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Carers allowance breaches modern slavery laws surely

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Vatsallfolks · 09/06/2025 21:14

This country has a minimum wage . It’s a fact . If you are over 21 years old it is £12.21 ph.

Therefore can somebody please explain why Carers Allowance is £83. 30 per week whilst stipulating that carers should be looking after their caree a minimum of 35 hours a week and then some .. which equates to £2.38 per hour .. and then .. we are ‘allowed’ to work another 18 hours.. (if we only could but we can’t as our cared for person actually doesn’t have a 36 hour cut off !!) just to equate to a minimum wage for 54 hour week ??
(when in fact many of us do a 189 hour week ? (24/7) which in reality is £2207 per week ..

so in essence e what I am saying is this . I could say NO .. I’m not doing it anymore.. and it will cost the govt a minimum of the minimum wage for him to be looked after .. but if don’t .. because I love him.. I had to give up my job to care for him .. which I have again because I love him .. but my God .. aren’t the Government taking the piss ?

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CuarloDeFonza · 11/06/2025 16:15

LadyTangerine · 09/06/2025 21:31

It's like child benefit. Child benefit isnt supposed to pay for full time child care, it is an added benefit to other household income be it salary, UC or whatever. Same with CA. It isn't a salary.

The person requiring care will be in receipt of PIP, ESA, UC. If you don't have savings and carers are required then they would be provided.

I know many people who would only work part time or not at all even without a relative requiring care so the extra £320 a month is actually a bonus.

You're chatting shit, as a family you can't have both parents working full time with a disabled child, so I had to give up a career as a Curriculum Manager in Further Education (22+ years) So we are a one salary family and I receive carers allowance which is a meagre amount which doesn't even cover the petrol to take my son 44 miles a day to his special needs school on another county.

Bumpitybumper · 11/06/2025 16:32

SerendipityJane · 11/06/2025 16:09

Do you genuinely think the order is wrong ? I don't need to know the weight of an elephant to suspect it may be heavier than a mouse.

I have absolutely no idea if the order is wrong. Whoever put together this chart clearly has no idea either. The DWP actually estimated for the last financial year that £9.5billion was overpaid due to fraud or error. This is hugely different than what the chart suggests. This doesn't account for the fact that the DWP themselves have literally no idea about the level of fraud pertaining to disability benefits for example. The purported rate is comically low and doesn't even begin to account for people over exaggerating their conditions or reporting their worst days. Nobody has an accurate figure for this as it would take a crazy level of surveillance to even start to get an idea.

Unpaid benefits again is impossible to calculate. How could you ever accurately work out who is eligible for what in the first place if they haven't claimed? It might be relatively easy for some benefits but others would be really difficult to prove unless someone went through the assessment process (PIP etc ). Lots of people don't claim benefits because they feel they don't need them. My MIL does this with WFA. She may well be in the reported figure but she genuinely doesn't need the benefit so is artificially the numbers in some ways.

Tax evasion has been lumped in with tax avoidance. This is wrong and unhelpful! They should be separated out like all other categories have been. Evasion is equivalent to benefit fraud whereas avoidance is equivalent to benefit maximisation. I would like these bubbles drawn and compared alongside each other. For example HMRC have estimated that tax evasion costs £5.5 billion so significantly less than benefit fraud and overpayment. Following your logic the elephant would actually be benefit fraud and overpayment over tax evasion.

TigerIamNot · 11/06/2025 16:51

BoudiccaRuled · 11/06/2025 13:56

They didn't have to though, they chose to.

You sound like a government official. For most, there is no choice involved. Every single person on CA I know, had to give to work as there was no provision from social care/health and/or education to fill that gap.

ProudCat · 11/06/2025 17:33

Bumpitybumper · 11/06/2025 11:54

Your whole argument is based on the idea that 'care is care'. For your argument to hold you would have say that choosing to have a baby, and then caring for that newborn, is the same as caring for someone with life changing injuries after an RTA. No. These are two different types of care. The first one can be anticipated and the caring relationship is entered into voluntarily. The second one isn't anticipated and the caring relationship is compulsory (due to lack of statutory services). These just aren't the same
Nope, I don't need to prove that caring for a newborn baby is the same as caring for a victim of a RTA. No two people have exactly the same needs and therefore need exactly the same care. Looking across the disabled people I know, they have completely different needs but still undoubtedly all need care. They can't look after themselves completely independently and need someone to support them undertaking basic tasks. The fact that care needs can be anticipated or not doesn't take away from the fact that the fundamental act of providing care exists across different groups of people (the old, the disabled and children). Similar issues exist in terms of people having to sacrifice earning potential or shell out a hell of a lot of money to meet these needs. Also it isn't always true that those caring for the old or children have made this choice. Not all children are planned and many adults children feel forced into caring for their elderly relatives.

