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To think that more women may be happy to give blood if the NHS treated any resulting anaemia properly?

203 replies

Herriet · 09/06/2025 08:23

I realise this may just be me, and if it is then I am definitely unreasonable!

I gave blood every three months for years and during those years I slowly became more and more anaemic. I was in my twenties, healthy and eating well, and my periods were not heavy.

We know that heavy periods (over 80ml per month) can cause anaemia. This equates to 240ml every three months. But for some reason the NHS doesn't mention that giving away 470ml in a donation might cause anaemia too.

I've since had babies and ended up with an iron infusion. These are expensive. But now I have a lovely iron store, likely to last me years and years. I see the NHS is desperate for donors (link below) - should I restart donating and give it all away again? If I get anaemic again they will say 'take iron pills', but I've tried a variety of these before and they do not agree with me. So I can choose to give blood and eventually need iron pills and be permanently constipated, or I can choose not to, and be happy and healthy. I would donate if they would give me an iron infusion at a reasonable 'ideal' level of ferritin, rather than only doing it once ferritin is 5 or whatever and I can barely function.

I'm O negative. The NHS really really wants my blood, according to the article below. But not enough to offer me another iron infusion in future if I become anaemic again due to donating.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c98p0pj7dypo

A man is pictured seated while donating blood. He is giving the thumbs up.

NHS calls for 200,000 new blood donors as supplies run low

The health service issued an "amber alert" last year and stocks remain low ever since.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c98p0pj7dypo

OP posts:
YouWhatNowHuh · 09/06/2025 14:34

I recently had my ferritin measured at 2.8 and haven't been offered an infusion so I can't imagine they would offer one to anybody unless they were at deaths door

ByLimeAnt · 09/06/2025 14:41

PlasticAcrobat · 09/06/2025 12:58

By the same principle, the fact that the OP and some others have given blood over a long period and have become anaemic is not an evidence base for attributing the anaemia to blood donation. There are many reasons why ferritin lvels can drop, and having good levels in your twenties, as the op says she did, and poor levels a long time later is by no means evidence that the donations were responsible.

BTW, a few posts have said that women can donate every 12 weeks. I think that is only true for men. It is 16 weeks for women, precisely to minimise the risk of the issues spoken of here

I did not say it was. Anecdata, however, is helpful to no-one.

taptaroundtheworld · 09/06/2025 14:44

I don’t think they actually want any donors.
When i look at potential locations for blood donations , there are tons within a 20 min radius.
When i want to book, the only one available is over 1 hour drive away. they must be fully booked?

LOLOL82 · 09/06/2025 14:44

Boxfreshrussell · 09/06/2025 14:10

Not the point of the thread OP, but could you please tell me about your iron infusionS? Been anaemic for years and really struggle with taking the supplements as they affect my stomach.
Do you pay for your infusion privately and where do you go? Thank you

I had one based on a recommendation from MN. I went near Leeds and paid £300 for 1000mg iron. It was done by a nurse and was at a private GP clinic. I was fortunate I hadn’t long had my bloods taken at our GP so I didn’t need to do any there.

iron tablets don’t agree with me and make me feel sick. 🤢

Herriet · 09/06/2025 14:47

Boxfreshrussell · 09/06/2025 14:10

Not the point of the thread OP, but could you please tell me about your iron infusionS? Been anaemic for years and really struggle with taking the supplements as they affect my stomach.
Do you pay for your infusion privately and where do you go? Thank you

Sorry, I had an NHS one as I was about to give birth.

OP posts:
ByLimeAnt · 09/06/2025 14:47

Would you be willing to share the name of the company @Lolol82?

SleepWalkingtoSeville · 09/06/2025 14:49

YANBU.

I would give blood but have very heavy periods and my ferritin levels are shit. Your ferritin has to be virtually non-existent before the NHS deems this concerning.

LOLOL82 · 09/06/2025 15:05

ByLimeAnt · 09/06/2025 14:47

Would you be willing to share the name of the company @Lolol82?

