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Pie and a ‘selected’ drink … to think this is an insane cost?

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Ipbual · 06/06/2025 12:34

Recently seen an ‘offer’ of 19 pounds for a pie and selected drink every Thursday evening between 4-7.

This is a standard country pub on the outskirts of an average town.

I absolutely loving eating out and me and dh have a pretty decent income yet we cannot justify paying these prices anymore. If we both ordered this ‘deal’ it would be 38 quid! That’s without a desert or a coffee.

AIBU to think soon these places will collapse? Or are people still happy to spend on it?

OP posts:
MiracleCures · 06/06/2025 18:14

latetothefisting · 06/06/2025 18:04

who is doing the ripping off, exactly?

of that £19, as @Arseynal has pointed out, 20% is VAT so won't be seen by the pub anyway. That leaves £15.20. A decent piece of beef would cost £2-3 just for that, plus all the other ingredients. Staff to cook the pie, waiting staff to bring it to you, staff to wash the plates, glasses, cutlery, plus someone behind the bar to pour the drink, and a regular cleaner. Even if only on minimum wage that's £12.50 per staff member, plus pension, NI, etc to be paid by the company on top.

Cost of cooking the pie, running a dishwasher etc. Cost of lighting and heating the pub. Water bill. Business rates. Delivery costs for everything.
Licensing cost for music in the background. Rent. All the sunk costs - printing menus, buying furniture, toilet paper, bin bags, soap, dishwashing tablets, plates, glasses, cutlery. Presumably you've noticed the costs for all those things going up at home?

Add all up and do you really think many pub owners are making a fortune? Why do you think several pubs are closing every single day in the UK if it's such a lucrative money spinner?

Business rates as well. I was shocked when I learnt how much even a tiny pub or shop will pay in rent and rates

Canshehavewaferthinham · 06/06/2025 18:19

InsomniacSloth · 06/06/2025 18:14

Well that’s a “how long is a piece of string” question, isn’t it?

That depends on what they earn, what their other expenses are and what purposes they prioritise for any disposable income.

Ultimately if you think it’s too expensive even with the offer then you don’t have to eat there. 🤷🏻‍♀️

It is. I am single and earn much less than the OP. But I like to go out for meals and don't have any dependents, don't spend a lot on other things so yes, doable for me-perhaps not for the next person.

oncemoreuntothebeachdearfriends · 06/06/2025 18:20

I'm wondering how much it would be at the grown-up time of 20.00?

IOnlyWantSexMoneyPowerAndRevenge · 06/06/2025 18:23

A popular restaurant by us is having to close after 30years because even with mains now costing £25, they cant cover their costs. 😪 We loved their food but cant spend almost £100 for a normal weekday tea for 3 of us. Instead of a "bit of a treat" it became a "special occassion only".

We use to eat out a lot. I cant remember the last time we did. We don't get many takeaways but I had a heart attack at the cost of the last one we had so I don't think we'll be getting another one anytime soon.

It's really sad and I cant see how its going to get better.

IOnlyWantSexMoneyPowerAndRevenge · 06/06/2025 18:27

Weatherspoons food is crap. It used to be OK for a chain pub. I quite liked their curry nights.

They've decided to reduce the quality/quantity but keep the price the same. They seem as busy as ever here so they've obviously chosen the right approach.

user1497787065 · 06/06/2025 18:30

I have a home made steak and mushroom pie in the oven for our supper. The steak was £14. The pie would probably feed between four and six so I think the price quotes is fair.

Ladychatterly86 · 06/06/2025 18:33

I think that's expensive. Our local farm shop sells an amazing family sized steak and ale pie ( plus other fillings available) which is delicious and full of meat. It costs £9. It takes 45 minutes in the oven. I honestly can't justify eating out for pie and mash/ veg and gravy for that price when you can make the same at home. I'd rather have farm shop pie every week feeding four for the same price as one meal and drink for two. But I get that people are different and will happily pay if they have the means or they prioritise eating pie in pubs over other things.

SabrinaThwaite · 06/06/2025 19:06

MiracleCures · 06/06/2025 18:14

Business rates as well. I was shocked when I learnt how much even a tiny pub or shop will pay in rent and rates

Pubs can at least get 40% business rates relief.

FedupofArsenalgame · 06/06/2025 20:22

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 06/06/2025 17:21

Do they supply a bed, or do you just subside gracefully to the floor?

Haha gotta love autocorrect

Ipbual · 06/06/2025 22:53

We used to go at least once a week, maybe twice. If we did that now it would be in the hundreds each month. We can technically afford it but the amount seems disproportionate to other things, so much so that we now consider it out of reach on a regular basis

OP posts:
Barnbrack · 07/06/2025 00:42

Ipbual · 06/06/2025 22:53

We used to go at least once a week, maybe twice. If we did that now it would be in the hundreds each month. We can technically afford it but the amount seems disproportionate to other things, so much so that we now consider it out of reach on a regular basis

Sounds like you were eating out much more than average previously and may have unrealistic expectations?

