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Is it just me or is charging 50p for a paper bag at M&S food outrageous?

206 replies

sequin2000 · 17/06/2025 21:03

I know I should have brought a bag and I usually do. If the option was a plastic bag I would have struggled with the shopping in my arms to the car, but I thought as it was paper it wasn't so bad. What I didn't expect was to be charged 50p. M&S say the bag can be used 100 times. Is there anyone out there who has reused an M&S paper bag? AIBU in thinking most people don't realise they cost 50p, that the assistants should make this clear and that M&S are profiting from this government policy?

OP posts:
NoSoapJustUseShowerGel · 18/06/2025 19:03

MyLov · 18/06/2025 17:22

No. Her eyes were rolling because your response was rude and patronising. Thought you needed an explanation as you don’t seem to have understood.

How does it feel when someone is rude and patronising to you?

If you’re hoping I felt patronised by your comment then sorry to disappoint but you’ve been unsuccessful.
Pp was moaning about being penalised for being forgetful, when the entire point of the penalty is to make it unpalatable for people to not reuse their own bags. I provided suggestions for how to remember bags and avoid the forgetfulness penalty.
Clearly some people don’t want to be helped and would rather moan about having to pay at the same time as admitting they keep forgetting and don’t do anything to change that fact.

Digdongdoo · 18/06/2025 19:19

Ddakji · 18/06/2025 18:59

Of course they’re not forced to. Not sure why you would think they are. But retailers were fine with giving bags away for free - they are hardly in the market of pissing off their customers, are they? And like I said, they get advertising for it. They could just get plain bags which would be cheaper the produce - but that’s not what they want.

I don’t have an issue with bags being charged for as long as they’re fit for purpose. M&S ones aren’t. They are proof that re-usable plastic can be better than the alternatives.

If you don't want the bags on offer, don't buy them. They can offer whatever bags they want to, at whatever price they like. Up to you if you want one or not. Just the same as anything else they sell.
I personally think the M&S paper bags are great. We've had one for ages, it serves as our "posh" bag, when a Tescos one just won't do. Holds several bottles of wine just fine.

mutinyonthetwix · 18/06/2025 19:26

Ddakji · 18/06/2025 18:59

Of course they’re not forced to. Not sure why you would think they are. But retailers were fine with giving bags away for free - they are hardly in the market of pissing off their customers, are they? And like I said, they get advertising for it. They could just get plain bags which would be cheaper the produce - but that’s not what they want.

I don’t have an issue with bags being charged for as long as they’re fit for purpose. M&S ones aren’t. They are proof that re-usable plastic can be better than the alternatives.

Were bags given away for free or was the cost of bags aggregated into the price of the groceries you bought? Surely giving customers a choice of whether to pay for a bag is better than effectively forcing them through marginally higher products?

Ddakji · 18/06/2025 19:29

Digdongdoo · 18/06/2025 19:19

If you don't want the bags on offer, don't buy them. They can offer whatever bags they want to, at whatever price they like. Up to you if you want one or not. Just the same as anything else they sell.
I personally think the M&S paper bags are great. We've had one for ages, it serves as our "posh" bag, when a Tescos one just won't do. Holds several bottles of wine just fine.

I don’t buy them. In M&S I just take them if I don’t have my own. Never pay for them. You can’t fold them up to keep in your handbag so their reuse value is limited, and there’s no way I’d put anything heavy or breakable in one, especially if it’s raining. They’re single use as far as I’m concerned. And I’m not bothered about the social status of carrier bags 🤣🤣🤣.

Digdongdoo · 18/06/2025 19:32

Ddakji · 18/06/2025 19:29

I don’t buy them. In M&S I just take them if I don’t have my own. Never pay for them. You can’t fold them up to keep in your handbag so their reuse value is limited, and there’s no way I’d put anything heavy or breakable in one, especially if it’s raining. They’re single use as far as I’m concerned. And I’m not bothered about the social status of carrier bags 🤣🤣🤣.

So proud of theft and waste. Nice. Good for you.

