Need a Vent

[KTeachMom]

Husband was home for a few days to spend time with the family, surprisingly we didn’t have a row until the last day. I was called a name for telling him not to be throwing a fit over what we eat as our DD was hungry. He didn’t like the tone and said our problems are created.
over the last 9 years it has taken two of us to get to the point of our unhappiness today. However today he is completely ignoring me, can’t even muster up a general hello as even a kind stranger would if you’re passing on the street and we live in the same house.
It is just so frustrating when I’m in the thick of raising our daughter and the kids hold duties and trying to keep my emotions in check from all this.

What was he throwing a fit over?

What a horrible horrible environment

OP, this will be shit for your children

The atmosphere at home must be so tense you could cut it with a knife.

Not wanting to eat at a specific place, however our DD was hungry, it was a road trip, and he decided to keep going. Something trivial. My reply, I will admit, wasn’t the kindest, but I don’t think it warranted being called an asshole.

Mind you, anything that was said by my husband that was not appropriate wasn’t said where our daughter could hear

It is.. I don’t even know what to say. I want to cry

Oh, I was on your thread about how frustrated you are with your daughter for not appreciating you.

OP, this all sounds horrible.

I thought your name looked familiar. I often wonder if the two don’t go hand in hand. That she sees the tension and that trickles into other things, or sees my stress.

please don’t be too judgmental, everyone has shit they’re dealing with

What was your reply? If it wasn't the kindest, was it an appropriate thing to say with children in the car? I'm assuming not.

From the posters who recognise you from other threads, it sounds as though neither of you are great parents.

My reply was don’t throw a fit over where we way, our daughter is hungry. That was my reply