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To wonder if there's a point in getting an autism diagnosis

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CloudSnails · 16/06/2025 16:02

Name change, but I've been here for a while and been reading a few threads on autism recently which make me wonder if I'm autistic.

If I was to be formally diagnosed, would it make any difference to my life? I'm self employed (looking back this was a choice I made because I found some aspects of employment too challenging) so they'd be no reasonable adjustments in my work place as I already suit myself. My family accept me and love me for who I am. There aren't any interpersonal struggles between us. I like who I am. I'm happy with my life right now.

There are some aspects of 'normal' life that I find difficult or don't enjoy that I see other people cope with easily or get joy/satisfaction from. I don't tend to participate in those things now. I used to years ago, in a people pleasing, possibly masking sort of a way. I don't think that I feel their lack, more like a weight has been removed.

Is there anything I'm overlooking in not pursuing a diagnosis?

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Hollowvoice · 16/06/2025 16:14

Having gone through the process with my DC in the last couple of years (both diagnosed) I've learnt/realised a lot about myself and suspect I'm autistic too.
But I'm not going to go for assessment. Like you I've figured out how to navigate/manage my life (mostly!) and I don't know what a diagnosis would add other than "oh yeah that's why"
It's different for the DC, both absolutely needed the diagnosis to access understanding and support

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