Ddakji · 18/06/2025 19:35

Digdongdoo · 18/06/2025 19:32

So proud of theft and waste. Nice. Good for you.

I can see your cat’s bum face from here 🤣🤣🤣.

Not proud, more annoyed at the crap bags on offer. And my re-use and recycling is stellar, thanks, and has been for decades.

StMarie4me · 18/06/2025 19:45

BunfightBetty · 17/06/2025 21:37

YANBU, 50p for a recyclable bag is taking the mick. And it’s absolutely ridiculous that in the UK, a very rainy country, so many shops, M&S and H&M among them, only offer paper bags. No more durable materials on offer, come what may.

Fine when it’s not raining. Absolutely useless when it is. As it often is. It’s the UK, after all. We’re known for it. Rain isn’t a surprise.

I don’t want my groceries careering across the pavement because the bag got wet in the rain and broke, and neither do I want new clothes wet before I even get to wear them.

We don’t live in Abu Dhabi. We have a very wet climate. Engage brain and sort it out.

The whole point is they want you to take your own.

The first rule of waste reduction is prevention. So they are deliberately discouraging you from using their bags.

They have very much engaged brain.

CoughCoughLaugh · 18/06/2025 19:49

Ddakji · 18/06/2025 19:29

I don’t buy them. In M&S I just take them if I don’t have my own. Never pay for them. You can’t fold them up to keep in your handbag so their reuse value is limited, and there’s no way I’d put anything heavy or breakable in one, especially if it’s raining. They’re single use as far as I’m concerned. And I’m not bothered about the social status of carrier bags 🤣🤣🤣.

Wait, so you just take them? So you steal them? If you think the strawberries / toothpaste / chicken is too much, do you just take those too? Or is that somehow different because you consider the bags are rubbish, single use and used to be free? Really?

Digdongdoo · 18/06/2025 19:55

Ddakji · 18/06/2025 19:35

I can see your cat’s bum face from here 🤣🤣🤣.

Not proud, more annoyed at the crap bags on offer. And my re-use and recycling is stellar, thanks, and has been for decades.

It's obviously not stellar if you're having to steal bags and then treating as single use...

FlightCommanderPRJohnson · 18/06/2025 19:58

Shops - "sustainability initiative - how can we make money from it?"

Ddakji · 18/06/2025 20:06

Digdongdoo · 18/06/2025 19:55

It's obviously not stellar if you're having to steal bags and then treating as single use...

It certainly is. You really think you know me? I can assure you that you don’t.

Cheerio now! Teasing you is wearing a little thin.

XenoBitch · 18/06/2025 20:09

I bought several couregettes in Tesco recently. I scan as I shop, so put them on the scales and get a sticker. I looked around for a bag to put them in together. Nope, just a reusable one that costs 30p. It went home with me and will get forgotten about.

Lidl supplies bags for loose produce. Compostable ones. I am not sure why Tesco can't do the same.

mutinyonthetwix · 18/06/2025 20:26

FlightCommanderPRJohnson · 18/06/2025 19:58

Shops - "sustainability initiative - how can we make money from it?"

People - "why can't we get free stuff from shops? Waaah waah waah!"

tammienorrie · 18/06/2025 20:26

Why do you need a bag for your courgettes? You weigh them and put them - loose - in your bag for life.

ChocolateGanache · 18/06/2025 20:26

I use them to post my vinted clothes in.

XenoBitch · 18/06/2025 20:28

tammienorrie · 18/06/2025 20:26

Why do you need a bag for your courgettes? You weigh them and put them - loose - in your bag for life.

I do that. But recently I keep having random checks, and I worry about them finding a courgette wild in my bag with no sticker.

tobee · 18/06/2025 20:56

They are a complete pain in the arse to store

sequin2000 · 18/06/2025 21:17

NoSoapJustUseShowerGel · 18/06/2025 19:03

If you’re hoping I felt patronised by your comment then sorry to disappoint but you’ve been unsuccessful.
Pp was moaning about being penalised for being forgetful, when the entire point of the penalty is to make it unpalatable for people to not reuse their own bags. I provided suggestions for how to remember bags and avoid the forgetfulness penalty.
Clearly some people don’t want to be helped and would rather moan about having to pay at the same time as admitting they keep forgetting and don’t do anything to change that fact.

