Name changed as I don’t want this to link to my other posts
For context - currently at a festival, came on my period the night before I drove.
DP and his brother arrived a day before me and set up tent. I came a day later, organised DD (not his child) for the weekend with her dad and the usual mum stuff that happens on weeknights
miscommunication Meant that DP said he bought his own toiletries but I need to get my own. I could have sworn he said he bought US our miniatures but at no point did he remind me that I need to grab my own. Yes I know I’m the idiot for mishearing and assuming. After a shit nights sleep (leaks, period pain) I woke and just got miffed and said with all the million things he was reminding me I would have appreciated a text of shit I needed to bring. And then I said why would he get his own and not just grab mine while he was there, it feels a bit selfish. Yes I know. I shouldn’t have said that.
i fucked off to the showers and I got a call from him before I went in, he was seething and said “before you fucking call me selfish again just remember I bought your fucking ticket to Download and the tent your sleeping in”.
i just hung up. It’s true. He did. And I appreciate it. I hate that I have to spend this weekend with his brother also but I’ve grit my teeth. What shook me is he threw it in my face. In 6 years we have both spent a lot of money. On each other. On our futures. But I’ve never, EVER, thrown anything like that in his face nor would I. I will never remind someone what I’ve done as some sort of defence to anything.
I'm ready. Tell me I deserve what he said. Because I’m so mad and so upset.k