Adults with learning disabilities don't 'often need similar levels of care and support that would ordinarily be provided to children'. For example, lifting a kid who's 2 stone isn't the same as lifting an adult who's 12 stone. Similarly, feeding a toddler who can push your hand away isn't the same as feeding an adult who can punch you in the face. Same with bathing. Same with continence issues. It's completely different
I have direct first hand experience of the fact that often adults with learning disabilities do need similar levels of care and support. Not all learning disabled people need lifting, spoon feeding or bathing.

GDP per capita wise (the relevant metric here) we are absolutely not one of the richest countries in the world. We are in fact 17th richest in Europe and poorer than all the other countries you have listed. You should also research what countries with comparative GDP per capita do (hint: none pay family members the equivalent of minimum wage to care for the disabled). I will not discuss economics with someone that believe the Tories mishandling PPE means that we have enough money to pay for a enormous care bill. We simply don't. They aren't hoodwinking you or pretending. Scarcity is real. Look at the state of our exploited planet and the environmental catastrophe we find ourselves in to understand that scarcity is built into nature, our existence and ultimately all economies. We don't have infinite resources to trade, we will never have infinite money.

You cannot claim that 'care is care' - as if there's an equivalence, and then also claim that 'No two people have exactly the same needs' as if there's a difference. Literally, what you seem to be saying is 'everyone needs care'. Yes, that's true. But we're specifically talking about Carers Allowance for disabled people here.

Having a baby is a choice, you can choose not to, that's why abortion exists.

Elderly care happens within a specific timeframe, i.e. the person has to be elderly. There's a difference between caring for someone for 10 years and caring for someone for 60 years.

I don't care about your direct first hand experience, it's just an anecdote, it's evidence of nothing. I care about data and facts.

I'm shocked that you don't seem to understand there's a link between having a government that gives its mates backhanders, that same government allowing corporate tax evasion on a massive scale, and newspapers friendly to the government and corporations peddling stories about scarcity. It's not about 'infinite' resources, it's about using the finite resources we have morally and responsibly.

Finally, I could be wrong, but I think I see where you're coming from with regard to the 'enormous care bill' because you're right. Give it 10 or 20 years and, I believe, we're going to see the biggest shift of wealth from the private individual to the corporate sector ever. All that property wealth that people think they've got, that they imagine is going to be inherited, nah, I it's going to end up paying astronomical care bills. To avoid this, we need an argument that suggests it's right and proper to care for the elderly, badly and informally, to stop them having to go into homes for professional help. It's an effort to normalise casual brutality to preserve the inheritance.

SerendipityJane · 11/06/2025 17:45

Elderly care happens within a specific timeframe, i.e. the person has to be elderly.

That's not a given. A lot of chronic, progressive conditions effectively prematurely make a person "old" for the needs of care.

Problems, with continence, mobility, mental acuity, fatigue ....

If you want to know how society will treat you aged 80, look at how it treats someone aged 20 with a chronic wasting illness.

Arr0w0fl0ve4321 · 11/06/2025 20:27

I know several people that have given up their careers to look after their elderly parents.
These people are in their 50s, 60s.
Parents in their 80s, 90s

No job
No paying into a private pension
No freedom
Lack of social interaction

Carers allowance of £83 a week

Living on their savings or in poverty

The reality is brutal

LadyTangerine · 12/06/2025 14:04

MistressoftheDarkSide · 12/06/2025 10:19

Sorry, does it say her df is able to work 3 days a week?

If people want to move in with parents and call themselves their carer that is up to them but if he can work then he isn't needing round the clock care is he? Of course she cares for her daughter with diabetes that is what parents do.

Families should look after each other and if they aren't able then carers either privately paid or funded can be arranged. This is such a non story imo. What does she want, paying to care for her dad who goes out to work?!

MistressoftheDarkSide · 12/06/2025 16:19

Maybe the reason her DF is able to work 3 days a week in what he describes as a professional career, is because of the care provided by his daughter.

I understand what you're getting at and obviously they have a set up that suits them and precludes "financial embarrasment", however the point is that adult children who "choose" to provide care that the state does not or cannot are often financially disadvantaged by lack of autonomy and inability to consistently build their own careers.

Such choices are often not choices, and often, but not always fall to women. I really dislike the undertone that carers are mugs or martyrs, it pisses me right off, to be frank.

LadyTangerine · 12/06/2025 19:32

'Maybe the reason her DF is able to work 3 days a week in what he describes as a professional career, is because of the care provided by his daughter.'

Oh come on, as he works he does not need his dd giving up work to 'care' for him. Stories like this do a real disservce for genuine carers. She says she provides care for her daughter with a medical condition, well yes who else should look after her dc? It sounds like she is her df's housekeeper rather than a carer as the poor man didn't even know how to work the washer.

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