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Stop releasing helium balloons in memory of

143 replies

Fiis · 01/06/2025 15:51

Plus seen weddings, gender reveals etc with this too.

Balloons do not go to heaven. They float c. 50 miles, depending on wind conditions, then pop as hit a certain height.

The balloon remains fall to earth, usually in a field. Farm animals have eaten them and reports of them dying,

If you want to remember someone, do something permanent such as planting a tree, lighting candles at home etc

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Pricelessadvice · 01/06/2025 18:59

Hufflemuff · 01/06/2025 16:46

Yep and farm animals could eat a plastic bottle cap and die too... the world's full of plastic crap unfortunately. I think its highly unlikely the balloons will reach a farm.

I'm in favour of doing it if it will help someone's grief or be part of a celebration.

This is going along the same lines of "we should ban fireworks because it upsets my dog".

How utterly selfish. I despair of the human race.

tuvamoodyson · 01/06/2025 18:59

Paintbench · 01/06/2025 15:52

Last time I was aware of someone doing this… it was about 15 years ago on a tv programme
Not aware of anyone doing it now

Happens all the time! Usually, imo, some teenagers has been killed in a car crash/murdered, his friends and family gather in some nearby park to let balloons off…I detest these types of ‘tributes’

NormasArse · 01/06/2025 19:02

HangryLikeTheHulk · 01/06/2025 16:39

And fuck your balloon arch and your giant birthday numbers. Fuck them up your arse.

You’d need a massive arsehole…

tuvamoodyson · 01/06/2025 19:04

Hufflemuff · 01/06/2025 16:46

Yep and farm animals could eat a plastic bottle cap and die too... the world's full of plastic crap unfortunately. I think its highly unlikely the balloons will reach a farm.

I'm in favour of doing it if it will help someone's grief or be part of a celebration.

This is going along the same lines of "we should ban fireworks because it upsets my dog".

So, they have to land somewhere, but it would be unlikely to be a farm?! Why do you think that?

Fiis · 01/06/2025 19:06

LaLaLaLavaChChChChicken · 01/06/2025 18:24

Adding an extra fuck you to those who have the balloon arch or giant numbers for a day, then give them away on FB the next day.

See this all the time!

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tuvamoodyson · 01/06/2025 19:07

KatiMaus · 01/06/2025 17:06

If you believe it's unlikely that they end up in fields where animals live, where exactly do you believe the majority of this shit goes? To heaven?

As Judge Judy says ‘looks fade but dumb is forever’

NormasArse · 01/06/2025 19:07

They’re often stuck in trees, flapping about. I saw one during Covid, and it’s still there.

HÆLTHEPAIN · 01/06/2025 19:10

I agree. My SIL insists on doing it every year on my FIL’s birthday or anniversary of his death and it absolutely pisses me off no end. And makes me cringe inside out too, when she posts it all on FB.

I absolutely love her to bits (I appreciate it may not sound like it, but I do), we get on so well and agree on most things but this one thing I just cannot get on board with. And I can’t say anything because I don’t want to cause any drama or ill feeling.

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 01/06/2025 19:11

user1473878824 · 01/06/2025 16:15

What four percent voting think murdering farm animals in a slow and painful way is reasonable?!?!

This. ^ Who on earth is voting YABU?! Confused

@Fiis YANBU absolutely. Bloody things need consigning to the history books!

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 01/06/2025 19:12

Iwantsandybeachesandgoodfood · 01/06/2025 16:21

I asked a florist for a couple of balloons for my dads funeral a few years ago (please don’t jump on me, it didn’t occur to me to think of where they’ll end up) and the florist said she couldn’t sell them to me if I was planning on “releasing them” as she considered in unethical. I obviously didn’t go ahead with releasing them. Hopefully more people will take this stance.

Good for you for not going ahead with it. Sorry to hear about your dad. Flowers

Spies · 01/06/2025 19:13

And makes me cringe inside out too, when she posts it all on FB.

