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Covid - should tests still be available without cost?

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Happyspendingthedayinthegarden · 07/06/2025 11:17

For context: I work for a team that is spread over a wide area across 3 counties. We WFH 40% of the time & travel into the nearest office to work there 60% of our time. Went to team meeting on Wednesday, hadn't seen my colleagues since Christmas &, of course, we were greeting each other with hugs, sat close to each other in an air conditioned room with no opening windows & went to a restaurant for lunch where we were sitting 'cheek by jowl'.

During the course of yesterday I started to feel really rough. I was cold, then hot, developed a sore throat & ended up finishing work early to go to bed as muscles were aching, I was running a temperature of 102.2F & had a dodgy stomach.

This morning I'm feeling REALLY rough. Then a round-robin team Whatsapp message from a colleague to say they've tested positive for covid. I've checked the symptoms & that's probably what I have.

Due to see DD & GC tomorrow - well had to cancel that.

I'm also due to take an 87 year old friend to a hospital appointment on Monday morning. I'm trying to contact her to cancel that. This leaves her in a hole as a/ she has no-one else to take her and b/she has dementia & could well forget that I've told her that I can't do it. I wrote on her calendar to expect me at 11:00am &, knowing how her calendar is her 'bible', she will look at that & wonder where I am. I will have to try to get her to scratch it from her calendar while I'm on the phone, but, since I have such a sore throat & rather croaky, not to mention cranky because I feel like 💩I'm not sure how patient I'm able to be with her.

If it's not covid I could manage my commitments, but, without knowing, I can't take the risk.

AINBU - cost-free covid tests should still be available
AIBU - we should pay for our own (which in practice means people don't have them in their houses in the same way as we did during the pandemic)

OP posts:
WingBingo · 07/06/2025 12:36

Ablondiebutagoody · 07/06/2025 12:02

Covid isn't really a thing anymore.

It is still a thing. I’ve just had it and I was really ill.

it’s the precautions and behaviour during the pandemic that isn’t a thing anymore.

Createausername1970 · 07/06/2025 13:27

What would you have done in 2019 or before if you had felt unwell?

COVID testing, isolating and lockdown wasn't specifically to stop the spread altogether, it was to slow it down so the NHS didn't get overwhelmed.

That issue has gone, so testing is not necessary. Just do what you would have done if COVID hadn't been a thing.

We will still get coughs, colds, fluey bugs etc, just as we always did.

ThatsNotMyTeen · 07/06/2025 13:30

YABU

They are cheap enough to buy and giving them away free is not necessary. It was ridiculous enough during the pandemic people ordering, stockpiling and jamming the sticks up their hooter every 2 minutes

HarrietPierce · 07/06/2025 13:42

Pack of 5 Covid tests on Amazon is £6.99

sciaticafanatica · 07/06/2025 13:45

Home bargains they are a couple of quid.
but if you are ill I think which illness it is , is irrelevant

WeakAsIAm · 07/06/2025 14:05

Why do you need to know the name of the infection you have?

Will you be able to treat it better if it was Covid opposed to influenza or adenovirus or any other viral infection.

Youre unwell you have symptoms avoid people who would be put at risk until you are well.

You don’t need to have a name for it.

WeakAsIAm · 07/06/2025 14:06

Thistooshallpsss · 07/06/2025 12:30

Surely the point is Covid is more infectious than other viruses I can’t remember the numbers now but that’s partly what makes it so dangerous also it’s not like other respiratory viruses it behaves in some people attacking other organs so I do think it’s really helpful to know if you have it.

Not true at all

AlpacaMittens · 07/06/2025 14:07

No.

BogRollBOGOF · 07/06/2025 14:20

There are some people who need to know the brand of ill they are to access specific medication to help and testing is fair enough in those situations.

For the majority of people, knowing the brand of ill makes no difference. If I'm ill enough to affect my life, stay at home and cancel commitments, I'm taking myself out of situations to spread it anyway. I'll be taking cold/ flu remedies regardless. Knowing if it's a coronavirus, flu, rhinovirus etc makes no practical difference.

The reality is you've been higher risk of spreading before you even knew you were ill. 2020/21 proved that society can't cope with swathes of the population quarantining themselves at the slightest hint of respiritory symptoms, and we've never recovered from that disruption.

In one of the first conferences in March 2020, Chris Whitty said that the eventual outcome would be the illness becoming endemic i.e. just another widespread illness in society.

VickyEadieofThigh · 07/06/2025 14:22

KarmenPQZ · 07/06/2025 11:23

This morning I'm feeling REALLY rough.

does a positive Covid test make a difference? If you’re ill you’re ill. To someone with suppressed immune system a virus is a virus and can make you really ill. Why so fixated on Covid?