We got a bit overindulgent with weekly takeaways for a while and all gained weight and we're spending so much. It's just a habit we got I to through lack of sleep with small kids and long work commutes. But eating a meal out beyond a cafe or fast food twice a week or more is probably quite a lot.

Rvethetgergwtbteh · 07/06/2025 01:27

latetothefisting · 06/06/2025 18:04

who is doing the ripping off, exactly?

of that £19, as @Arseynal has pointed out, 20% is VAT so won't be seen by the pub anyway. That leaves £15.20. A decent piece of beef would cost £2-3 just for that, plus all the other ingredients. Staff to cook the pie, waiting staff to bring it to you, staff to wash the plates, glasses, cutlery, plus someone behind the bar to pour the drink, and a regular cleaner. Even if only on minimum wage that's £12.50 per staff member, plus pension, NI, etc to be paid by the company on top.

Cost of cooking the pie, running a dishwasher etc. Cost of lighting and heating the pub. Water bill. Business rates. Delivery costs for everything.
Licensing cost for music in the background. Rent. All the sunk costs - printing menus, buying furniture, toilet paper, bin bags, soap, dishwashing tablets, plates, glasses, cutlery. Presumably you've noticed the costs for all those things going up at home?

Add all up and do you really think many pub owners are making a fortune? Why do you think several pubs are closing every single day in the UK if it's such a lucrative money spinner?

This is the thing I think, back in the days when the meals were a decent quality/size and the costs were reasonable pubs and restaurants were thriving and not closing down like they are now. The ones we went in had been in business before I was born. They still had all of the same overhead costs too.

Everything has become so over priced in that time, and then those costs trickle down to the customers and then non-essential businesses like pubs and restaurants close.

I don’t have the answers, but I also don’t eat out anymore and I know a lot of people who have stopped too.

TheCoralMoose · 07/06/2025 01:42

Beefeater have a halloumi or chargrilled skewer meal with chips pizette zatzki pepper harissa and greek salad for £16 each and two for £12 cocktails.

I had the halloumi one i dont eat meat or fish it was delicious i had a aperol spritz two for £12.

Much better value.

Redglitter · 07/06/2025 01:45

The 2 restaurants in my village both do home made steak pies, with fresh veg & mash. One is £14 one is £16 taking an average of £15 then £4 for a pint is pretty good

NoSoupForU · 07/06/2025 01:56

I eat out a couple of times a week and the restaurants aren't empty. I know lots have cut back, but equally lots like me haven't.

I'd have always expected to pay about £15 for a pie dinner so the price seems fine to me. And it isn't the law that you must have dessert and/or coffee.

Dizzybob · 07/06/2025 08:42

It seems reasonable to me. Under £20 for a quick dinner out including a drink. What would you expect the cost to be OP?

Tiredofwhataboutery · 07/06/2025 08:47

I don’t eat out anymore but I think comparatively it sounds fine. A glass of wine is a tenner locally and a pie with sides would be 15+ so £19 seems a decent offer sassuming it’s a good pie.

Summerisere · 07/06/2025 08:53

OP can you answer the question is it a lonely mashless, chipless pie or a full pie and mash meal?

MoistVonL · 07/06/2025 09:09

Sounds very reasonable to me. Main course and a drink for under £20 a person is good going these days.

verityveritas · 07/06/2025 09:15

FedupofArsenalgame · 06/06/2025 13:22

My local independent pub does lie and drink for £20

Whaaat? We are charged for lying now….gawd and I thought pubs were one of the few places left we could tell tall tales!

Canshehavewaferthinham · 07/06/2025 23:05

I refuse to engage any further with this thread until OP clarifies if we're talking a pork pie in its packet (they also come in various sizes!), a huge home-made pie with chips or mash and veg, a cottage pie made of last night's leftovers, a pikelet (okay I'm being silly now)...

abracadabra1980 · 08/06/2025 07:51

I own a small business and honestly the costs of hearing the premises and paying staff are astronomical now. I have no idea how publicans survive with such large premises.

Lonelydave · 16/06/2025 17:17

I was going to say that it sounds about right, if you think that a mcD's is £7, double it for a bit of a sit down, nice pub atmosphere, add a drink - it's £19
If min wage is £12 and a bit, you have cook, washer up, prep, waiting staff, bar staff, some manager, so that's £80 an hour, add electric, water, insurance etc.., so pure turn around they will need 4 x 2 tables, just to break even for an hour.

When anyone invites people round for dinner or ever a bbq, it's not just the food, you tidy up, take that bag of crap to the tip which you've been meaning to do for weeks, buy some nice things etc.., so even if you add in the extra petrol and the nice silly lights for later on it's way over £10 per person at a simple home bbq/dinner

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