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House rent and buying new home

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xxxPandora · 11/06/2025 19:54

Hi I’d really appreciate some advice on this.
I privately rent a house and have been living here with my daughter for 7 years. I look after the property and have always paid my rent on time, always got on with the landlord etc.
I have been saving for a while and now able to get a mortgage to buy a home. I put an offer on the house back in October and it’s all still going through (taking ages!!). My solicitor told me we were ready to exchange in March, so I handed my notice in on my rental property. Due to unforeseen issues with the vendor’s solicitor, the exchange dates keep getting pushed forward so I contacted the landlord to see if I could stay on another month- which she agreed to. Fast forward another 2 months (June), I’ve had to reach out again to the landlord asking again to stay on as the house sale is taking a long time. This time she agreed, but said if I was to stay, I had to pay an extra £200 for rent. Her reasoning was that I am paying below average rent. (Not excessively so IMO). I just paid the extra £200, hoping that this was the last month I was in the rental house. She also advised that if I need to stay on another month, she’ll be increasing the rent further.
Today I have found out that the house purchase is still delayed so I am having to email the landlord again to see if I can stay another month. If she says yes she’ll add even more rent on. What happens if she says no? Does she have to give me notice to leave the property? If so how long would I have? Obviously I would continue paying rent. What happens if she allows me to stay if she adds on another £200 and I say no to the added rent as I can’t afford it?
I have not signed a new contract.
I’m so stressed at the moment and do not have the mental strength to challenge the landlord on this hence why I just paid it last month as I didn’t really have much choice. I just feel that I’ve lived here for 7 years and to add in an extra £200 last month, and likely another £200 added (£400 rent increase within 4 weeks) this coming month, I’m not sure what to do. Do I just pay it? Do I have any rights?
I know I’m lucky she allowed me to stay on but I feel she knows I have no where else to go and that I’m in limbo, so adding all this money on, I feel, is really underhand. There’s also been no cosmetic up keep on the house in the 7 years I’ve been here (I did pay myself to change the kitchen floor as it was heavily marked) and the carpets need changing and it all needs painting.

Any help/advice with this is very much appreciated.

OP posts:
cestlavielife · 11/06/2025 19:56

She could have painted it by now and charged double
What's the price of an alternative airbnb for a month maybe more

Mrsttcno1 · 11/06/2025 19:56

Well you’re lucky she’s allowed you to stay really. You gave notice, she was fully expecting you to leave on that date and may have had plans, viewings etc. You’re asking essentially for a favour, again.

HappiestSleeping · 11/06/2025 20:01

More importantly, do you know why your purchase keeps getting delayed?

CanOfMangoTango · 11/06/2025 20:02

Can you put pressure on your vendors at all? They are really messing you around.

I would just pay what your LL asks tbh. I know it's not ideal but if she says no you have to move out, finding somewhere temporary will be even more expensive.

ANiceBigCupOfTea · 11/06/2025 20:37

Put pressure on your vendors. Make it abundantly clear to your estate agent/solicitor that this is now impacting you financially as you're having to pay more rent and you're getting impatient. I'd be pushing for a date even if that means they need to consider temporary accommodation as you've given them three months already to sort it out.

Starlingsintheloft · 11/06/2025 20:49

No your landlord cannot just increase the rent just like that and yes if you don’t move out they will have to serve you notice.

Unexpectedlysinglemum · 11/06/2025 22:36

I would consider telling the people you're renting for that your offer drops in price by £200 each month they delay again to split the increase in your rent

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