Edited

Sure was called The Vitamin Clinic in Nelson.

ByLimeAnt · 09/06/2025 15:07

LOLOL82 · 09/06/2025 15:05

Sure was called The Vitamin Clinic in Nelson.

Very many thanks, off to Google!

Soontobe60 · 09/06/2025 15:47

Herriet · 09/06/2025 09:32

Well a pp above said that there is another country which does regularly check levels of donors and offer treatment, although she doesn't say where. But presumably this means it is perfectly possible to implement.

The irony is that for some people, their very low levels mean they need a transfusion themselves.

whiteluckycat · 09/06/2025 17:26

Araminta1003 · 09/06/2025 13:50

You can buy the supplements at the pharmacy @whiteluckycat - they aren’t expensive. I do not think they are more than the adult prescription charge. Ferrous Fumarate is like 7 pounds in London.

In our case, the NHS should have just done the iron infusion for 153 pounds. Instead we have had multiple GP appointments, referral to CAMHS, school filling in ASD/ADHD forms, referral to paeds as well. I obviously do not know if any of that is going to be relevant or not, but it may just be physical symptoms.

I have numerous friends, all female obviously, who got CFS even ME and often also associated with low iron stores, haemoglobin issues, unknown allergies/intolerances like diary/gluten, all discovered and managed by them years later. I am not doctor, but obviously all this stuff, including gut health does hang together and for the longest time, the health of teen girls and women has not been proactively supported.

Thanks, yes I did buy some but I’m worried that in taking them that I might be covering up an underlying cause that we might not be aware of. And how do I know when to stop?

HappyNewTaxYear · 09/06/2025 20:49

SleepWalkingtoSeville · 09/06/2025 14:49

YANBU.

I would give blood but have very heavy periods and my ferritin levels are shit. Your ferritin has to be virtually non-existent before the NHS deems this concerning.

This is because it’s primarily a women’s problem. If it was a common male problem the NHS would be handing out iron infusions the way they give viagra to overweight old blokes 😡

Thelostjewels · 09/06/2025 21:15

@Herriet how do you know you have a nice iron store and what level is that and how do you know it would last for years?

Katemax82 · 09/06/2025 21:23

My middle son is the only one of my kids who inherited my o negative blood..not sure he will be donating when he's an adult though as he's autistic and as white as a ghost (he looks ill most of the time as he's do pale his under eyes look purple)

Herriet · 09/06/2025 21:50

Thelostjewels · 09/06/2025 21:15

@Herriet how do you know you have a nice iron store and what level is that and how do you know it would last for years?

Because it was retested a few weeks after birth. It was very very high, and the doctor said "this will last you years".

OP posts:
Serencwtch · 09/06/2025 21:52

Herriet · 09/06/2025 08:37

Much more clearly put than my post!

They could resolve it by offering iron infusions as a 'replacement deal' to any regular blood donors once their ferritin level goes below X (something functional, not the bare minimum). I would happily have a ferritin blood test say every six donations or whatever is reasonable.

Iron infusions are definitely not risk free. I have to have them due to a medical condition & there are some risks eg reaction - there was a death recently at the hospital where I have mine. Also risk of serious and permanent staining to the skin - I have this & although not dangerous it is a serious disfigurement.

Iron tablets are much, much safer.

Iron infusions do not work any better or quicker for the overwhelming majority of patients & are much more expensive.

Thelostjewels · 09/06/2025 21:54

Thanks op, What's classified as high?

wvwvw · 09/06/2025 22:17

Herriet · 09/06/2025 08:32

I can't know for sure that it was the cause. But what else would cause a healthy meat eater with light periods to become anaemic? I started out with good iron and ferritin because I had this tested when I was about 20 and it was fine then (can't remember exact number).

I agree with you OP and this issue has meant I won’t ever give blood again.

