I am so unhappy with my weight. My BMI is 30. The weight has crept up since having children. I spent over 30 years with a normal BMI and hate being like this. I am perimenopausal and don't think this is helping. I am active and have tried fasting, reducing calories, slimming world (which personally I don't think promotes good or healthy eating habits). I can't get the weight off. I mostly cook from scratch but eat too much. My joints hurt. I feel ugly. People often assume I'm pregnant as the weight sits on my tummy. I'm thinking about weight loss jabs. Will people judge me? Are they worth it?