Actually, as I keep saying, I'm happy to be penalised for being forgetful. What I object to is not being told the charge (which I think is excessive and M&S are profiteering). If they charged £5 and donated it to an environmental charity I wouldn't have an issue.

OP posts:
BunfightBetty · 18/06/2025 21:21

StMarie4me · 18/06/2025 19:45

The whole point is they want you to take your own.

The first rule of waste reduction is prevention. So they are deliberately discouraging you from using their bags.

They have very much engaged brain.

Sure. I’m not against that in principle. Most of the time I do bring my own, but sometimes I nip into a shop spontaneously. I can’t plan every second of my life with military precision and wouldn’t want to, how dull would that be.

I just want the bag I pay for to be fit for purpose. Paper bags in the UK climate are about as useful as a chocolate teapot. That’s the thinking I want the brain to engage in. Not for them to do a virtue-signalling box-ticking exercise that doesn’t add anything useful. I bet the amount of paper bags that only get used once because they get too wet and disintegrate really damages their eco credentials if only they were to study it (they won’t).

NoSoapJustUseShowerGel · 18/06/2025 21:48

sequin2000 · 18/06/2025 21:17

Actually, as I keep saying, I'm happy to be penalised for being forgetful. What I object to is not being told the charge (which I think is excessive and M&S are profiteering). If they charged £5 and donated it to an environmental charity I wouldn't have an issue.

This was in relation to a different poster’s comment.

Beebeedoo · 18/06/2025 22:10

Rip off i agree

Beebeedoo · 18/06/2025 22:11

CoughCoughLaugh · 18/06/2025 19:49

Wait, so you just take them? So you steal them? If you think the strawberries / toothpaste / chicken is too much, do you just take those too? Or is that somehow different because you consider the bags are rubbish, single use and used to be free? Really?

i take them too tbh dont scan them

nomas · 19/06/2025 06:10

ExpressCheckout · 18/06/2025 08:28

Morrisons, Boots, M&S etc. are also making a significant profit out of this, too. A casual search will show you that these bags cost less than 10p when bought in bulk. So, a five-times mark up.

The stores are simply taking advantage of the fact that people do not know how much these bags 'should' be, and will be prepared to pay anything if they've forgotten to bring a bag.

https://www.carrierbagshop.co.uk/paper-bags-by-colour/brown-paper-bags/premium-flat-handle-brown-paper-bags.html

I thought all the money made from bags goes to charity?

CoughCoughLaugh · 19/06/2025 08:35

Beebeedoo · 18/06/2025 22:11

i take them too tbh dont scan them

So you are also a thief? Same question to you (or anyone else that just takes the bags), why do you think it's acceptable?

This was my question to* *Ddakji who said they also just take them: If you think the strawberries / toothpaste / chicken is too much, do you just take those too? Or is that somehow different because you consider the bags are rubbish, single use and used to be free?

Why is one okay but the other is not? Stealing is stealing, even if it's only 50p.

Buxusmortus · 19/06/2025 11:22

CoughCoughLaugh · 19/06/2025 08:35

So you are also a thief? Same question to you (or anyone else that just takes the bags), why do you think it's acceptable?

This was my question to* *Ddakji who said they also just take them: If you think the strawberries / toothpaste / chicken is too much, do you just take those too? Or is that somehow different because you consider the bags are rubbish, single use and used to be free?

Why is one okay but the other is not? Stealing is stealing, even if it's only 50p.

Exactly. And that means that, as with all theft from shops, the prices of everything the shop sells go up to cover those losses.
Stealing bags is the same as stealing food or any other goods, it's theft and is the behaviour of the scummiest people.
I can't imagine being the type of lowlife who does it then boasts on a forum that they do it.