I've recently discovered DH used to use one of those AI girlfriend apps, particularly during a time when things were really rocky between us. I'm hurt, I can't help it. I'm hurt he'd rather put time and energy into pursuing some made up 'girlfriend' than put time and energy into our marriage - he's got form for being emotionally unavailable and not very caring. It feels like he wanted to cheat but found a 'loophole'. He hid it from me and lied to my face about it several times, I actually thought he was having a real affair at first.
But am I overreacting? Is it nothing more than Chat GPT and I shouldn't be feeling betrayed and instead be glad he didn't actually have an emotional affair?