I’ve been texting a guy on and off for a while, but I’ve only met him twice (both times last year so 6+ months ago) we’ve been texting more since Easter roughly.
The thing is I’m a single mum to 2 young kids and live with my parents. I don’t have time to go to the toilet some days, never mind sit and text.
If I’ve got both children and don’t manage to text for say 3-4 hours I’ll get “are you going off me” “I guess that’s it then” and I’ve even had “I might as well just end it now”
again.. we’ve met only twice and sat on the sofa at his and watched tv . We’ve done nothing more than a polite kiss on the lips.
he constantly texts that he’s lonely and that “us” is getting him down. I say over and over I have the kids all week and I can’t meet and to be honest the more pressure he puts, the less I want to respond. He’s even said I’ll come to your village just come out and say hello. It’s giving me the ick. Am I a terrible person?? I’m happy to chat but I was really unwell the past 18 months and spent a lot of time away from my kids, I want my main focus to be on them not constantly reassessing some man.