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Should I worry about toddler falling over stairs hand bannister

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ForRubyMoose · 30/05/2025 19:19

On my landing in my house I have terrace Victorian house with spindles and a hand banister at the top of the stairs.

Should I be worried the toddler will try to climb over the hand bannister and fall down the stairs?

Not my house in the picture but hard to describe.

Should I worry about toddler falling over stairs hand bannister
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ForRubyMoose · 30/05/2025 19:45

pimplebum · 30/05/2025 19:43

How would a toddler climb over banister??
stairgate top and bottom is enough

Same way they climb over stairs gates

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SantaToSSD · 30/05/2025 19:58

My eldest would climb out of his cot, could climb over the stairgate and would even open drawers in my bedside table to create a ladder to climb onto my bed. But he never attempted to climb over the banisters.

ForRubyMoose · 30/05/2025 20:05

SantaToSSD · 30/05/2025 19:58

My eldest would climb out of his cot, could climb over the stairgate and would even open drawers in my bedside table to create a ladder to climb onto my bed. But he never attempted to climb over the banisters.

Thank you

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MargaretThursday · 30/05/2025 20:57

Depends on the dc as to whether it's a risk.

Ds was climbing out of his cot aged 7 months wearing a sleeping bag. However he never tried to climb the banisters, although they were horizontal not vertical so easy to climb. He climbed with a purpose.
Dd2 was much more tricky because she climbed because it was there. I had an old duvet cover that I fastened over the banisters with a safety pin to make it harder until she was old enough to have some common sense (I think she has some now - she's 21, so maybe I should take it down now😁 )
Dd1 never climbed anything. Heck, it took her a month after moving to a bed to realise she could climb out rather than calling for us.

Birch101 · 30/05/2025 21:09

We have that and not an issue obviously don't have anything they can climb up - chair, bookcase, next to it

And position safety gate appropriately

Marble10 · 30/05/2025 22:54

My youngest DC is 6 now and the second he starts to stir or even breathing changes, I hear him. I wish I could turn my mum radar off, but it’s never been a fear he would get up without me hearing him. The joys of having children -nnever sleeping properly again!

HarrietSchulenberg · 30/05/2025 23:05

I've raised three boys to adulthood in a house with syairs exactly like these. We had a stairgate at the top and bottom. We also told them very early on that climbing would be very dangerous and told them they would have to go to hospital for a very long time if they climbed and fell, which was a great deterrent. Unfortunately, as teenagers they all "forgot" this and all were caught clambering at various times. Threats of removing cherished items put a stop to that.

Funnyduck60 · 30/05/2025 23:19

Make sure to never leave anything they could climb on and put a well fitted stair gate on. Look at legal requirements for height and distance between spindles just to make sure its compliant as its an old house. Also a toddler shouldn't be left unsupervised for long anyway. I have a galleried landing and never had a problem with DC climbing up it.

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