Aibu to think that my partner shouldn't get angry when I don't want to do as he says or recommends. That I should have autonomy to make my own decisions.
Example...me chopping garlic, partner on sofa...' chop it X way, shall I show you?'
Me: 'No thanks, this is working for me'
Partner then gets angry.
And conversations has to continue in a circular way until I am told that I have a tone in my voice. Well I likely do after being told several times that I am doing something the wrong way by a man say on the sofa.
Many Other examples. This is not just about the garlic! This was an easy one to share.
I have asked to separate, then he wants to share what I do wrong ...this doesn't help turn my desire to separate around. It adds nails to it.
Aibu?
NB it isn't about this one example, but many. I end up shouting now as I feel so done.