My primary school aged child has sensory issues around food and recently went on a residential trip. Prior to the trip I tried to arrange a meeting with the organising teacher and she didn’t respond to my email. I saw her at pick up and she said she’s very busy and apologised. I told her it’s completely fine as I work in a school and understand how busy things are. In passing I briefly told her about my child’s food issues and she reassured me it would be fine and kitchen staff are happy to make changes. I’ve just been told by another parent that my daughter was crying that night when that particular food item was on the menu and kitchen staff were happy to make a cheese sandwich instead but the organising teacher shouted at her! My dd never told me but she just confirmed it’s true.
I don’t know how to handle this. I usually just let things go as DH tells me not to make a fuss. Would you let this go? Would you email the teacher? What would you do.