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AIBU to think I'll never get this money back?

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ThisMustBeMyDream · 05/06/2025 10:10

I did a current account switch at the start of May, which they had the date of 19th May for the switch over (it was the earliest date they offered). I had to do a switch as I needed a joint account arranging and my current bank were being a nightmare over it.
Anyway, since the switch I've had endless problems with refunds. I'm at a loss as to how to sort this out as I'm being passed from pillar to post.
If anyone has any advice, I'd really appreciate it!
First issue is with a refund from Monsoon for undelivered goods of £191. Lots of back and forth with Monsoon and them delaying refunding me meant I started a dispute with my then bank (RBS) on 14th May. I was aware my switch date was coming and wanted to get it sorted asap. As it was, Monsoon finally agreed the refund on 20th May. Initially they refunded only 2 of the items as they misread the quantity (I ordered two suits in the same size, and one in another size). I contacted Monsoon immediately on 20th May when I received the refund confirmation email and they apologised and send the remaining refund. On 22nd May that refund was made in to my new current account (first direct) but redirected from the RBS account. I know it was from Monsoon directly as it was for the 2 seperate amounts as I've detailed above.
On the same day (22nd May), RBS emailed me an update for the dispute saying they were issuing a refund of the total amount. This was never recieved in my first direct account. Obviously my RBS account was now closed, so any refunds should have been sent to my first direct account. Once your account is closed under the switch scheme (you have no choice on this) you no longer have access online to any of your statements etc. So I have no way of knowing if RBS put this money in to the closed RBS account or not. But nothing other than the refund from Monsoon was recieved in to my first direct account.
Yesterday, the two amounts credited by Monsoon were debited back out. After discussion with both RBS and First Direct, I'm basically getting nowhere. First Direct tell me that the money was requested by RBS. RBS dispute team are confused as hell, don't understand the issue, and just keep saying it's a closed account so we can't see what has happened. They wre ringing me back later, but as things stand it feels like I'm not going to be getting this money back. I cant understand how things have gone so wrong! Can anyone advise on what to say to make them understand? I have been waiting nearly 3 weeks for them to send me a statement as it has to be paper. So that isn't helping matters either!
I have another refund problem too, but as this is so long now I'm not even going to go in to that one!
Please help, I'm £250 down in total, and getting nowhere!

I should also add, please be gentle. Im currently very stressed as I'm getting married in 7 weeks and as of 3 days ago, have no dress as the alterations have all gone wrong with the bridal shop/seamstress! So I've got that huge issue to deal with alongside all the usual wedding issues. This is just another big stress on an already hugely stressed person!

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S0j0urn4r · 05/06/2025 11:57

Banking ombudsman?

Derbee · 05/06/2025 12:02

Put in writing that you feel you are being passed from pillar to post, and will contact the financial ombudsman. I think you need to give them 8 weeks to resolve your issue after raising an official complaint before you can self refer to the ombudsman.

Twice it’s been the only way we’ve resolved banking issues which had left us massively out of pocket. Frustrating, but the ombudsman will put things right in time.

ReturnsAdministrator · 05/06/2025 16:12

Can I suggest you contact Monsoon and ask them for the payment merchant transaction ID. The transaction ID will make it easier for both banks to locate the transaction.
I have a customer who I issued a refund to 3 months ago who hasn’t received it yet as he had received a new card and most refunds go back onto the original payment method. Getting the transaction ID has helped move things along.
Also, some companies can refund over the telephone directly onto a card of you choice (we can) so might be worth asking if Monsoon can recall the refund and pay it directly onto your card.
Good luck

Mummyto3ginismyfriend · 05/06/2025 18:50

Your best bet is to email RBS with a formal complaint. This is totally an RBS issue. They can totally get the refund into your new account. I've worked in banking for 22 years.
RBS will have 15 days to resolve your complaint and after that you can go to the ombudsman. It's shorter timescales as it's payment related.

Pengwuin · 06/06/2025 01:35

Contact BBC three counties radio for the JVS Show Consumer Programme. They deal with issues like this all the time.

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