cry at lunch on Sunday, we were out for a roast,and nephew was taking his toe , went to the loo,and whilst he was gone took his Yorkshire pudding (yes, I questioned it before he ate it and uncles response was "well, he's taking too long" and then he ate it. Nephew came back and was understandably upset.

it's fucking rude. Yes?

Yes. Awful.

AffIt · 23/06/2025 20:37

If somebody ate my Yorkie while I was in the loo they'd be leaving the restaurant with a fork in the back of their hand.

DappledThings · 23/06/2025 20:41

Not the point of the thread but if he's your uncle and it was his son then the child is your cousin not your nephew.

EasternStandard · 23/06/2025 20:55

Yeh that’s horrible

DeSoleil · 23/06/2025 21:10

Thats horrible.

Was the boys mother there?

Gluttony is repulsive but to steal food from a child is just plain nasty.

I would refuse to ever eat food with him again and refer to him as Uncle Creosote.

chocolatelover91 · 23/06/2025 21:10

This would do my fucking head in! I can't stand people like that!

Gymnopedie · 23/06/2025 21:10

Where was the boy's mother in this? Why didn't she stop him?

ButteredRadishes · 23/06/2025 21:14

DappledThings · 23/06/2025 20:41

Not the point of the thread but if he's your uncle and it was his son then the child is your cousin not your nephew.

Quite right. But he's 6 and I'm 45, and my uncle is 42. I see him as my nephew, he calls me aunty radish. Sorry.

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ButteredRadishes · 23/06/2025 21:16

Gymnopedie · 23/06/2025 21:10

Where was the boy's mother in this? Why didn't she stop him?

She did say something,but it was ignored. She gave him her Yorkshire.

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EasternStandard · 23/06/2025 21:21

My 7 year old would be upset too. The whole taking people’s food is off.

SemperIdem · 23/06/2025 21:23

That isn’t normal behaviour at all!