What advice would you give to your mum just before she gave birth to you?

[MyCheeryPearlTraybake]

If you could go back in time before you were born.

Please spend more time with me and don’t leave me with the nanny so much. I love being with you!

I know that I was your accidental fifth child but I wish that you could have kept an eye on child four.
He was evil towards me for the whole of his life, presumably because of jealous younger child displacement. He used to physically hurt me when I was little and when nobody was looking. You wouldn't believe me because he was always your favourite.

Parenting is meant to be life long, not just while they're cute babies and toddlers.

Try to put me first occasionally

Try to be happy with a healthy girl and not spend the rest of her life saying that you only wanted boys.

Please be more affectionate, hug me more, talk to me…I know you’re likely ND and this may be very difficult for you, but I am too and can’t help showing affection with my Dd and her being my absolute world. Please try and also don’t be jealous of me, i’m a kid and feel rubbish about myself, look outside of yourself

Leave your abusive husband and go to a refuge as soon as baby is born. Take all 3 children with you.

Do not get together with your ex.

Always put your children first.

Your kids can hear you when you r threatening to kill.yourself or disappear and never come back. So stop saying these things. Get some professional mental health support.

Love your children..don't criticise them.

Be a shoulder for your children to cry on, not the other way around.

Have some self worth.

Don't neglect your babies. Don't seek answers from a tablet or a bottle.

Engage in some self.reflectiom..take responsibility for your actions.

Please fuck off and leave me and dad to a much happier life.

You'll have to wait a few years, but remember the name Norton's Coin and back it in the Gold Cup.

I’ll be a bit of a tricky teenager , let’s get over it.

Yes, it is jaundice, hold your ground.

Don't have the other two.

Yep.

If we're wishing for things, I'd like to go back even more and tell her to have the abortion everyone wanted her to have rather than keep me because everyone was on her case.

Please please get your breasts removed so you don’t die when I’m 10 and my little sister is 5. We needed you and still do.

My father is having an affair, let him leave, he's useless anyway.

Get some therapy, before it all overwhelms you and you have a nervous breakdown when your kids are in their teens and really need their mum.

You don't have to be in a relationship to be valid.

There's no shame in getting divorced (even if it's the third time) if your husband is an abusive arsehole.

You are heaven sent, mum. They'll be ups and downs but trust your instincts we all turn out alright.

You’re going to feel really awful after I’m born. Please go and talk to someone. It’s ok to ask for help, and I need you to get better.

Tell your little girl that you love her.

Push! Have a towel ready!

Me too!