Indeed. Any such virus is a risk to a vulnerable person.

RomanCavalryChoir · 07/06/2025 14:53

No, it was phenomenally expensive and we shouldn't still be paying that just so people know whether the thing preventing them from going out is covid or not. Nor am I up for subsidising the sort of person who'd have one up their nose at every sniff. There's still some free test provision for people with certain medical issues, which is as it should be, but not the rest of the population.

Just do as you'd have done in 2019, especially in cases where it makes no difference whether you're infectious with covid or something else.

TeenLifeMum · 07/06/2025 14:57

i was surprised people were still testing until my parents were diagnosed with cancer this year and they have to do tests on treatment days. NHS does provide them. If I’m that ill I act accordingly so it doesn’t really matter if it’s covid or not. However in cancer it appears clinicians do differentiate between covid and a bad cold. Not sure why exactly but I’m assuming there’s a reason.

ladyofshertonabbas · 07/06/2025 14:59

Just treat it like other illnesses and if you feel really ill, avoid people.

Sofiewoo · 07/06/2025 15:01

OP it’s 2025.

Hope that helps.

RomanCavalryChoir · 07/06/2025 15:40

TeenLifeMum · 07/06/2025 14:57

i was surprised people were still testing until my parents were diagnosed with cancer this year and they have to do tests on treatment days. NHS does provide them. If I’m that ill I act accordingly so it doesn’t really matter if it’s covid or not. However in cancer it appears clinicians do differentiate between covid and a bad cold. Not sure why exactly but I’m assuming there’s a reason.

Yeah there are some clinical reasons why it might be recommended, which is fair enough in those cases.

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 07/06/2025 15:41

How would you situation be any different if Covid tests were still free @Happyspendingthedayinthegarden ?

ManchesterLu · 07/06/2025 15:43

KatyaKat · 07/06/2025 11:20

If you're that ill, you shouldn't be 'managing your commitments' anyway - it doesn't matter what you have, you surely would still not risk passing anything on to anyone anyway!

Yeah exactly this. It doesn't matter if you have a heavy cold or "covid". It doesn't matter what you call it, it's still not good to be spreading whatever it is to an elderly woman.

I don't understand what people find so difficult about this!

MolkosTeenageAngst · 07/06/2025 15:45

Why do people think Covid is the only dangerous virus? It could be Covid, it could also be flu, flu is dangerous to the vulnerable and flu tests are available to buy alongside covid ones. It could be RSV or another virus which could be dangerous to the vulnerable. Covid tests are a false sense of security, just because it’s not covid doesn’t mean you should go around spreading it. If you think you have a virus which could be dangerous to a vulnerable person stay away from vulnerable people! People got unwell from viruses and vulnerable people got unwell from viruses and died before Covid!!

fedup1212 · 07/06/2025 15:46

I don’t think they should be, they’re cheap enough from Home Bargains! DP currently has Covid and feels the worst he’s felt. DM also has it and feels dreadful.

We had the tests left over but I will buy more in case the DC come down with it, then I can tell school what it actually is if they need to be off. I’m also just curious as to why I feel like crap.

MargotTenenbaumscoat · 07/06/2025 15:48

Would you escort your friend if you continue to feel crappy but get a negative test?

MyCyanReader · 07/06/2025 15:59

You have a cold/virus.

Wash your hands, wear a mask and carry on if you feel fine.

DitheringBlidiot · 07/06/2025 16:03

If you’re poorly you can’t keep your commitments up, I don’t see what difference it really makes if it’s a cold or Covid at this stage.

DiggyDoodad · 07/06/2025 16:11

BoredZelda · 07/06/2025 11:42

We test because passing a cold to elderly relatives who are immune suppressed is totally different to passing Covid to them. If we have Covid we have a strict no visit rule. If we have a mild cold we might still visit but will ask them if it’s ok. They can deal with a cold, they can’t deal with Covid.

Remember though that the lateral flow Covid tests are unreliable and that it's also possible to have Covid without having any symptoms. Do you still test before every visit, even when you feel 100% fit and well?

nomas · 07/06/2025 16:14

I still use the ones left over from the pandemic. They have expired but still seem accurate.

Chocolateorange22 · 07/06/2025 16:28

I live with an immunosuppressed adult as far as I know we still get them for free but have to fill out a form at the pharmacy. Nobody I know tests and we don't expect those feeling unwell to do so. We only do it as a household so that he can contact 111 and get some antivirals if he tests positive for it.

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