Last year child services approached me (not for the first time) about my son and the care he was receiving when NOT with me. Myself and my ex have 50/50 care and there had been some issues on Dads side with his dad drinking etc.
I was told the complaint was anonymous and although there were some instances in there i was aware of (and in disagreement with dad on) there were also issues that i wasn’t aware of. I spoke at length with them and agreed to let them visit My sons school as i had nothing to hide. Because id moved recently i was contacted to say it would be passed from one SS to another area wise.
To cut a long story short when it was passed from one to another all of the details haven’t been passed and when dad was finally notified he was incorrectly told it was me!
The animosity and breakdown in comms it has caused across the whole family is devastating. In a mediation session i was called untrustworthy and accused of having a pain killer addiction all in anger off the back of him being told it was me.
Dads partner is a police officer and again last week accused me and although i protested my innocence she just laughed at me. I’m beyond upset and know that they have told people outside the family it was me. I’ve contacted child services to ask them to try and clear this up and im
beside myself with anxiety. i can’t even ask about my Sons missing clothing etc with lou being verbally attacked - they hate me! has anyone else experienced this? i’m scared they won’t come back and put this right as they won’t want to admit fault 🥲😞