This is the other part that's irritating, the kind of people who do this always post it on social media because it's done for likes and views.

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 01/06/2025 19:13

HangryLikeTheHulk · 01/06/2025 16:39

And fuck your balloon arch and your giant birthday numbers. Fuck them up your arse.

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ScupperedbytheSea · 01/06/2025 19:14

Spies · 01/06/2025 18:31

I'm surprised you've missed it. Theres been lots of examples in the news even if you've not seen anything locally.

I do remember a thing many years ago about not using Chinese lanterns, but honestly this is news to me. I obviously need to emerge from under my rock.

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 01/06/2025 19:14

HangryLikeTheHulk · 01/06/2025 16:40

I can’t help thinking that a gender reveal is pulling your pants down in public.

Seriously, stop it!!! 😂

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 01/06/2025 19:15

Hufflemuff · 01/06/2025 16:46

Yep and farm animals could eat a plastic bottle cap and die too... the world's full of plastic crap unfortunately. I think its highly unlikely the balloons will reach a farm.

I'm in favour of doing it if it will help someone's grief or be part of a celebration.

This is going along the same lines of "we should ban fireworks because it upsets my dog".

Confused I don't even know where to start with this post!

Pricelessadvice · 01/06/2025 19:16

We have a farm that we now run as a livery yard and I often have to go and retrieve balloons or Chinese lanterns from our fields and hedges.

A local lad was killed recently and they had a mass release of balloons. What good does anyone think this does? Does watching balloons floating up into the sky really give anyone any comfort?? Or is at all just for the social media pictures…

Glitchymn1 · 01/06/2025 19:19

I can’t think of anything worse than knowing my death resulted in something else dying or suffering. I don’t want balloons or fireworks.

I’m sorry to those who have lost loved ones, I hope you can find something that brings you comfort.

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 01/06/2025 19:20

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 01/06/2025 18:31

The Chinese, presumably. 🤔

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RedVanYellowVan · 01/06/2025 19:22

There's been a balloon stuck in a tree near me for at least 20 years. It's caught in twiggy bits at the top and it's too high to reach in any way, short of hiring a cherry picker. It has slightly faded but shows no signs of disintegrating.

A horse a few miles away died a couple of years ago after trying to eat the remains of a lantern.

We have retrieved at least four balloons stuck in undergrowth this year when we have been walking locally.

People who release them are just mindless and selfish idiots.

Everydayimhuffling · 01/06/2025 19:23

It's also a terrible waste of helium which is needed for medical equipment. Helium balloons should be illegal, and the stockpile of helium sold back to medical establishments.

Dramatic · 01/06/2025 19:25

ExtraOnions · 01/06/2025 17:10

When someone dies in an accident, it’s a mass balloon release. Couple of teenagers died the other week, round here, rose a stolen motorbike into a car, one without any sort of crash helmet on.

Got the usual “cheeky chappy” bullshit.. and a load of balloons got released, to choke a few animals to death.

What is the point? I think it’s performative grieving … started with Princess Di, and has never really left us.

We had the exact same scenario last summer, two teenage lads (known criminals who terrorised and bullied the whole community) died after crashing their stolen bike, hundreds of balloons were released and then unbelievably they got together a load of bikes and revved them as loud as they could.

Lindajonesjustcantlivemylife · 01/06/2025 19:41

Never understood the sending of a naked flame into the big blue yonder... what could possibly go wrong.

CaptainMyCaptain · 01/06/2025 19:44

Paintbench · 01/06/2025 15:52

Last time I was aware of someone doing this… it was about 15 years ago on a tv programme
Not aware of anyone doing it now

I can assure you people are still doing it

Overthebow · 01/06/2025 19:49

I don’t get it at all. Someone dies and to celebrate that person/remember them after death balloons are released, they go up for a bit then crash back down to earth causing more death. Why would anyone think that’s a nice thing to do for someone?

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