I went through my childhood and adult life up to age 30 with absolutely no problems related to anaemia. Even when I was pregnant and puking (in my 20s) I still had plenty of iron and was never anywhere near being anaemic.

In my 30s, light periods, otherwise healthy, I gave blood for the first time. Just after that, there was a blood shortage so they phoned me up before my next appointment was due and asked that I came sooner than the usual interval for the second donation. I did. So those two donations in quick succession caused me to fail the drop test when I went for the third donation and I had to go on iron pills. I feel like I was abused like a cash cow - I asked the person on the phone if it was too soon to go back for the second time and she said no it was absolutely fine. it wasn’t fine and they aren’t having any more of my blood as they happily risked my health. It’s complete fake news to say that their protocols are ok.

Q2C4 · 10/06/2025 01:11

pencilcaseandcabbage · 09/06/2025 11:27

This is fascinating, and I'm so grateful for this thread. I am ill a lot. I am tired all the time and get lots of headaches. I just checked my last blood test and my Ferratin level is 6. From what you are all saying this probably explains why!

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Latent_iron_deficiency definitely worth checking this out. I had a ferritin level of 5 after 2 pregnancies in 2 years - my hair was falling out and I developed pica. I was never technically anaemic but my iron stores were so depleted I could hardly function.

Hope you can get yours sorted!

Littlemisscapable · 10/06/2025 02:54

YouWhatNowHuh · 09/06/2025 14:34

I recently had my ferritin measured at 2.8 and haven't been offered an infusion so I can't imagine they would offer one to anybody unless they were at deaths door

Edited

Yep this. The NHS treatment for anemia is so bad. It's mainly a problem for women which is probably why it's not better. Once I had finally got my levels up lots of side effects improved. It should be treated better!

Vinted8457764 · 10/06/2025 03:05

I am going to up this by saying nhs should be giving all post partum women iron transfusions full stop. It is ridiculous we are all just wandering about completely fucked.

Tiredofwhataboutery · 10/06/2025 05:59

Vinted8457764 · 10/06/2025 03:05

I am going to up this by saying nhs should be giving all post partum women iron transfusions full stop. It is ridiculous we are all just wandering about completely fucked.

I’d agree actually. I don’t think I’ve realised quite how ill I am previously. Eventually I was hospitalised given a blood transfusion then an iron transfusion as they were genuinely concerned that levels were now so unsafe that could possibly be at risk of death.

I’d been anaemic since pregnant with my first born though 15 years ago. I thought I was lazy/ tired/ possibly depressed. I do wonder if it should be thought more as preventative health care. It’s no wonder the UK is the sick man of Europe.

MonTuesWeds · 10/06/2025 06:14

Vinted8457764 · 10/06/2025 03:05

I am going to up this by saying nhs should be giving all post partum women iron transfusions full stop. It is ridiculous we are all just wandering about completely fucked.

Did a pp not just say that these can come with serious side effects including actual death?

Tiredofwhataboutery · 10/06/2025 06:26

MonTuesWeds · 10/06/2025 06:14

Did a pp not just say that these can come with serious side effects including actual death?

Pretty much everything can come with serious side effects. The risk is pretty minimal they changed the formulation years ago and now it’s much safer than it was. Having had one I'd prefer to take a small risk to feel optimal than not and feel like a zombie for years. I have had many courses of iron tablets and an iron rich diet. I just don’t think I absorb it properly.

WhereAreWeNow · 10/06/2025 06:39

This is so interesting. I've been donating blood regularly for years. I just had a blood test which showed ferritin
level of 12.

I have a Mirena coil which means no periods so I was really surprised my ferritin was so low. Then I started to wonder if it was related to my 3 monthly blood donations. I'm vegetarian too which means I probably don't have an iron rich diet.

I've been really exhausted, losing lots of hair, and find exercise hard.

I've got an appointment with GP to discuss it and I suspect she'll say I should take iron tablets. I'm already taking iron tablets though and I'm not feeling any improvement. Should I be asking for an iron infusion?

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