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Solace123 · 21/06/2025 21:08

Booked to see the new film Elio today with DC9. Midday time. Got to half way through and 2 children start running up and down the stairs next to us. One with a bright flashy cup. Not whispering and shouting and talking to each other. Couldn't see the parent. Then the 2 children and the mum all walk up the stairs and change seats it seems to behind us. We carry on trying to ignore.
Minutes go by and then the 2 children are talking loudly, shrieking, shouting. I've finally had enough, turn around and see the 2 kids on a mobile playing. The mum next to them is also on her phone. I ask if they could be quiet please. Then turn back around.
They aren't quiet and this continues for 30 mins or so more until the end of the film.
At the end the children and mum leave. She says to me on the way down the stairs "don't fucing tell my kids to be quiet"
I said well they should not come to the cinema and shouting and ruin it for others.
She said "they are only 5" (one was definitely older)
I said so....you shouldn't bring them
She then walked down the stairs shouting calling me a stupid b
itch and lots of other things in front of my DC, her children and the many children around.

Was i being unreasonable to ask they were quiet? I know she was being unreasonable swearing at me and calling me names.
I just don't get why you'd go to the cinema if they are unable to watch the whole film quietly. Why ruin it for others. Their are special times younger children can go to screenings where people don't mind kids walking around or talking.

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RepoTheGeriatricOpera · 21/06/2025 21:12

Yanbu to be pissed off, but I would always go and tell the cinema staff, you just don't know what reaction you'll get, on your own is one thing, but having some psychopath squaring up in front of your kid is another.

RaginaPhalange · 21/06/2025 21:13

Similar happened when I took my dc to see lilo and stitch. Mum and her two children one maybe around 2 kept getting up and running away would scream when the mum went and grabbed them, then the older one maybe around 6 started to copy the younger one. This went on for maybe half an hour, luckily staff came in and stood and the kids done it again and she got asked to leave.

elliesmummy19 · 21/06/2025 21:15

You’re not being unreasonable. My daughter is five and I would have just left if she was getting restless and loud.

hoarahloux · 21/06/2025 21:15

You should have spoken to the staff.

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 21/06/2025 21:18

You should have gone out and asked for them to be moved. Last time this happened to me I demanded and got a refund

LadyKenya · 21/06/2025 21:18

Speak to the staff. There is no point talking to the Parent, because if they were being reasonable, they would have already dealt with the noise that their children were making.

Solace123 · 21/06/2025 21:20

LadyKenya · 21/06/2025 21:18

Speak to the staff. There is no point talking to the Parent, because if they were being reasonable, they would have already dealt with the noise that their children were making.

Yea i think I learned this today. I was surprised that she swore and shouting at me in a cinema screening with many children. Clearly thought because "they were 5" meant she thought their behaviour was ok

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Harassedmum123 · 21/06/2025 21:36

You should have told staff either during or after the film. It happened to me years ago and I spoke to staff and we received a refund for the film . There are rude people everywhere and they should have been kicked out.

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